Is it weird to be a virgin at 17 (female)?

Hello everyone,

I turn 17 in a week.. and I'm still a virgin. I have had guys ask to have sex, I've even had a boyfriend, but I couldn't do it. I'm too anxious and don't feel ready. Is this weird?

BONUS QUESTION: Are men turned off by virgins? Like, if I were to date a guy and he found out I was a virgin, would it be a dealbreaker?
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Most Helpful Girls

  • No and please don't listen to men who put a value on virginity. It's a sick fucked up thing to do. Virginity is just a way to shame people into having this invisible "purity" it doesn't mean shit. Dont feel pressure to have sex with anyone especially a guy who gets all giddy because you're a virgin. Just take your time and when the right person comes along you'll know. Dont stress girl its really no big deal

  • No it is not weird, trust me. Just have sex when you're ready, and with someone you know and you trust. It is not weird to want to wait.

Most Helpful Guys

  • There is nothing wrong with being a virgin until you are sure you want that to change. Most people, and I do mean most people, lose their virginity due to peer pressure. Everyone else is doing it so I have to as well. For anyone who says the first time is not a big deal, I'm sure the men and women who lost it against their will would disagree.

  • It might be weird if you are drop dead gorgeous. Good looking girls , many times, have always been that way, and more likely to have had many boys or men trying to fuck them. So the prettier a girl is, the less likely she remains a virgin.

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  • My wife was a virgin until our wedding day in her mid 20s.

  • I don't think so and im 19 and a virgin never had sex before

  • The good thing about virgin is that the guy with you will be the first and only and that will be nice for him

  • No it's not, just be who you are.

  • Nothing but good.

  • A virgin is in fact a huge plus (at least for me) because then it will be easier to please them in bed.
    Besides: Couples that share their virginity with each other are less likely to be divorced.

  • It’s perfectly normal to be a virgin at any age.

    There are men out there that are turned on but virgins

    You’re perfect just being you, ok?
    Good girl

  • Only if you think so.

    You make your own path in life.

  • I had sex for the first time when I was 24. Would that make you not wanting to have sex with me?

  • I prefer a virgin.
    I take sex and relationships very cautiously and seriously, and I prefer a girl who also does.

  • It's uncommon, but not weird.
    And no, most men don't care if you're a virgin

  • It's normal, you'll lose it when you're ready to the person right for you

  • Weird, no.
    Wise, maybe.

  • No, besides virgin women never go out of style no matter the age.

  • No its fine especially for girls

  • Not at all weird

  • Not weird. Unusual, because most girls are sluts.

  • its not bad at all, I'm virgin at 26
    and I will prefer virgin girl for marriage

  • I've always wondered how tf that could ever be seen as weird? Try again at 25 or something like that

  • You have sex when you are ready. Some girls start at 16 or younger and others in their 20's.

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