Sexual Relationships 
Sexual Health Is spinning the bottle game cheating, my boyfriend broke up with me?
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Were both 21 and I have been with my boyfriend for 2 years and everything has been great. Last week I went to a party with college students and they were playing spin the bottle and I played and kissed 4 guys and 3 girls. I'm not gay by the way, I'm 100% straight but the rules of the game were that if you are a woman you have to kiss whoever it lands on no matter if they are a guy or a girl. But if you are a guy and it lands on another guy you don't have to do it and can spin again till it lands on a girl. Not sure why the rules were like that but it was. I'm 100% straight but I woudn't mind making out with a girl if I was drunk enough or if she was hot enough just for fun haha Anyways I ended up kissing 4 guys and 3 girls, it didn't mean anything, it was just a game. When I told my boyfriend he got upset, hurt, and I tried explaining to him that it was not a big deal, that it was just for fun. He claimed I cheated on him, he said he would never do that to me. He also said "what if I became a porn star, had sex with woman and claimed, it doesn't mean anything, its just doing my job" and he started saying "what are you now bi, how do you kiss a gender for fun even though you are not atracted to them" and I tried explaning its not impossible and that and even thought I'm 100% straight, I woudn't mind making out with a girl if I was drunk enough or if she was hot enough just for fun and that made him angrier and said that I was a immature child, a sorority cunt and he broke up with me and left. He also said the very least I should have done was tell him before actually doing it so that way he could have made a decision on whether or not this is something he tolorates, its just that I never thought it would be a big deal to bring up. When I asked him why didn't he ever ask me where we stood on kissing other people he said "well geez, i dont know, it just seemed like commn sense that kissing another person che
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Continued... When I asked him why didn't he ever ask me where we stood on kissing other people he said "well geez, i dont know, it just seemed like common sense that kissing another person cheating" Anyways he broke up with me, and I tried calling him, texting him and he changed him number, blocked me from facebook. Why am I wrong, I mean its just having fun, he has to live a little and stop being so jealous
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I would not mind if he was kissing another girl during spin the bottle, if he kissed a guy during spin the bottle that would bother me, because its weird. But yeah I would nto get jealous. And at least I was honest, it just goes to show you that being honest has consequences. He needs to grow up and smell the coffee. Maybe its because he's hispanic so he comes from a different culture, but if thats the case he needs to let go of his traditional latin culture, its America, let loose, GOD
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What Girls & Guys Said
15 33He sounds like he's overreacting. I agree I don't think you should've played. 1. Because college students playing spin the bottle is kinda weird and 2. Because it's not really a game for people in relationships. A simple no could've got you out of it. I would've been a little upset but your boyfriend took it to the extreme. Personally it sounds like he's been looking for a reason to break up and just used this as his exit strategy. Because his reaction does not match the incident at all.
Well at least someone gets it, he's just being a pussy and a sensitive little girl
Pussies literally pass things the size of bowling balls into this world. It's not really a very good insult lol they're sturdy as fuck. But I agree he is being overly sensitive.
thank you seriously, he's being a fucking foreign donkey
not to be racist, I mean donkey as in not thinking rationally, thinking like an animal
I'm a black guy who grew up in Alabama. I'm numb to racism.
Taking it to the extreme would be to get violent with the people involved. Dumping a slut isn't 'extreme'.
She kissed someone one time unromantically while drunk on a dare. It's not really a huge deal. You could literally say I'm not cool with that. It makes me upset please don't do it again. And be done with it. Maybe I date a totally different caliber of girls than you but this is definetly not "slutty" behavior in my book.
Oh I get it, you think she's telling the truth.
Yeah. I mean if she is lying I don't give a shit cause it doesn't effect me in the slightest. So I choose to assume she's telling the truth because it doesn't make much sense for her to fabricate this whole story just to trick a bunch of random strangers on the internet
No matter how you explain it. It's cheating. You shouldn't have put yourself in that position to play that game knowing you're going to kiss someone.