Is your wife or husband the only other person you sexually fantasize about?

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HighlyVolatile · Accepted Answer

I don't actually fantasize sexually about anyone. I got sexual desires for lots of people but not fantasies. If I relate it to food, I might smell something yummy-smelling and I might be like, "I wanna eat that!" But I don't have some fantasy of going into the store and eating it. I stop at like, "Yummy!" in my thoughts.

I do fantasize about a lot of other things but the problem for me with sexual fantasies is that they're so fake. It's like those celebrity fake photos where they put some celebrity's head on another woman's body. I'm capable of imagining fake sexual things but I don't see the appeal of it. So I don't sexually fantasize.

ohshee · Accepted Answer

I'm not married nor do I have a girlfriend at the moment but for me I think we all have fantasies about people I mean I probably had fantasies about you LOL and I'm just being honest I'm sure you have asked a question and I'm sure that I have said damn that is hot and my decide about it for a minute or two but I mean I think that's just human nature that's who we are and especially if you're not in a relationship you think about things and especially on Gag my God the questions that are asked on here how could you not have fantasies or desires

KrisPW · Accepted Answer

I don't fantasize about certain people... usually. Situations, yes, but not usually people. But I'd be lying if I said it's never happened or that I don't think my fiancé has.

desidoll · Accepted Answer

If people were to be truthful, no. We are all guilty of fantasising other people lol.

WhatTheHeckkkk · Answer

Yes, of course.

LingyRolls · Answer

No. I fantasize about a lot of people lol

KarinMcDonald · Answer

Oh definitely not. I love my husband, but I fantasize about a lot of guys.

dustybiker · Answer

Only person I want to fantasize about.

SamIam96 · Answer

Isn't the point of fantasy that it isn't real? You can have something in your mind that you wouldn't want in real life. My fantasies tend to be about past experiences that were memorable. Over time they tend to morph into something neither of us would have recognized. One good outcome of that is it spawns new menu items to bring back to your friends with benefits/SO/spouse.

slatyb · Answer

I don't fantasize in that way about anyone. There are women I know that I would like to make out with, but it's not going to happen.

At some point I realized there's no magic sex partner. The best sex I've ever had was with a woman who was slightly overweight, no one's idea of a great beauty. People fantasize about A-list celebrities but there's no reason sex with them would be better than with anyone else. K. D. Lang expressed it well in her song "It's Me"

Kaneki05 · Answer

Wouldn't trust a person who said no to that tbh. That stuff just happens naturally in ones head without any effort.
The point is never to act on it though and people who don't are good people.
People who just don't fantasize at all are lying about it or what if they ever did though they've never tested their own restraint before.

Bricealan · Answer

I have always fantasized about my cousin, and other women too.

UniquelyBasic · Answer

I have multiple waifus. 😉😉

Gwenhwyfar · Answer

No. Wbu?

GoodGuyBreakingBad · Answer

If I had a Wife or Girlfriend, she would be the only one I would sexually fantasize about when I masturbate #annabananna <3 <3

exitseven · Answer

I have a few videos stored in my mind with different people in them. My wife is in a few. My ex-gf in not in any of them.

megabamse · Answer

Yes. But i don't count porn, because i don't think of the porn in my head, it's a right there and then thing.

Andres77 · Answer

Mostly... but it's her doing things she'd never do in real life. Just fantasy... and she knows.

KatherineJ · Answer

There is a big difference between enjoying the view, and sexual fantasies. I enjoy seeing a good looking man just as much as any other woman does. But I keep my sexual fantasies to my husband.