Sexual Relationships 
Sexual Health I just gave birth 4 mths ago, i also have 2 other babies, age 3 and 2. Theyre all 1 yr apart.
Anyways, whenever my husband and i have sex, we always have problems. He can't get off and can't stay hard. He says im too loose. Its either im too loose or too dry. Hed accuse me of sleeping w other men for being loose, he says he accuses me of it because sometimes im tight, while other times im loose.
Hed tell me that my pussy is disgusting and nasty. He tells me my vagina stinks like shit. My pussy is rotten. My pussy is gonna make his penis rot. He says he just want to throw the whole shit away. He also said that i no longer pleasure him.
Then hed go to porn to get off. Later hed apologize to me, and want more sex. But then the same shit will happen, and he will make the same comments about my vagina. He tells me no one will have sex with me cause im too loose. He doesn't see that i gave birth to his kids, all only one year apart.
Am i really loose? Am i really done? So i need to leave?
Is there such thing as loose vagina?
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10 32Kind of a rotten thing to say to the woman who birthed his kids. Im sorry he has no excuse to say such things even of your pussy isn't as tight as before
Girl I'm sorry that he treats you like this. try some kegels
Before I read the question details, I was going to say "try some kegels" like you said - but after reading it, my reply thoughts changed to dump the jerk and "try a different guy" :)
damn he sounds fucking retarded lol can't believe you gave this man kids but i guess everyone is a little fucked in the head these days
do kegel exercises to tighten, exercise in general will help, he's probs just stressed at bein a dad
Well i mean shoot, if it got a lotta stank, maybe have your doc get you something to fix that. If he complains after that, he's the one with the problems
Oh and my last girlfriend had a loose pussy. But i liked it cus id last longer and get her to cum a lot before i would.
I think there are some exercises you can do to tighten up your kitty.
Early midlife crisis for hubby.
He is part of the problem since he helped you get pregnant.
Hopefully he will come around for the kids or have a good job for child support.
Yes there is
You could have some muddy flaps
There is a such thing.
Wait, you had 3 kids with this jerk? Sorry lady, sounds like you made a rod for your own back. Ditch him now, at least for the sake of the kids.
Every woman hole is different, yes their are loose and tight , but always remember if you leave your man to the next man it's new pussy for him
No, I never heard of such a character of it.
It smells cause he keeps nutting in you. And you have his children so... do some kegels
Maybe need to leave him but not for that reason because he sounds like a jerk
My ex-wife who I met at 17 and was with for 20 years had 6 kids, all of them natural childbirth. She is 38 now, kids are aged 17, 15, 11, 9, 6 and 2.
She just turned 40, she is someone that believed sex between a husband and wife MUST occur once in the morning and once at night on most nights of the week.
One thing for certain, she is far from loose.
Dryness? It is 80% his fault if you are breastfeeding.
Do you feel anything when he puts it in you? Then you are not loose.
It can take up to a year for your pussy to go back after having a child. So because you've been having a child every year, it's to be expected that it hasn't tightened back up.
But even having said that, you got the wrong guy. Believe it or not, some guys like the look and feel of loose pussies. My boyfriend has been working on getting mine that way for quite some time. He buys extreme toys, because he loves the gape it causes when he takes the toy out.
He is a piece of shit, sorry you got knocked up by this asshole.
The vagina has muscles, kegle up