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Sexual Health Girls, Is there a divide between "good girls" and "sluts"?
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Or is "slut" just a way to shame natural female sexuality, and actually most women have a sex drive and sexual desires in pretty much the same way men do?
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This has been interesting so far. With many women complaining about slut-shaming in other threads I didn't expect this many women to say "yes".
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(37)I think so. Good girls are really just the girls that are innocent, cute, kind/sweet, and most would not think of you doing (and even saying) anything sexual, sex specifically though. So yeah, basically good girls are painted as not having sexuality and I know most would say that's extreme but when you think about it it'd make sense. A slut is just a girl who has sex with people she doesn't even know and has no relationship at all with them. However, I've heard you don't even need to have sex to be a slut, which doesn't make sense. But I guess that'd be the extreme way for them just like how I described that for good girls. Either way both can be pretty degrading terms. Everything else is highly dependent on how somebody views sex.
Absolutely. Most women dress and act like both in different situations, but I have definitely seen both types of women judge each other. To someone more promiscuous, modest women are seen as prudes who aren't inclined to have sexual encounters, but modest women judge looser women as whorish or think they lack self-respect. I feel like the divide is toxic, because in the end we're all women and have our individual pros and cons. No woman should be judged too harshly for having a certain personality or style
I am a good girl and will wait until my honeymoon to have sex with my husband ! however , sluts will do it with anyone , anywhere and at any time ! that is why they are called sluts ! thanks
The divide is artificial, stupid and only enforced by shaming.
Someone's sex life or lack thereof really doesn't concern other people. It's time to just let women express their sexuality however they want and stop shaming them for it.
Its doesn't matter if you're a girl or a guy- if you dont respect your body and chose to not have standards and have a "look at me." mentality- you're a slut.
Tbh I never got what “slut” meant as a way to humiliate girls. Because all the girls I’ve ever seen be called a slut is because they slept with a guy or a they wore a scandalous bikini. I just don’t get what slut means. But I guess There’s a difference but I wouldn’t say there’s a Divide because I wouldn’t not be friends with a “slut” or a good girl.
Of course there is a divide. "Natural female sexuality" has a wide spectrum. Something is for some girl natural for others it is not.
Why do boys always try to putt ALL girls in one very stereotypical drawer? Is this some fetish or just lack of observations skill?
Well the question really is about the idea that there are either promiscuous sluts or almost asexual "good girls" with nothing in between. I don't disagree with you here.
Do you mean to say only 'sluts' have natural sexual desire and all other girls are asexual vegetables? Fuck this narrative that if we have an ounces of sexuality in ourselves then we have to become animalistic and act on it and we don't have the option to control it and save ourselves for the right man nonetheless.
Thank you.
Of course there is... men repect the good girls and just sleep or reject the "slut" definition of "slut " is someone who sleeps around. I personally would not date a male slut
Well i think that a woman has sex because she enjoys it and it's a natural instinct. To call a woman a slut because she gives her body what it needs for her to feel happy, it's the same thing as shaming her for loving herself. Sex is not love in this case. It's a physical action that the body requires when hormones reach a certain peak for both men and women. To call someone a slut would imply that she has a lot of sex. She has it cause she finds it necessary to do so. It doesn't mean that she does it cause she just wants the title of a slut. So to me a good girl is not someone who choices to have or not have sex. It's someone who has positive intentions and is kind. Goodness of a person and whether or not she has sex do not go together. You can have a girl who doesn't have sex but is not a good person.