Sexual Relationships 
Sexual Health Is it wrong that I refuse to send my husband nudes?
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My husband goes away on business a lot with this new job he's started. Recently he asked if I could do something special for him when he's away that take sexy pics or have "Skype sex" with him. I told him no after thinking about it for awhile. My friend says that I'm being ridiculous and that I need to loosen up or he's going to start cheating/leave me. What do you think?
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18 30Like Martin Luther (not king) once said "If it does no go in the wife or the hand, it will go in the whore " loose translation, but you get the point.
Oh my god.
This is your husband?
Your friend is right. If he's not out banging strange consider yourself extremely lucky.
No you do not have to if your not comfortable with it he just has to exsept it
No its not wrong if you don't feel comfortable doing it then don't
You don't have to do anything that makes you uncomfortable but at the same time, he's your husband and you should be able to trust him. Maybe send him tasty lingerie shots so you're not nude?
Ohh okk why did you say no? You don't love him?
sometimes its about your willingness to do that, not the actual sexual gratification it can bring.
Bordering on a crime
If he won't get it from you he's gonna get it elsewhere
I dont know, its really complicated. You should listen yourself not others (others just others)
um nope
If he is your husband and I was you I would do it... sometimes you have to get out of your own zone to please your significant other...
Don't do it, it's too easy to get caught up and embarrassed. If he wants nudes let him wait until he gets back home. Don't put yourself at risk for anybody, not even your husband. Things happen.
It depends (don’t you love that answer?).
If you’re not comfortable with it, then you should tell him, and why. If it’s because you’re afraid they’ll get out, then consider taking Polaroid-type pics without your face, and sneak them into his luggage.
If it’s sexual incompatibility, then you REALLY need to talk to him about it. Eventually, down the road, his asking you to fulfill his needs will turn into begging. Or, it will seem that way to him. THAT…that right there…will take him down the road to cheating. And, if that’s something that wasn’t talked about early on, then you own some of the blame. Not all, not even half…but some of it.
No, you’re not there to serve his sexual appetite. But, a physical relationship is fundamental to marriage. If there is a mismatch, you need to address it as quickly as you would address the slob/neat freak mismatch.
Several things most likely he wants something to think about late at night
not wrong at all
Its totally fine, you don't have to. Just remember broadband provides a great porno service which he'll turn to.
Don't even need broadbands...4G or 5G is more hen enough... Lots of free porn sites
Yeah, who you saving that body for?
Why son't you want to? You should Skype sex with him, it should be fun. In fact, don't even tell him that you've changed your mind, just surprise him.
don't*
only do it if YOU want to! you shouldn't do something you feel uncomfortable with just because your friends or husband say so.
Talk to your husband about this and maybe try to find an other solution :)