Is it weird that I'm 34 years old and have only slept with 1 man?

I'm currently in a new relationship and the number will eventually change to 2 in the near future. We're taking things at a natural and slow pace for the meantime.

The guy that I lost it to many years ago was an awful person and I've blocked him. So honestly is it weird that at the age of 34 (for a woman), my count is only 1?
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  • No not at all.
    That is a good thing.
    God Bless

  • very weird

    your 20's and 30's are for fooling around, getting to know who you connect with the best... just as long as you're not "cheating" by being in relationships with all of them. so, to have only one partner at 34, seems a little odd

    • I waited for nothing. I got used in every single way, not just physically (for sex) but emotionally too and he'll never pay my money back. He was after my money too.

  • It's not a lot but it's fine! Have fun with lucky nr 2!!!

    • Thank you

    • Makes sure he makes you enjoy q lot qnd not just him

  • I guess that depends on why

    • I was lied and played with by a sociopath that never wanted marriage. He was after my wealth/status and my grandma's money too.

    • I waited years for nothing.

    • Yea that's weird

  • Not at all

  • Nope.

  • That's not weird if you've been in long term relationships or just don't want to have casual sex. Do what feels right for you and don't worry about what other people are doing.

  • it is very unusual, do you wish the count was higher? If you do, it's OK... life is short, have fun...

    • No I don't wish it was higher. I want to get it right with my new boyfriend. I hope he is the right guy. One of my dreams if to become a mother for the first time. I would like to have a child.

    • You could always follow the “traditional” type and wait till you’re married. Yeah, society often scoffs at that notion. But remember what I previously mentioned in my initial comment about society. I waited till I was married and have ZERO regrets. At the end of the day, though, it’s your life.

    • @all_hayl I actually agree with the suggestion. Thank you and this time I'll do what I should've done long ago with my first relationship (he would've disappeared fast and I would've avoided that bad experience); I'll wait till marriage.

  • Were you with the first guy for a long time?

    • I was and he lied to me about wanting marriage and kids. He scammed me with money too. He won't pay back my money either.

    • That's horrible, I'm so sorry

    • It's ok. I got rid of him. Hopefully I get it right this time. My current new boyfriend and I are taking things at a natural pace. We're not rushing thing. I have to admit that I still would like a child. Being a mother (and experiencing pregnancy for the first time ever) would be one of my dreams.

  • il be 99 and saying the same as you, at least ur not an ugly male

  • Absolutely not you should be really proud

    • Thank you. Hopefully I'm right about my selection this time (given that this time my parents, friends and other approved it and they all like him) and it progresses as time passes.

    • Good for you girl

  • no. not at all.


  • Well hun you not by your self or alone of I man
    You need a friend who you can be open with share fantasies and experiences
    Get loose open up about what you want eat your pussy tongue fuck your ass
    Pussy fucked slow but hard . things you willing to do or try
    Nothing wrong being open to a stranger fantasy maturbating cum together

    • We're taking things slow for the meantime. Having sex right now would be too soon for me.

    • I understand ever like to chat pm me

  • that's a good thing

  • No, that shows she has morals and self respect.
    She is loyal.

  • Less libido?

    • Not really. I'm just very reserved when it comes to sex. If I get it right this time and he's the right man, I'm all into it. Though I don't want just sex. I want a family too.

  • I’m 38 and I haven’t slept with any man.

  • It’s unusual unless married young and now divorced , my count is only 6 so far

    • yeah... long ago I thought I would marry him. He made me waste my time. By now I would've been married and my child would probably be 10 years old. Oh well. Hopefully things go well this time.

    • Yeah hopefully, you are probably wiser now with age

    • That's true. With age comes knowledge.