Is it wrong to have rape fantasies?

Ok so I’m a submissive by nature and the idea of doing a rape scene with a partner is very arousing to me. To have him force me down, rough me up and have his way gets me all kinds of excited. Is this wrong? Why does such a thing excite me where in real life such a thing is horrific!
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  • Nothing wrong with that. I always want him to be dominant and rough with me.

    • good girl

  • It’s one of the most common fantasies.

  • I think most girls have some type of rape fantasy

  • Nope, very normal to me, since most girls I've been with wanted this fantasy fulfilled by me. But you have to fully trust the person you're allowing to sort of "rape" you, because your fantasy could turn into a nightmare

  • That is perhaps the most common female sexual fantasy. Since yours involves your partner, you can realize yours, more or less, as often as you like. Tell your partner to stop asking you and just do what he wants. Have a safe word.

  • You mean "manhandled" not "raped" deary.

    But maybe give BDSM a try. There might be something local to you depending where you live.

  • It can lead to some dark scary places. You may want too explore other ways of sorting out the kinks

  • Rape fantasies are disgusting and disrespectful to real rape victims and no one will convince me otherwise. Sick ass individuals.

  • What you have is a desire to be dominated sexually... that's not a rape fantasy.

    Rape is really not about sex, it's about power and control over someone against their will. It's a serious crime, both illegal and immoral.

  • Nope. Long as everyone is freely consenting and respects boundaries, it's all good. Just a harmless kink.

  • You should really be very careful. Having fantasies, as some people here already wrote, is a typical human phenomenon. No problem as long as you're able to keep control of those fantasies.
    If you have in mind role playing, which implies consenting adults, I understand it can be real fun, because it's playing. Even BDSM, why not, as long as things are kept under control.
    Real rapes on the other hand happen never with consenting people, and are generally horrible, as are the consequences for the victims.

  • It is not wrong. More women than you think have the same fantasy. You should act it out only with someone you totally trust.

  • No it's not wrong at all. I also have lots of fantasies of getting raped

  • You might just be into dominant male partners. Don't overthink it. As long as we have consent in equation, it's safe.

  • Nope it's not wrong it's actually really fucking hot especially if the two of you have in the beginning a word that is if that person uses that word ever in the relationship while doing something sexual they stop immediately I'm sure you know about that you're a mistress but now I think rape fantasies are incredibly hot I've actually always thought what it would be like to have a woman take absolute control of me or a couple women and forced me and tie me up and so forth

  • It is a fantasy. You have sanitized it and romanticized it in your mind. You do realize that rape is not about sex, right?

  • Fantasies are not wrong. This fantasy is very common. It must be a primal thing.

  • Have them all you want. You will not get me involved in any way ever.

  • No at all..

    You deserve to get to play rape roleplay with safe word and a very sexy men having his way with you in a controlled environment

  • It's not wrong, there is such a thing as consensual non-consent.

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