Isn't spitting his cum degrading?

so everyone asks here that blowjob, cum swallow, facial is degrading or not. but what about after that hot blowjob he cum in your mouth n you spit it like its something really gross.
BOYS what do you feel when girl does that?
GIRLS dont you feel awkward to spit it?
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Most Helpful Guys

  • Yeah in a way. At that moment, it feels like you're the grosses thing I suppose. But then again, I probably wouldn't like the taste of cum either. To this fact, if she did drain me by guzzling it down, that's like the utmost compliment you could give a guy. You are so sexually drowning in "him", that you want all of him, his body, his mind, his essence or seed. You want to devour him really. Spitting him out, it sort of seems like you are just doing it to please him, not that you get any enjoyment out of it. I mean the fact you are giving me a BJ is awesome and I love them, but it's more of a sexual turn on and makes the whole experience that much more unforgettable if she just wants to eat you alive and drain you of every ounce of sex from you.

  • Blantly being repulsed and disgusted with his cum in your mouth and subsequently spitting it out ruins the moment. It's not really degrading more than it is awkward. If you don't want his cum in your mouth, don't put yourself in a position for it.

    I think an accurate comparison would be if a guy went down on you but looked like he was disturbed by it.

    • Exactly. if I am going down on him then swallowing should be natural. Thats how blowjob should end

Most Helpful Girls

  • Sometimes it's a gag reflex thing, sometimes their the taste of their cum makes me almost throw it back up ON their dick, sometimes it's fine. So unless they're willing to taste test it first then I don't think they should have an opinion in what I choose to do at the time, they should just be happy that they got their dick sucked!

    • I taste test mine

  • Guys take it as a sign of rejection if you don’t swallow, at least in my experience.

  • Don't think any guy will ever say no to a blow job simply because she won't swallow.

    • Very true

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  • Honestly as a guy I can't say shit because Im not the one with cum in my mouth 😂 dgaf if they spit they let me bust in their mouth so thank you all those few women ;)

  • It is not embarrassing to spit, but I find it indelicate. Because I know how much my boyfriend enjoys when I swallow, I do it to make him happy.

  • If she cannot swallow because of an aversion to the taste or texture, or even because she has a problem enjoying it, then I admire her even more for giving her all to pleasure me. Where it goes after such great pleasure is not a big deal to me, so I would really appreciate her more in that case.

  • She would never see me again if she ever spit mine out I can tell you that much. I’ve never had a complaint or anything. So I have to imagine one trying that. I’d be pissed.

  • If she spit it out right in front of me, and did it in a way that made it seem like it was grotesque and disgusting to her, I might be a little offended. But I wouldn't blame her, there's no way in hell I'd swallow cum if I sucked lol.

    • what you do when you giving her oral

  • I guess I'm disappointed that she didn't swallow. But it's not for everyone.

  • I've never had a girl spit, but I could see if she actually did it like if someone spit on the street, noise etc, it would be a bit of a turn off yep lol. But, I also don't expect her to swallow if she doesn't want to either so I get it. But the women I've been with, if they don't want it, they don't let me cum in their mouth that's all. That's why I've never had one spit.

  • Tbh, it's her choice. Like its now hers and she can do whatever she wants.

  • If the girl is gonna spit, I'd much rather not cum in her mouth at all. Swallowing the cum at the end of a blowjob is very meaningful to the guy and is the ultimate best way for it to end. If she isn't gonna swallow just say so, and let the blowjob just be part of foreplay.

    • thank you for MH Guy opinion!

  • For me im ok eiyh iy eiyher way i think i do cum more snd harder if she swallows i think it's because she's still LITERALLY sucking it out of me and its AWESOME sometimes i actually have to pull my dick out of her mouth because it's SO intense

  • I say that it's not degrading any more than a girl's vagina draining semen after sex, as in cream pies. A girl should deal with the DNA in which ever way is most comfortable to her.

  • Spitting is not very attractive tbh. You can be sexy about it and kind of push it out and let it run down. Also you can let him splash it across your cheeks or chest instead of swallowing is not your thing

  • I asked a friend of mine who loves giving blow jobs if she spits or swallows. She said, "I swallow!! Otherwise, what's the point?"

  • Splitting is a major turn-off. I mean - any girl imagine a guy just spitting after going down on her would feel the same. It pretty much says "I find your scent/taste disgusting".

    Exception is if its like a gag reflex for the ejaculate spraying too far or something alike.

  • Not degrading, but it is a little bit of a let down. It can be hot if she makes a mess with it (lets it dribbls down her chin, rubs it on her skin/breasts).

  • If a girl doesn’t like swallowing that’s a girls right, she’s already sucking your dick. But she would be killing one seriously hot ending.

  • i mean it feels like rejection on some level but then again i wouldn´t wanna have that stuff in my mouth so i understand xD

  • I don’t really care if doesn’t want to swallow she don’t

  • It's her choice. I don't consider it degrading either way if she spits or swallows as she was kind enough to do such an intimate act

  • I don't find it disgusting. My girl can do everything during the sex. Unlimited capabilites.

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