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Guys how would you feel if your partner asked you to stop?
Is it wrong to tell my husband to stop masturbating?
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Guys how would you feel if your partner asked you to stop?
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I'm asking him to stop so I can pregnant. Not for any other reason. If this wasn't the case I wouldn't ask him to stop.
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25 152Are you worried he's gonna be shooting blanks by the time you're ready to go? Because unless he's hitting it a few times a day or right before you guys get after it, I think he should be good. Unless he's got a low sperm count or something but I'm not a doctor so I wouldn't listen to me or anyone else on here really good luck I wish you and your family the best
Not all at all if you guys are planning to have a family then that's the right thing to do. Save it up so you got a better chance.
When me and my wife were trying to have kids we waited 7 days so I had a week's worth of a load ready to go. I got two wonderful smart bright intelligent kids so it works.
You have a way to make this happen anyway, just ensure you always hump him and get his juices instead of his hand
I already try to do that but he still wants alone time
Yeah and masterbating also inhibits sexual performance, he probably cums faster as a result. Just going to have to throw yourself to him and hopefully get a lot of cum to make the chances higher of preggo.
He cums faster with me so I dont think that is the issue. And yeah it's basically that I gotta wait till he wants it. That's also a huge issue too
well for this reason its understandable, after all when guys ejaculates constantly he doesn't let the sperm cells build up which decreases the chances of pregnancy so its understandable
Seems like you have little or no respect for him, so tell us why it's so important you have a child with him? From the frying pan into the fire.
If he's jerking off to porn instead of being with you, you are what we call a 'porn-widow'. What an entire failure.
He only does it maybe once or twice a week then has sex with me all the other times so I dont think it's that big of a issue
But here you are on a public forum whining and fussing about it. I find it amazing how women get with a guy, even stay with them, when there's no respect, no love, it's just convenient. No wonder the women wander off after a couple of years. There's just nothing here. But you're gonna throw a kid into the mix, so there you'll be, sharing said kid from house to house, and no say about how his new girlfriend raises YOUR kid.
We already have two kids...
Sorry to hear that. You're kind of out of options, aren't you?
Yes unless he is doing to replace having sex with you. have you told how you feel about it
Yess I've told him
That would frustrating
I don't think it's wrong as long he can do it once in a while
You will just have to show him that YOU can do the job much better!
Suggest it, sure, but it's his body, you have no right to tell him what to do with it.
Your reason is very valid if you're trying to get pregnant, he should understand if he's on board with the baby plans. It should be okay as long as you explain yourself and ask nicely.
Yes it wrong to ask him, its normal and healthy
It sounds reasonable given that you would want a higher amount of both sexual encounters and little swimmers.
First question is he on board with you trying to get pregnant? Second are you how do I word this politely? Oh hell are you making yourself available you know putting out? Or is it only when you want to have sex.
he's on board for baby and I'm always down for sex
Then what he is doing just isn't right. Lay it on the line for him.
Yess I told him yesterday and he agrees to stop and only have sex especially when I'm fertile
if your goal is getting pregnant, telling him to stop masturbating does the exact opposite of getting you pregnant xD
masturbation rises sperm count normally, unless done to the extreme. so i would say, if you're not getting pregnant: let him have a fertility test and see how fertile his sperm is. if he has excellent values, he isn't the issue.
No getting off in any way. Sex or masturbating will lower sperm count for a certain amount of time. I'm not sure where you heard that it rises it but that is far from the truth lol
let me quote the Mayo Clinic for you: Frequent male masturbation isn't likely to have much effect on your fertility. Some data shows that optimum semen quality occurs after two to three days of no ejaculation. But other research suggests that men who have normal sperm quality maintain normal sperm mobility and concentrations even with daily ejaculation. Ultimately, having sexual intercourse with ejaculation several times a week will maximize your chances of getting your partner pregnant, whether you masturbate or not.
Frequent Masturbation lowers the sperm quantity but increases the sperm quality. after infrequent ejaculation, the sperm count is higher but the quality lower as lots of dead or imobile sperm is ejaculated.
Under that reason I get it.
Well if he's still beating his meat like a butcher instead of buttering your biscuits you married the wrong man.. lol jp if your trying to get pregnant yes he should stop tossing off and start making sure every little bit counts and goes towards making your children if that's what your both trying to achieve. Talk to him he's your husband I'm sure he'd understand. Or I don't know a damn thing and u shouldn't listen to what I'm saying lol best of luck I really hope you get to be a mother in the near future :)
Thank you. we actually already have kids together but we are trying for a third
If he stops wanking he will blow bigger loads and quicker so he actually sabotaging getting you pregnant
Yes, his body his choice
Lmao. Had to go there! Lol 🙃
Maybe make it a fun game and tell him any time he has the urge to tell you so you can help?
It is already that way between us so that's prob not any fun for him
Is there a man in the world that doesn’t like blow jobs on demand? Don’t make him make love, sometimes guys just want to get off.
There are plenty of men like that. I've given him unlimited sex for 7 years so I think its not really special anymore
No not at all