Is my boyfriend of 3 years sexually bored with me?

Me and my boyfriend have been together for almost 3 years now. I'm 26 abd he's 27. We have lived together for 2 years now. I have a beeb wondering about our sex life. He likes to masturbate in the bathroom or when I asleep in the other room instead of having sex with me. We have both talked it out before. I told him that I felt like he was more attracted to the porn and Instagram whores than me. And that I felt silly for being jealous of them. I told him how frustrated I felt. He told me that the reason why he masturbates because he can climax fast and head to work. He said he finds me very attractive , beautiful and i don't compare no where near to those women. And that he loves me. He said he would do better and step his game up. It's been 2 months now and whe have only had sex 4 times since then. I have even stepped my game up and tried some of the things that he likes but he still hasn't stepped his game up. What should I do? I know he's not cheating on me but I just want to know. What is going on?
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What should I do? It seems like he's not going to chsnge anytime soon. I'm frustrated and he knows it? I really love him. I just want to know what to do. I know long term relationships have it's spurts here and there but this isn't going to end well.
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  • no he is a man whomby nature is that guy so if u want your needs met speak up spice it up and make it worth it send him on a treasure hunt where u are the gold at the end make it so his fantasy is his reality if u do it right its alto of fun for both

  • Yes, he is getting bored.