Is this a good way to initiate sex with my boyfriend?

I don’t mind starting it, I just feel insecure when I try to be sexy so I struggle to make myself make the move. Anyways, before bed I put lotion on my whole body, including stomach and boobs. And I’ve noticed he always watched during that part so I’ve thought about asking him to lotion me and go from there. But I’m overthinking? Would you like for a girl to do this? Would it turn you on?
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  • Mmm sounds great. Matter of fact I put lotion on my wife’s back and arms and I reached up under her night shirt and rubbed her breasts and nipples with the leftover cream on my hands. I was enjoying it and I thought she was too but she stopped me and said, hey my breasts are soft and smooth enough. Don’t need cream. I said ok. Thought you would like that. She said it’s nice but don’t need it. Two words came to my mind - Damn! And Ouch!😬😞

    • Wow, that was really lame of your wife. I love when my boyfriend rubs or fondles my boobs and I love when I catch him staring at me rubbing lotion on them. I’ve been disappointed he hasn’t asked to lotion them for me lol.

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  • Yeah I used to like to lotion my ex's whole body after her bath, it's like a nude massage. It's good if your guy is the giving type who likes worshipping your body. If he's the other type who's more about himself it may not work out.

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  • Sounds like a reasonable plan to me...

  • I warn you that we are not that great at applying lotion the way girls like it. —but that would definitely result in sex for me.

  • I don't see a problem with that at all.

  • I wouldn't say that's u initiating sex but yes guys would like that

    • How should I initiate it

    • Why not do that then ask if he wants to join u

  • Just tell him what you want.

  • Hell yes, would be hot spreading emotion all over a naked body. I can guarantee that if he does it he'll be erect before he's done

  • Massaging lotion on my SO's beautiful naked body would be a turn-on. I'm sure your boyfriend would enjoy it.

  • Why not just be straightforward tell him that you want your pussy pounded? Lmaoo

    • Oh my, lol.

  • I do this for my wife because I enjoy touching her. A light massage before bed with lotion. She's not super sexual, but it turns me on every time.

  • One of the best ways would be wrestling or just walking and grabbing his junk or his ass. Lotion seems a bit much.

  • That would work, but so would just going on him.

  • Thats a great way of hinting at it. If he doesn't pick up on it though then just straight up say you want sex lol

  • Oh hell yeah, that's very hot. And you are not overthinking.

  • Yeah tell him to put the lotion on you maybe guide his hands while he does. Also ad some moans or dirty talk while he does. Also wear some kind of lingerie that can turn any guy on.

  • Better than the girl saying..."What are you doing?" "Dont touch me'" If you were my girlfriend Id prefer you did.

  • That seems fine

  • Yes I would love to help put lotion on the body. Turn into sexy a massage.

  • We, hate freshly lotioned skin. Let it dry it out first.

  • for sure its turns me 😘

  • That's a good idea, try it.

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