Is pulling your dick out in a restaurant on the first date sexual harassment or is it a compliment to a woman?
Anonymous
Hi guys, the last few dates I have been on (before the lockdown) have all had one thing in common - the guy I'm on the first date with casually and randomly pulls his dick out during the conversation and asks me to either play with it, suck it, or deep throat it. When I say "ehh no, thanks", he gets extremely angry and says that I'm a useless whore who will never find a man. The conversation prior to him pulling his dick out of his pants was usually something about travelling, his family, the food we're having in the restaurant, some random films and TV shows. I understand it wasn't the most interesting conversation, but it kind of felt appropriate for the beginning of the first date. The guy usually says: "Please suck it, or you have no chance of dating me because I don't want a woman who doesn't enjoy sex!". The man doesn't care that we are in a public place! The restaurant is candle lit and he's doing it in a way that isn't blatantly obvious to the restaurant staff. Is this normal first date behaviour? Do you ladies suck your man's penis under dinner table on the first date? Is me not liking the situation a sign that I'm a prude? Thank you guys!
You must be really pretty even though that doesn't justified those guys horrible behavior. Stay away from guys like that and maybe next time you go on a date try to set your boundaries up front and let them know you ain't that type of girl.
MiristheissMaster
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It is a Seinfeld episode.
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CelteroGuru
+1 y
Sounds like you're trolling.
You must be using the new dating website, fellatiofinder. com.
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Asker
+1 y
Not trolling, story of my life! But thanks for making me laugh, it kind of made me feel better about my situation
Celtero
+1 y
If that's for real I hope you just got up and left.
Asker
+1 y
Yes I got up and left, traumatized!
ChocoBrownyXper 5
+1 y
you took a tinder date to a restuarant 😂😂 omg haha Literally giving him the idea you want sex in public places. Im dieing..
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Asker
+1 y
So all the people who dine at restaurants are asking for sex in a public place?
ChocoBrowny
+1 y
you purchased him from tinder, not anywhere else 😏
AddictedGirlXper 7
+1 y
Harassment.
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beldathXper 6
+1 y
Sounds like they watched to many porns, or were looking to see how adventurous you are. Definitely harassment. I don't pull mine out unless I'm seriously dating and being silly.
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GoodGuyBreakingBadMaster
+1 y
He sounds like a Man whose just wanting sex and to pull his penis out in the public restaurant he could get in trouble and be listed as a sex offender no shit and the same goes for guys or girls who pee outside can be placed on the sex offenders list also sounds like he is sexually harassing you and that's not good at all?
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Asker
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I was thinking of reporting him to the police but then again I'm unsure whether the restaurant would have had cameras in the area we were sitting. Plus it's bad lighting and I don't know, would have been difficult to see? I also don't know the man's last name, the only information I have on him is his phone number, first name and photos. It would be a "his word against mine" kind of scenario, no proof, no evidence - and it would had been just a wasted time and my energy to report it. I guess I should order a little camera I could hide in my necklace or dress and film all my first dates to give myself credibility, to show the other women how incredibly lucky they are that they don't have suffer this form of harassment, and how some men (not all!!) can behave like utter pigs on first dates.
GoodGuyBreakingBad
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@Asker I'm sorry this happened to you, this is detrimental to anyone?
Asker
+1 y
I guess I'm the stupid one for trying to find my "Prince Charming" online and only getting "Jack the Wanker". I guess it's the stupidity that I have to pay the price of. Should be smarter next time!
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GoodGuyBreakingBad
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@Asker Hey we look for love, I go for the Internet too so I know what you mean?
sheikalanaMaster
+1 y
Could be considered sexual harassment but it's also an act of exhibitionism.
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BillHe1Xper 6
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He's an ass hole, and you need to find someone else. I have heard that it's been seen or done in movie theaters, but I just can't picture that in an open restaurant situation. If he's gonna make that kind of a proposition he should wait till you get back in the car and then only if you both agree to the action, and is it going to be mutually reciprocated?
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Angelo75Explorer
+1 y
Damn. That's an asshole. Just drop em and move on.
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broken_heart_at_48Xper 7
+1 y
Not normal and hard to believe. Also I'd say your picker is broken or the gene pool in your area is out of wack and you need to move like right now.
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cth96190Guru
+1 y
Stop dating lunatic sex offenders.
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SomoneelseXper 6
+1 y
This is even more than only sexual harrasment...
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Browneye57Master
+1 y
YOU picked him. If you don't like him just tell him to FUCK OFF.
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Spade07Xper 5
+1 y
Lol. Stop trolling. You must only attract nut cases.
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pleasestopthisGuru
+1 y
Sexual harrassment. That guy is a psycho
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douride2Master
+1 y
Either you best find a better class of men to date or TROLL harder.
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genericname85Master
+1 y
pretty sure that would be at least a general infraction in pretty much any state.
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zoobs94Xper 4
+1 y
Its rude and harassment clearly he is just upto sex
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CaunsosExplorer
+1 y
I would not stay sexual harassment but sexual assault kinda of and indecent exposure.
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22 78Are you trolling or is this really true?
Well, it happened to me, unfortunately
You must be really pretty even though that doesn't justified those guys horrible behavior. Stay away from guys like that and maybe next time you go on a date try to set your boundaries up front and let them know you ain't that type of girl.
It is a Seinfeld episode.
Sounds like you're trolling.
You must be using the new dating website, fellatiofinder. com.
Not trolling, story of my life! But thanks for making me laugh, it kind of made me feel better about my situation
If that's for real I hope you just got up and left.
Yes I got up and left, traumatized!
you took a tinder date to a restuarant 😂😂 omg haha Literally giving him the idea you want sex in public places. Im dieing..
So all the people who dine at restaurants are asking for sex in a public place?
you purchased him from tinder, not anywhere else 😏
Harassment.
Sounds like they watched to many porns, or were looking to see how adventurous you are.
Definitely harassment. I don't pull mine out unless I'm seriously dating and being silly.
He sounds like a Man whose just wanting sex and to pull his penis out in the public restaurant he could get in trouble and be listed as a sex offender no shit and the same goes for guys or girls who pee outside can be placed on the sex offenders list also sounds like he is sexually harassing you and that's not good at all?
I was thinking of reporting him to the police but then again I'm unsure whether the restaurant would have had cameras in the area we were sitting. Plus it's bad lighting and I don't know, would have been difficult to see? I also don't know the man's last name, the only information I have on him is his phone number, first name and photos. It would be a "his word against mine" kind of scenario, no proof, no evidence - and it would had been just a wasted time and my energy to report it. I guess I should order a little camera I could hide in my necklace or dress and film all my first dates to give myself credibility, to show the other women how incredibly lucky they are that they don't have suffer this form of harassment, and how some men (not all!!) can behave like utter pigs on first dates.
@Asker I'm sorry this happened to you, this is detrimental to anyone?
I guess I'm the stupid one for trying to find my "Prince Charming" online and only getting "Jack the Wanker". I guess it's the stupidity that I have to pay the price of. Should be smarter next time!
@Asker Hey we look for love, I go for the Internet too so I know what you mean?
Could be considered sexual harassment but it's also an act of exhibitionism.
He's an ass hole, and you need to find someone else.
I have heard that it's been seen or done in movie theaters, but I just can't picture that in an open restaurant situation.
If he's gonna make that kind of a proposition he should wait till you get back in the car and then only if you both agree to the action, and is it going to be mutually reciprocated?
Damn. That's an asshole. Just drop em and move on.
Not normal and hard to believe. Also I'd say your picker is broken or the gene pool in your area is out of wack and you need to move like right now.
Stop dating lunatic sex offenders.
This is even more than only sexual harrasment...
YOU picked him. If you don't like him just tell him to FUCK OFF.
Lol. Stop trolling. You must only attract nut cases.
Sexual harrassment. That guy is a psycho
Either you best find a better class of men to date or TROLL harder.
pretty sure that would be at least a general infraction in pretty much any state.
Its rude and harassment clearly he is just upto sex
I would not stay sexual harassment but sexual assault kinda of and indecent exposure.