Is it wrong to lie to my boyfriend about being on birth control so that I can have a baby?

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  • Really? You are really asking if this is "wrong"? You've got to be kidding me.

  • Having a baby at an unready age will destroy his dream. Taken from my father.

  • Yeah. Thats a very terrible thing. Like, fuck u.

    • Right?

  • Yes, it is.

  • You mean is it wrong to lie and deceive? Of course it is. You’re a sexual predator

  • It's rape, since he didn't consent to unprotected sex or its consequences.

    And for anyone wondering, stealthing is also rape.

  • Of course it's wrong. What would not be wrong is if you have a child through deception and that child grows up to hate your guts, for you would deserve it.

  • Please say you are trolling.

    Because that is SO, SO, SO wrong.

  • Yes, it's wrong. I can't even think of a reason why this would be justified. A baby is a responsibility, and if your boyfriend isn't ready for that responsibility and you lie to him about being on birth control to have a baby, and he finds out you lied to him. It's not going to end up well. You're still young wait until he's ready.

  • Yes you should try to be honest with him on all things.

  • Absolutely wrong.

  • It's wrong on so many levels.
    Not sure why this is even a question.. Did you lose some common sense?

    • probably never even had any to lose hehehe

  • Yes, it's deception and also forces him into a situation where he will be responsible for something that he didn't agree too. As another way to look at it, is it wrong for a guy to intentionally slip a condom to get her pregnant, of course. In fact the second scenario has been construed as rape. As she never consented to unprotected sex, why is it okay to mislead him into thinking that he is having protected sex when he is not?

  • Thats a whole new kind of messed up

  • If I ran the world it would be legal for him to shoot you for it

  • This is so wrong it's not even funny anymore

  • Yes, it’s incredibly wrong! It’s incredibly selfish because you are ruining his life, even if he has nothing to do with the kid he still has to pay child support until it’s 18. And if you want to have a baby to make him stay with you, you’re in for a nasty wake up call because he won’t stay, and he will hate you. Not to mention this will totally fuck up the kid if you have one. If you’re that desperate for a baby go to a sperm bank.

  • Yes. That is a shitty move.

  • This question is so goddamn stupid that I assume you're just trolling.

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