Girls, is there anything positive you can say about pornography?

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  • hey, i had to think then i giggled, we are talking 80 90 s uk soft pornography magazines... in my view... this is where it should of stayed.. from my early twenties we had a group and there was communal type houses, a couple, so some guys used to get hold of mags and being someone who liked females but this was my knowledge only i used to use them sometimes for personal pleasure... they were photographs of females sharing their beautiful bodies, some with natural breasts, some with underarm hair, shots from behind, some clothed, etc,,, BUT NONE were lets say my personal cut off acceptable line in the sand... now bare with me... when i was pregnant with my son at 31/ 32 i shit you not... i was insane with hormones... from around 3 months i used to watch porn and masturbate everyday... if i ever had a genuine understanding, lets say to even dare judge! men... i knew and thought at the time.. god this must be whats its like for men... random get it down before i forget... take the 80s porn mag, and lets never not bow down to the lyrics "and your mum threw away your best porno mag" combined with a society where us kids played outside, met at school, hung out after school, had a landline, so if you wanted to talk you either had to be brave enough to talk face to face or call their house where dad would answer... now its dick pics in its place... in 1980 soft porn mags viewed by teenage boys via, dads, uncles, mates etc allowed them to view the female body in its beauty, natural... now a 12 year boy is witness to a narrative that is beyond healthy... just because we can, doesn't mean we should... in an adult encounter porn can be so sexy... i used to find a particular lady on uk tv porn/chat tv.. one night i called up and had an experience with her and my partner at home... the most interesting fact was that, on the tv it flashes up girl caller ring now ring now and then it boosts the numbers... robbie williams song lyrics, and the pause buttons broke on my video... well lol this was me when i was pregnant with my son... i literally spent months masturbating like i imagine a teenage boy,,, two specific tapes, one a version of resevouir dogs, it was bitches, like goth, burning wax on guys, dressed in leather, the other two women, by the beach on a bed with floating voiles, intimate... within a partnership it could definitely be utilised for good... lets say im in a couple with you, i understand and you have told me you feel the need to utilise porn,, now this can be acceptable to me upon my utter trust in you, you watch what we agree on... i swear down if every man out there right now directed their energy from watching porn and put effort into their partner in the present or the energy into real life connection we would all be better for it... a real positive move for pornography and its total frickin availability was time lined back to the 80s, 99% of users would enhance their lives... POSITIVE PORNOGRAPHY should become a hashtag... in the 80s a lad knew what a natural woman looked like and girls knew what a man looked liked.. now a lad thinks deep throating his girlfriend of 14 and then fucking her up the arse is normal? i mean wtaf... and upon watching a documentary the same girls excepted the behaviour because it was portrayed as normal... at 14 for me, for a guy to be brave enough to even ask you out at youth club was the reality... I've tried anime porn due to my own personal guilt about viewing it... i actually quite liked it, was surprised by getting into so easily, then no guilt afterwards... I've also had this, i came across this girl once with a vibe i totally believed, she was good... then i tried to find her again, found another video, and was totally destroyed her acting was exactly the same... have you ever heard of louix thereaux a uk tv presenter look up his documentaries... i went to holland years ago and had to visit the red light district... im a uk resident but at the time was living in germany uk army... to see human beings in glass shop human size windows in underwear and crowds of guys outside certain ones... tbh i was ashamed to be British it was British men acting like souls devoid of everything they have ever been taught.. everyone of these guys has a mother, a cousin, maybe a sister, or a daughter... final thought... pretty much every culture as ancient as it gets has a natural openess to sexuality, physical connection, regulations on relationship boundaries etc.. the spartans are probably the toughest society in our written history... they threw new born babies that were not healthy straight into the pit... this was a mark of succession of their people, only the strongest survive... male soldiers were encouraged to take male sexual parnters.. females were encouraged and allowed to have sex with spartan soldiers as well as their husbands to ensure pregnancy and offspring from strong genes.. females had intimacy freely with eachother... for me taking into account ancient civilisations when we had a more liberal physical accepting rule of society it allowed for the human condition... each and everyone of us is an expression of the universe... when the natural order is restricted by society, religion, family etc if its pushed underground the drive can be driven underground... if the view of darkness and devilment is accessible to the very extent of human imagination then a thousand people can relate to it... in my ideal vision, which is possible... our new world.. post apolyclyptic world... you n i... boy , girl grow up where the only way we ever know is face to face interaction, natural connection... my favourite easy to use porn is massage lots of oil and touching... i said to my son only once EVER with no internet restrictions in my house. if you ever watch porn, porn is not real in any sense, and does not reflect real life and how you treat women... and that was it... turned out he's just a gamer geek anyways... I've also dabbled with bdsm vids but i have to spend a lot of time finding the right one especially where i feel the vibe is cool and the girl is feeling it... thats been an emotional debate tbh... do men have that? guilt? especially if you have a baby girl etc?

  • We watch it sometimes before or during sex. Sometimes when we're chatting or watching TV and something comes up about a sex act or fetish, we will type it into pornhub to see if we might enjoy it.

    We have fantasies that we won't act out in real life so we watch it and talk about them during sex.

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  • sure.

    you can get off to it.

    there's a massive variety of "genres"