Guys, is kissing and looking at your partner during sex more intimate?

Would you do that with someone you don't feel a connection with?

Because when I first met the guy I'm dating, he didn't really do foreplay, kiss during sex even randomly he always does now, but he did look at me while he cums... Now he just looks at me more during sex, holds my head and kind of looks through my soul lol... He could fuck me hard before, now he is so gentle. He doesn't take me from behind anymore, and he goes down on me sometimes. He used to say things like "want me to fuck you some more" now it's like "want me inside you some more?" Everything changed.. And isn't being rough means that he was so excited before does trust mean I don't excite him as much anymore? And the kissing and eye contact, but is that a more intimate thing?

I don't have a problem with anything, I love being around him, making him feel good, and he makes me happy :) I am just curious
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  • Well. Seems like he is starting to care truly about you and how you feel. Do you miss the good old rough sex? Then tell him something like: "i want you to f*** me really hard this time."

  • no ı wouldn't do it

  • I would like it

  • Absolutely it is , adds a level of closeness and intimacy

  • it'd be embarrassing them seeing me make those kinds of faces

  • I like it. Part of good passionate sex for me.

  • depends on what I'm feeling and what's happening. and no I won't be able to do it with a person i don't feel a connection with unless maybe I want to trigger it.

    • What do you mean by trigger it?

    • meaning I want her to feel a connection with me and vice versa. intimacy leads to doing intimate stuff together. but also doing something intimate together leads to increased intimacy between people.

  • I think he feels a more intimate connection with you now. His love for you has become stronger. He wants to see your eyes and see you looking into his eyes. He wants more gentle touching, caressing, and kissing. So it's not just about sex and being dirty.

  • It sounds like he changed. If you want him to do some of the things that he used to tell him.

    • Like i said, I am happy :)