Isn't it shocking if mom buys sex toy for her 14/15 years daughter?

My colleague told me that she had bought a sex toy for her daughter to save her from excessive sex as well as from any disease. Is it proper to let so young girl play with toys.
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Most Helpful Guys

  • I would suspect that most children would buy something for sexual fun well before they would ask their parents for help or advice.

    Think about it logically, there's a local £ shop ( everything is £1) that sells battery powered toothbrushes (she needs to clean her teeth), which can be used as vibrators. (Oh, they do sell vibrators as well, but they aren't much good). And that's assuming they don't have one already.

    And if she starts to do anything sexual with someone they may buy her a toy or toys.

    Don't forget your little darling might know where mummy's toy box is, so might not need to buy her own (although mummy might realise and have something to say.)

    In an ideal world your daughter would wake up on the birthday of the age of consent having never thought of sex before, and she can use her birthday money as she wishes. Unfortunately the world isn't ideal.

  • That is so dysfunctional. It will ruin the young girls sexuality
    she should teach her daughter abstinence and her father should protect her.
    No going out alone, and no coming home late, usually means she won't be sexually active with boys.
    Parents are terrible nowadays

Most Helpful Girls

  • I'm really torn on this. It's hard to teach children that sexual desires are normal and nothing to be ashamed of while wanting to shield them from adult things. It's certainly unconventional.

  • It is actually not a bad thing to do, I guess I would rather have her exploring at home and in safety.

    • I guess it is better to have a parent or adult who is comfortable and tells you that you are free to explore yourself

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  • Not at all I did

  • Why not? Many become sexually curious at that age and discover masturbating. I started when I was like 11.

    It's only going to do worse if you try and make it a bad thing when they are already interested. Just teach them about being safe.

  • If girls are ready to start experiencing sexuality, how would you stop them?

  • I had an older friend buy it for me.

    • Clever trick.

  • Certainly awkward for most teens/ moms but I started using a toy around that age too so can’t judge her really

  • I find it weird, i never heard of anything like this before, but i don't think it's anything shocking.

    Better to be open with sex than have some mom pretending sex or sexual urges doesn't exist.

  • If you remember back to when you were 14\15 with puberty hitting full force and hormones all over the place, maybe a sex toy to alleviate that urge is a good thing.
    I would also suggest a few good conversations to keep the young lady in check with what is going on out there and what could happen (pregnancy and STD's).

    As a teen boy, I was masturbating 9 times a week. So I think it was a good idea on the mom's part to try and head off any problems with a horny kid.

  • I think it’s a great idea. My mom bought me my first toy and I intend to do the same if I ever have a daughter.

  • If my mom does this i’d be embarrassed tf out.

  • Good idea, hardly shocking

  • Creepy but there's logic to it. Should be mom's job.

    • Might want to start her with one that's non penetrating.

  • Its not a terrible idea to be honest, its always better to address things than for them to sneak off and do it in secret

  • I suppose given a choice between her sneaking of for sex or having a toy its better to buy a toy.

  • That’s pretty fucking weird, a parent should not be buying sex toys for their kid.

  • I don't belive it, if its true, thats pretty fucked up

  • It could backfire, like without the toy she'd masturbate once a week, with the toy she'd probably stick it in her pussy ten times a day. Women can have many orgasms in a short period, masturbation feels good and it is very addictive, and it definitely affects your behavior around the opposite sex. Then again what do I know 🤔😂

  • It's way much better than having bad experiment with disrespectful guy or being pregnant at 14

  • Well in a way she is saving her to have sex with some guy and i think she is wise

  • Absolutely not. Wats wrong with her exploring herself? I have a friend who got her daughter a small vibrator (bullet) at 9yo. she's 15 now and very "healthy" in her knowledge of her body.

  • It is not shocking.
    I say good one mum.
    A girl of 15 is sexually mature, so has the natural need for sexual release via orgasm.
    Without that, she will go mad.
    Masturbation (with or without toys) is better than spreading her legs for Harley MacBadBoy, or Chad Thundercock.
    All sane and well adjusted people masturbate to release sexual tension.
    The no fap people are sexually neurotic.

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