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Is watching porn cheating?
Anonymous
I think it is. I hate it and wish it was banned. If a guy is in a relationship and watches porn to Masterbate its cheating. Is there any men who don't watch it?
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+1 y
I don't know what it is but I just hate thinking of them watching it getting off on it when they have girlfriends. I get really annoyed if I see them looking at it I think it's disgusting and fake not real maybe not cheating but still don't like it
+1 y
I think it's degrading to woman it objectifys them men who are younger get addicted and think that's what woman are supposed to be like. U get porn where woman get hurt even porn involving animals. It's so wrong and disgusting
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What Girls & Guys Said
19 28every man watches porn
No they dont
oh yes they do :)
U don't know every man so be quiet
oh and you do?
Single: no , relationship with partner: no , relationship alone: no.. lol no no no..
Good luck finding a guy who doesn't masturbate to porn
My boyfriend thinks of me
Hahhaahahahaha, is that what he tells you?
He watches porn sometimes but thinks of me more and loves me
So then according to you, he cheats on you sometimes.
No I only think it's kinda like cheating I don't think my boyfriend would like me watching naked men so it's the same. I was asking what people think and majority like that disgusting stuff
I doubt he would care much.
Women are innate sex objects, shit even "straight" women are more aroused by the female body than the male body, this sexual value is literally by far the biggest advantage the female gender has. If women weren't sex objects the world would care far less about you.
Your degrading women you sleeze bag were not objects OK
That's the way you want it, as I said, the world would care far less about you if you wren't.
Shut up u sad little man
Know one cares about u then haha
haha she is so naive
I am a man, I am valued for what I do, a women is valued for sex.
i won't say that its cheating. but i dont watch porn, its a big turn off to me, and its very disgusting
I think it's disgusting too
Lol, this must be a troll question
It's not I'm not a troll was just want to see how many men actually do watch it
Sure, let's go with that lol
This is not a troll question at all. It's a perfectly valid question
no it isn't
It's not cheating, neither is masturbating. You're damaged if you believe it is. It's stress relief, especially when you're not available to help out with his needs.
Stress relief lmao
It's not
Yes.
No it’s not. It’s just an enhancement to a sexual experience. The person watching isn’t doing anything physical ei H the people in the images or videos.
It is not cheating , but it means that you are not enjoying your real sexual life and you go to fake one.
I disagree. I enjoy my real sex life and I enjoy my fake one. It has nothing to do with my partner.
You said (I hate it and wish it was banned) , now you said that you enjoy it , what i said is the truth !
I do hate it and would never watch it
That wasn't the person who asked the question, that was me who said I enjoyed it. Two different people.
And maybe it's truth for you. Just giving my opinion :)
I gave you both my experience , and you are free ( both) to chose , enjoy your real life and forget what you watched in porn.
@livelovelaugh1000 your a woman and u can watch that fake crap why
Because it's porn. People have sexual urges. And porn helps them relieve that when they don't have someone 2 do it with, or if they chose 2 alone. And some people even use it as a way to learn new things. Porn is harmless and not disgusting. Everyone has fantasized things we don't feel comfortable telling or partners or doing so again we have porn 2 help us with that fantasy sometimes
@kittycat119 but u can masturbate without porn and just think about being with your partner
That's still not a good point. U can watch porn and imagine it's u and your partner as well. It's what I do
I'm just a sexual person lol
@kittycat119 its degrading to women
What she said :p
No it's not asker
@kittycat119 what do you feel when you catch your husband masturbate when watching another girl play with sex toys on porn tv for example?
This chat is so unorganized. I was agreeing with kittycat not rose lol.
I feel embarrassed for him because I just walked in on him jerking off lol.
Honestly it's none of my business. Unless he's making plans to be with some girl behind my back I could care less.
He will , like he did by searching for new girls in porn.
Lmao. Actually im sure there would more of a chance of him leaving me for someone else if I decided to try to be controlling and tell him he can't watch porn.
I know it's so fake. Enjoy your real life and your sexual experience instead of watching it haha people are sad who watch porn
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@livelovelaugh1000 do those 2 seriously think that porn is cheating? I give my guy tons of videos of me and could care less if at points he watches porn. It's something different. What's so wrong with that Lol? I don't get those 2 at all
No asker the people who are sad r the ones acting like porn is cheating or makes someone disgusting or acts like it is something it's not. That's what's sad sweetie
Lol people who aren't open minded are sad. Have fun making your boyfriend miserable. 😂
Good luck 😄
@livelovelaugh1000 my boyfriend is perfectly happy with me and our sex life he loves me I actually thought some woman would agree with me that it's horrible but most woman actually like it lol I just don't and never will
I know right? Couldn't agree more. They are just being ignorant.
by the way zitooo 2 answer u I don't care if my guy masturbates 2 women n porn. I do the same thing lol. I'll probably just comend him on having good taste
I like having real sex not touching myself watching fake sex haha you definitely are the sad ones and don't call me sweetie I'm 27 your 18 lmao and u watch porn get a life
Asker how is women enjoying and thinking watching porn is okay sad? What's sad is a women being so controlling 2 the point she thinks it's cheating if her man does
Most people on porn are not even enjoying themselves lmao
Again asker I have a life. U r the one who's so insecure with your sex life and relationship that you feel threatened if your man watches porn. At least I'm secure enough 2 know my man loves me even if he sometimes want 2 masturbate 2 porn
What makes u say that asker? They wouldn't be doing it if they didn't enjoy it
@kittycat119 that's so sad your saying to your boyfriend well done on picking a nice looking girl Omg you must not be happy together that's more like mates not bfgf hahaha so sad
Sweetie we've been 2gether 6 years. I'm secure enough to b ok if my boyfriend thinks women r attractive. No harm n looking at something beautiful and saying it's beautiful. I'm if I see a cute girl I'm gonna look, so why should I expect him not 2? It's not like he wants 2 have sex with her.
And I don't care if my boyfriend watches it without telling me but he Saud to me he would rather think of us making love than watching it he Saud its fake
U two are the ones who watch fake sex rather than real sex haha u too are wrong maybe too much porn rotted your mind you are disgusting cheering on your boyfriend for looking at another woman really?
God u really r a sad person aren't u
Porn is fake, thats not news to anyone. It's about fantasizing, using your imagination, learning about what you like and dont like and getting your freak on. It's not about "id rather have real sex then touch myself to fake sex" it's having both. Its a personal thing. The more I know myself the better sex is. It makes me want to try more things in real life with my partner. It makes me want to be dirtier and more adventurous with my real sex life. I'm not saying that there isn't anything negative to do with porn. I'm saying it's not cheating, it's not disgusting, there's no shame in it and it's normal. And it doesn't mean that my sex life sucks and I'm going to leave my partner or he's going to leave me. Because I see something in porn and want to try it with my partner. Hence, making my sex life better.
. I understand he is a sexual person and people masturbate. Especially men. I think if anything is wrong, it's making your partner feel guilty and gross for liking something that is only natural to like. It's harmless and it's not hurting your relationship. And almost every guy does it. (Like you said, ITS FAKE) but what would ruin your relationship is acting like your the boss of him and even having the balls to tell your boyfriend not to do something that shouldn't even be any of your business to start with. Masturbation is a personal thing. Leave him alone. Or hell only grow to resent you and push you away. Unless he is actually c7heating on you with a REAL person or talking to other girls about hooking up. Anyways, have fun being judgmental and ignorant. I need to get shit done today and I'm tired of replying to this dumb post lol. Bye Felicia
Here a question shared right now you can check it. “We watched porn together. I know he watches porn and I'm okay with that. I know he doesn't compare me and men like variety, I'm fine. however, I suppose I just didn't plan on him being more interested in the porn than me. He hardly even looked at me, and I seriously haven't been able to turn him on that much, ever. A few moments in, he turns over to me and wants to have sex. I probably was a bit childish but I got up and put my clothes straight on. I was so turned off and upset because I just felt like I may as well have been his hand, not a sex partner. Now, I don't have any desire to have sex with him anymore.”
She's being a child aboit it
@kittycat119 your a child
Sweetie I'm not the one making stuff up 2 attempt 2 insult porn and people who watch it
Plus learn how 2 spell asker. It's you're not your
@kittycat119 shut up!
Well that just proved someone's angry and had no comeback. Good 2 know
@kittycat119 if that's u in your profile pic then u definitely are a child and u watch porn hahaha u are young and u don't know a thing yet. And you are replying quite a lot maybe u do have a problem in your relationship with porn sounds like u do. U said u walked in on your boyfriend watching it and masturbating Haga that my friend is sad... I would never find my boyfriend doing that cause he loves me and we are happy together. I asked him about it and he doesn't care for it much. We make each other happy and don't need to watch fake sex
One I'm 24, yeah I look 12 not my fault. Some people just look young. Two, no sweetie me and my guy r great. Three never said I walked n on him jacking off, I said I wouldn't care if I did. Four, news flash sweetie if u really have a boyfriend he's lying 2 u. He watches porn and jacks off 2 it like every other guy
@kittycat119 don't call me sweetie and yeah u look twelve that's not a good thing I'm 27 and look 22 would rather that than 12 and I've been with my boyfriend two years and were very happy he's honest with me and I've never found him watching it. I send him pics of me and he loves them he doesn't really need porn it's nothing anyway it's not real. Me and him are. Bye
Uh huh, keep thinking he doesn't watch it sweetie cause he does
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Not only is it not cheating but it's normal.
I agree with you 100%
Yes there are
Hiii
My wife watches porn with me. Often her suggestion. We have a great marriage and a wonderful life. Sex is great and we allow each other to be completely comfortable with fantasies, dirty talk etc. maybe that's the key? Rather then control and rigid rules of no porn or your cheating if you do? I don't know but it works for us.
I think that's disgusting
Lol, no, of course it's not cheating. You sound really controlling to be honest.
only in sexless relationships
If you find the actor more attractive yes. If not it's fine.