Is it weird that I don’t care if my boyfriend watches porn?

[Anonymous]

I was always the jealous type who said my boyfriend can’t follow naked girls on Instagram or watch porn.

But my boyfriend asked me if I would feel upset that he watched porn or looked at naked girls online and it genuinely doesn’t bother me.

I understand that women are beautiful and I will also appreciate a good looking man. I also understand my boyfriend has a high libido.

In my head I know he doesn’t want anyone like he wants me and I’m the woman who will bring his sexual fantasies to life. And that’s all I care about.

Is that weird? I don’t know.

[mstbooblover]

That's question is a bit more complicated than it seems at first. Most people, and certainly nearly all males, have what is called sexual curiosity. In order to have a good relation with a girl, a guy needs first of all be interested in the female gender. Once the relation established, there's no reason for the sexual curiosity to just disappear. Watching porn is a nice alternative to satisfy that curiosity, and I'm sure that it would be really nice for a guy to have his girlfriend watching and enjoying with him.

My wife didn't like me watching porn. It seems women feel as if they weren't good enough anymore, which is a stupid idea, but that feeling on behalf of the ladies is not reasoned. I think the ideal situation is watching together, or letting the guy have his porn ratio in order for his girlfriend to take advantage of his arousal ;0)

Yes, I know this doesn't work for everyone, but knowing guys will anyway continue secretely to watch porn, sure is that in order to avoid useless arguments, the best way to deal with the situation is to live with it and take advantage.

It's also true that when children run around the house, some precautions must be taken to avoid them being confronted with porn to early in their life. The same is nevertheless true with their parent's privacy. These are still other difficult topics.

[TwiNshichamp1]

No, Is not weird at all. The matter is if he watches pornography and feels bad after, or it got to a point he is addicted to it. Trust me they are other married forks still watching porn and everything in marriage is fine and they are other who get tired of their wives and likes to masturbate on the girls they see on the internet.

So it depends if your relationship with him is still okay or not. If is fine it's alright even others watch together. But if not that is a toxin to your relationship, perhaps he will dump you and find other girls with big butts, big boobs or other thing he likes which he daily see on Internet.

[Asker]

I think he likes me for who I am and likes my body for me. That’s how he makes me feel and that’s why I’m not bothered.

[TwiNshichamp1]

Okay good for you guys then!!

[Asker]

Thanks

[erandal]

It doesn't worry me when my husband watches porn as long as it's nothing weird. We have a pretty good sex life but sometimes we don't get the opportunity to do anything together and often have to sort ourselves out when we get the opportunity and that usually involves watching some porn.

[Smashingdoozy]

I never really understood how people see it as cheating. I mean I'm not a fan of the pron industry and how awful people in it are treated but I'm also aware that sometimes you just want alone time and looking at something is better for that

[laurieluvsit]

I don't care who watches porn but if I am on a date I don't want to be ignored for porn, that's rude.

[Guy13]

Weird so I guess you guys are a good fit. And, I’m glad you’re off the Market🙃

[Asker]

Lol hopefully I stay off the market. I don’t want to lose him. We have fights sometimes and it scares me.

[Guy13]

He be a fool if I remember you from the past... If he does, you should try the "States"...:better accents too :)

[Asker]

Loooool okay

[Gent207]

You will care once he realizes that real sex is not like porn at all and he Suffers early ED problems.

[rachel776]

i never care either

[summiter]

I think it is great that he spoke with you about it and yes most guys will look at porn even those in a relationship. Do you think he jerks off to the porn like most guys? Otherwise how is your sex life with him?

[Berethor]

Technically porn is just movies, so it make sense, he didn't even know those girls.

[mandyfire98]

It's not weird

[Bratsondanielle]

It's not weird. Lots of couples watch porn together

[Dinklex3]

No, there's quite a few of us who don't.

[Sarahr123]

I think he’s too obsessed with me to watch porn and that’s the way I like it

[slatyb]

No, it's not weird, that's a healthy unemotional reaction. Porn is just a movie about sex. He can find it arousing without finding any of the actors particularly attractive. It's normal for people in relationships to find other people attractive. It's silly to imagine that somehow that stops because they have a partner.

[slatyb]

And even if he does find one of the actors quite attractive? So what? She’s not available to him,. and he knows that. I’m strongly attracted to some women I’ve actually met but they aren’t available to me. Even if they were, I’m not going to blow up my life for some fantasy. Adults realize that there is no magic sex.

[Asker]

But I feel like at the end of the day he truly only wants me.

[slatyb]

And you are almost certainly right.

[Kaneki05]

Nope that's normal when you don't let jealously cloud judgement.

[20yearsolder]

It's not weird at all, you've gotten to the point that you trust your boyfriend and come to the realization that he's never going to have sex with one of those porn stars. It can actually benefit you, if he's watching porn and gets all turned on and then you get the pleasure of his excitement.

[Asker]

Yes exactly

[20yearsolder]

And if you enjoy watching porn, he benefits from you being all horny

[Asker]

Lol I’m always horny

[20yearsolder]

Nothing wrong with that, have you two ever watched porn together

[Asker]

Not yet lol

[20yearsolder]

Can I PM you

[Asker]

About what?

[hyperben]

sounds like you're in a good, healthy place

[AviatorTom]

Not weird at all.

[RealMarek]

I wonder if you’re making a lot of exceptions and changing your standards of behavior for this particular guy.

[Asker]

I always thought I’d never allow it but with him it just doesn’t bother me.

[RealMarek]

I know it’s very common, but I have seen porn mess a lot of guys and a lot of relationships up. I’ve also seen a lot of women drop their standards for men who treat them with a bit of disrespect. The reasons for this are complex. You’ll have to be the judge of whether this man is worth it or if there are problems. I hope you’ll be careful and vigilant.

[Asker]

I understand. He makes me feel secure and I think that’s why I’m ok with it

[FunkyMonkee]

Nope. Watch ii with him and you'll both get horny and want to try some of the stuff you see in them.

[countrygirl8754]

For me it is weird because I'm the jealous type of person and because I got cheated on several damn times I feel like one day he will cheat on me to. I should be the one who he wants to look at and have sex with or masturbate to. Not anyone else that is just my opinion

[ShortnsexyKay]

I also really don't Care.

[Hairylegs222]

Not weird but it's concerning he still watches porn when he has you. I don't need porn anymore when I have a girlfriend and just focus on her.