Is it wrong to lose my virginity during a one night stand?

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I mean I kinda wanna lose it+ I could if i really wanted to:)

ChrisMaster69 · Accepted Answer

I have my own views on virginity. However in regards to your question.

I would personally wait for the right person that you have an emotional connection with.

There is also the entire STD side of things,

having a guy with whom you can both have a. Sex health check up with, knowing you are both clear and safe.

then both working together to make the first time more than some random stranger.

There is also the thing of hymen or no hymen, used toys or not thing.

It is your body and you can do as you wish, however you need to think ahead a bit, when you look back at memories of key events, such as your first time.

think about it, and think about who would be that special someone you would share with.

also think STD, condoms, birth control, safety from simply being used and lied to from a one night stand.

ohshee · Accepted Answer

Here's the thing about one night stands and here's the thing about being a virgin are the one night stand 9 1/2 times out of 10 you're going to pick the wrong guy and he's going to make it all about himself when he does that it's going to take him three minutes he's done and it's over with and your looking in the mirror saying WTF did I just do that sucked if that's what it's all about forget it just make sure when you are ready that the guy makes it all about you so you can get the full feeling of what it's all about not a wham-bam thank-you ma'am you want a guy that's going to make it all about you and Turn you inside out and make you go to heaven that's what you want

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

It’s not wrong, just be mentally prepared for whatever the outcome may be. You’ve never hooked up with anyone before so it may seem like a walk in the park to just lose it during a one night stand but a lot of energy and emotion is exchanged during sex. The least you can do for yourself is share that experience with someone you care for and trust, not some random dude whom you don’t even know what he’s been exposed to in the past.

Destiel_24 · Accepted Answer

Virginity sucks, like it doesn’t matter really, you can do whatever you want with your body and if you wanna lose it during a one night stand and you are sure just do it

SecretsofKB · Answer

No it's not wrong. That's how I lost mine. You are basically flipping a coin on the quality of individual though, so just be ready for that.

AmandaYVR · Answer

Are you sure about that? Girls tend to regret it quite often. And even some guys, when they grow up to be men, think, "Why did I pick that person, that time?"

MissGeorgia · Answer

You can sleep with whoever you choose. If that’s what you want, go for it

Jessica405 · Answer

It isn't wrong, but it is one hell of a waste! What will you have to offer that special guy, when he comes along?

Dazed0N0Confused · Answer

It's only wrong if you feel it's wrong. You cannot gage it to be right or wrong based off other people's opinions. If thats what you want, go for it. If not, dont do it.  Best of luck to you sweetie!

Mia-Wallace · Answer

"Wrong" in what sense?

I think you should see if you can emotionally handle it. Not just during that night but after. Because unless you don't tell anyone about it, you will be judged for it in the dating scene, possibly forever.

Sweepthelegjonny · Answer

It’s not “wrong” but it isn’t a good idea. You’re gonna want a guy that’s patient or you’re gonna be sore as fuck!

Leavesbound · Answer

There is no wrong as long as you're doing it the way YOU want to. It's your hymen and nobody else's. Keep it or dispose of it as you see fit.

Astarlessnightsky · Answer

Its your (and your partners) decission, if you want to have sex or not and how you want to do it.

TremorJay · Answer

My concern is that people are typically rough during one night stands. It's strictly about the sex. If you haven't been masturbating with penetration, you'd want someone to be gentle. Long story short, I'd make sure they know you're a virgin upfront.

Good or bad, you're going to remember the person that took your virginity. So think it through.

Agape93 · Answer

Nope. Do as you wish

exitseven · Answer

It is not like getting the Covid vaccine. Something you just want to get done so you can check it off the list.
I think if you wait until it becomes a special occasion you will be glad. I did not and I regret it.

Wise4myage · Answer

No its not, but I do think most girls prefer not too. Just don't be a rush to lose your virginity.

moviedude714 · Answer

Shouldn't be that difficult for you as a woman

swettannie · Answer

if you want to do it, do it

bushwookie · Answer

Do what makes you happy. People are shady these days anyways. Can't rely on others for your own happiness

Twalli · Answer

I would wait until you are in a relationship to lose it. Give it to someone you consider special

red_knight · Answer

There's so many options... Give it to your best friend. Sell it to a millionaire Arab.  Take it yourself with a toy..

Luckycharms12 · Answer

I would say wait until you find someone you care about. But it's your life

OnTheLevel · Answer

It'ss you're life, do what you want

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