Sexual Relationships 
Sexual Health Is it true that some guys can grow a lot when they get hard while other can grow just a little (maybe even because they are quite big when soft)? What do you think about yourself? Are you much of a grower or a shower? How much is the size difference when you get hard?
Feel free to tell me about soft and hard size in any way you want (public, anonymous, pm)! I won't tell anyone ;)
Is the story about growers and showers real? Are you a shower or a grower?
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3 32i am grower from 3.5 to 7.8
I am a grower, my volume when hard is 3x bigger than flaccid.
that's quite a lot isn't it?
It's technically 2.93x bigger but yes I think it is. If you want more details just say so.
I'd love to know the numbers
Ok flaccid length: 4.5 in. flaccid girth: 4.25 in. flaccid vol: 3.58 fl oz erect length: 7.2 in. erect girth: 5.75 in. erect vol: 10.5 fl oz
thanks a lot
Not a problem.
I'm the epitome of a grower I feel. Because when I'm flaccid (soft), im really small and it had a tendency to look shriveled and pathetic. It's probably between 1 to 2 inches soft. However, depending on how hard I get (I've had varying measurements) I can grow up to between 5 and and just under 6 inches max.
I guess im ok with my erect size, though it looks more like 4 inches. But my flaccid size is such an embarrassment. It is extremely rare if I were to ever let a girl see me flaccid without trying to get some blood flow to it.
im grower... suddenly from 1.5 inches grows to 7 inches
that's a looooot
really? good or bad?
it would be a nice surprise
I was thinking why male porn stars are so big soft penis before i know guys are growers and showers.
I am a grower and my dlaccid penis size is mostly about 2 inches about 5-7 cm (in a very cold wether its about i inches and even sometimes about 1 or 2 cm).
after errection in the most excited mode it turns into 5 inches and exsactly 16 cm.
Grower!
From about 3.5 to 7.5 inches. I've always wondered about girls first thought seeing it for the first time. Like oh. OHHH!!
I'm a grower.
I won't disclose my size, so lets just say it looks pathetic when flaccid and alright when erect.
You're not alone. I'm the same exact way.
Growers exist ! I grow from 2.5 inches to 7.5 inches !
That's from very very small to very big ahah
Grower. It is not that big when not erect. I'm not sure what normal is, but it is just normal... I've had women tell me I am bigger than other men they've been with when erect, so I guess I am larger than average when aroused. Regular size condoms are too tight if that is any indication.
2" flaccid, 5 1/2" erect
The grower/shower distinction is real. Almost every guy you see in porn is a shower. I'm a grower and when I'm soft my penis can be really small, but when it gets fully hard it's just short of 6 inches. Remarkably enough, sometimes when it's soft it can be around 3 - 3 1/2 inches, but other times around 2. I know it's silly, but I've always wished I "showed" more length, even though I'm okay with my size when I'm fully hard.
Why would you want to show more if girls are gonna see it mostly hard?
I guess one of the times I feel most self-conscious about my soft length is after I cum from having sex with a girl. She's able to see it then and it gets pretty small for a while until I'm able to get hard again. Whereas when we're just starting to kiss and do foreplay I'm almost always hard before I ever take my clothes off. I know probably most girls don't care and that it's something guys shouldn't worry about because there's nothing we can do about it. But it's still something I'm self-conscious about sometimes.
Seemsfair enough
My boyfriend is a grower, it grows quite a bit.