Sexual Relationships 
Sexual Health Is your sex drive high or low? How necessary is it for you that your partner has a similar sex drive to yours?
TheMeditativeOwl Xper 5
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24 37i hada low sex drive ti li was in my 40s now its out of control and no he doesn't match it yet and yes it has been effecting our marriage hopefuly it can be saved.
Do women's sex drive increase in their 40's?
@TheEagle_000 the answer to your question is yes significantly the time most women are at risk of cheating.
Why so?
@TheEagle_000 hormones out of control and needs are needs.
Oh. Is there a similar kind of time period in a woman's life?
@TheEagle_000 yes in 40s and 50s
Thank you for answering
@TheEagle_000 yw.
What's low and what's high? I don't get why it's such a big deal for women to put out a bit more for their man, especially if he's a good dude.
@TheEagle_000 no, menopause will actually decrease it.
@Mellontikos not for me it increased mine so tit actualy increases it.
@Mellontikos it doesn't decrease itat al i nfact most women cheat at htis time cuase they need sex all the time.
That might be due to confidence, but hormonally speaking, it's been proven scientifically that women's libido goes down after menopause. There is speculation that the inability to get pregnant helps to free a woman mentally though, so she enjoys the sex drive she has more.
@Mellontikos before 40 years ago ididnt think about sex at all. i didn't care about it at all. i woudl rather cuddle. After 40 i think about it constantly 48 ohours a dai and can't get it out of my head. Its all i think about its a very big need for me and almost caused me to cheat sever al times so i am sorry nut you are very wrong here sir.
@Mellontikos also all the research iv seen proves without a doubt a womens sexual peak and prime sir is in ehr 40s and 50s so your very wrong.
@Mellontikos also im a women so i think i know when my sexual prime is and can make an acurate acount vs a random guy with a dick.
@Mellontikos who doesn't knwo nothing about beign a women
@Mellontikos yo uare so wrong and its pissing me off how wrong you are wel dont worry wouldn't waste my tiem screwign such a stupid guy id just screw every other guy in existance.
Yes I have seen all the biased research that usually comes out of women's magazines. I get my stats from government sites who have been keeping track of the changes in physiology of women, men, and even people that are transgender, and are transitioning to either male or female (the differences in hormonal changes, and how that affects mood and libido)
@Mellontikos your stupid as heck they dont know nothing it sir whatever your reading is myth its not real. Mens libido is higher when theyre younger, womens libido when theyre older its a proven fact without a doubt. A womens sex drive goes up significant arounnd menapuause it doesn't dicrease it does quite the opposite why many older women are turning to younger men.
@Mellontikos theyre turning to younger men casue their not being sexually satisfied.
It really varies. I’ve known other women who spiked in 40s but others crash. My wife’s went down dueing 30s and by early 40 was at zero where it has remained. It varies.
@0112358 wow I'm so the ops site iouldnt live without it now
Hope you’re getting it. I haven’t had sex in years and it definitely sucks
@0112358 husband and I working on it now it almost caused me to cheat.
Again, the spike is all mental. As soon as the woman is unable to get pregnant anymore, it's a shackle that frees you to enjoy sex more without worries.
Important to have a similar drive as the partner otherwise frustration is programme
A girl won't often have the same kinda sex drive I've got. My ex had a slow burn but I loved her like crazy til she dumped me. I've since met at least one gorgeous girl who was mad for sex and we had a good time on summer holidays but I didn't want really to be with her long term
It’s high for me lol, so yes it’s quite important. But it’s not that hard to find a guy with a similar sex drive than mine
I control my sex drive. Its high but it doesn't control me.
I could be with a partner with little to no sex drive if I loved her.
I love sex and i love women! I feel I need it multiple times a day 😍😍😍
I am capable of having sex for days. Woth small breaks for meals and hydration. Sure not all the time but if a girl can't or doesn't want to do that then I will be slightly disappointed. But more importantly is my kinks. I have a lot and some fairly rare ones. At least as far as the public space is concerned.
It's not really important that the sex drive is as high as mine but the exploration of sex is. If I'm throwing every shade of grey and she is strictly vanilla it won't work.
My emotional sex desire is really high, but I drink a lot, so the biological side isn't so high at the moment.
I have a very high sex drive and it's not important for me that she doesn't have a matching libido as long as she still wants to have sex at least once a week
High unless stressed and pretty damn important
Mine is high it's going to be important to have at least close together
It depends on if there is something internally valuable to them that would cause me to stay away from sex from them even if me and them were in a relationship?
Mine is pretty low but if I'm with someone with a high sex drive I just fuck more. It's not really a big deal
Why do I always see the same dam questions here , tf 🤣
Because people never ask the questions right. We need to know the definition of "low" vs "high". For example, is wanting it once a week, or once a month "low". Is wanting it everyday "high"?
it's very very important to me.
God Bless
I used to think it was high. Now I think it's normal. I used to want a more controllable sexual drive. Now, I want a high one.
I have low-medium, I only get aroused if someone I’m interested in turns me on otherwise I’m not partially interested..
*Particularly
I have a very high sex drive and expect my partner to match or exceed my sex drive
Cool
Low.
Mine went from high, to low to the point now that I only run one out on occasion to maintain good prostate health. I find very little pleasure from sex, honestly it's more of a pain than it's worth
Mine is high and it can be irritating.