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It's okay to have sex in front of a female friend?

Its okay to have sex in front of a female friend?
My husband wants me to have complete lesbian sex with a friend in front of him. So that when he sees us having lesbian sex, so he get full sexual feelings. He also wants to have sex with me and wants my friend to see us during sex.
It is okay!!! (to have sex in front of a female friend)
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It is not okay!!! (to have sex in front of a female friend)
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  • In our Indian and particularly Traditional Hindu Culture, first of all – sex is considered a very special and sacred activity to produce babies – as nature wants us to produce babies to keep life everlasting on earth. We are producing babies on behalf of creator of universe, and so it is a secret and privet matter. Nobody except husband and wife should know what and how they were doing something in their bedroom. Nature has designed sex as most pleasant activity between male and female to encourage them to produce babies, but this pleasure must be very personal between the couple. Se for pleasure outside marriage was considered a great sin, and now it is considered as most unacceptable and unethical thing – concept of sin is changed in to ethical and social moral and faith of marriage agreement. I strongly disagree with everything you have described. I am shocked reading it.

    First thing, your husband wants you to have complete lesbian sex with a friend in front of him. So that he can you both having lesbian sex to get full sexual feelings. Nature has not designed us for lesbian or gay sex. Are you lesbian? Or had you lesbian relationship with your friend in the past? Do you consider it OK to be lesbian? He wants to see you both doing it, means he wants to see your friend naked doing morally and socially unacceptable things with you. Is she happy for it? He also wants to have sex with you and wants your friend to see you both during sex. Means he wants to be naked in front of your friend to show his skills and techniques, and indirectly encourage her to have se with him. He may soon demand to have sex with your friend – in your presence, and / or without knowing you. Is it acceptable for you? It will be like a privet sex-show between you three as striptease. Are you all made for this (dirty) entertainment? It is all breaking social, moral, ethical and lawful – officially allowed limits of marriage and good social sexual behave. My simple advice is – PLEASE DO NOT GO FOR THAT.

    Almost all cultures advocate for monogamy in sexual relationship, and medical science also support it. Some Islamic faith allows a man to marry four girls/women, but it was originally to support war-widows for their livelihood and not to satisfy man’s sex hunger – as I understood. There is a high risk of STDs in One to Many sexual relationships for both – males and females.

    Sex and sexual activities in western world has no limits or curtains. Most girls and guys enjoy sex as and when they want to do it – if other person agrees for that, and that other person need not to be same every time. All these have spread like a forest fire because of invention of birth control facilities and easy availability – because sex is a most pleasant activity for everybody.

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  • Only you can answer that for yourself... As your friend would also decide for herself...
    Can I advise though.. If you're doing it because he suggested it but you think you'd be into it as well, then proceed...
    But if you really don't want to, don't think you'll like or enjoy it, are only doing it because that's what he wants, then I'd really think about if it's something you want to do. Letting other people into your sex life a lot of times can be the beginning of the end of that relationship. People think they can handle it, till it really happens

    • The three of us want to do this, but before doing so, I wanted to get a suggestion from here

    • And if he wants the full on threesome where he has sex with your friend, are you okay with that a well?

    • We have set some boundaries that he will not cross. He will do everything with me and only allowed to touch my fiend.

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  • Im all for having other couples watch us but i am not interested in either of us getting with them

    • It would increase your arousal to have another couple watch you have sex?

    • @Red_Arrow always has

  • If all the consenting adults are ok with it. It is ok.

    • Thanks

    • lovestlearn, would you enjoy another couple watching you have sex?

    • @red_arrow pm

  • for us it is OK, even a male friend and if attractive invite them to join in

    • female is fine

  • I think only you can define what is okay to do in front of a consenting friend. I would say you probably should not do that, but I am not you or in your relationship.

    I say this with a bit of a "forked tongue" do to the fact I have had sex with my husband in front of others, including friends. However, I was not questioning it at the time and truth be known it was me that was so horny I was instigating the sex. Just fyi, no negative consequences for our romp in front of others.

    • I want it myself too but I have concern over two things, how does it feel after doing it in front of a friend, the other is a sexual feeling during sex in front of her?

    • how does it feel after doing it in front of a friend? Well my friends gave me grief/kidded me about it for a while but they were just giving me sh! t. They meant no harm. The other is a sexual feeling during sex in front of her? That was the exciting part. I was so turned on.

    • Thanks for reply, Did your friend do anything to you?

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  • Yes but it can cause complications, when the friend also wants to have sex with your partner so make sure you are okay with that happening as when the feelings and emotions are flowing it can be very hard to resist.

  • I don't know
    If you are uncomfortable, then don't. If you are comfortable, then go for it

  • As long as everyone is on board, go for it!!

    • I want it myself too but how does it feel to do all this?

    • It’s actually quite a thrill! I’ve had friends watch me have sex before. And, I’ve had boyfriends watch me with girls before. It’s very erotic.

    • Can I share with you here what he wants from me?

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  • As long as the 3 of you consent I don’t see anything wrong with that.

    • Husband wants my friend to be naked when we have sex in front of her. Is he okay?

    • I think that’s fine

  • If this is what turns your husband on I don’t see the issue for a little bit of spice.. aslong as your husband isn’t participating.. it’s risky for me and you don’t want there to be conflict with your marriage. For me , probably not as o don’t want to share myself with anyone other then my husband if I ever desire one

    • I wouldn’t share to myself with anyone of be shared if I were married.. it’s a no for me too each their own

    • Thanks

    • Welcome 🤗

  • It's up to you. Anything that you want and enjoy is all good. That wouldn't be my thing but you aren't me.

    I'm just wondering if he hoping after he watches you and her then wants her to watch you and him, if he is hoping he can have you watch him and your friend.

    • She will do everything with me but husband only fck me in front of her

    • Ok, long as everyone is OK with it. All good.

    • Thanks

  • Do you want to? Does your female friend want to? All of this is okay as long as you all consent to it without feeling pressured to fulfill a fantasy for somebody else, while not really enjoying it yourself.

    • We are all ready, just want to confirm this. It doesn't feel bad after doing this?

    • I can't tell you, depends on what happens and how each of you respond to the experience

  • If your comfortable with it why not

  • If your friend is cool with it

    • she is ready for it

    • Go for it!

  • if everyone's okay with it

    • everyone is ok for it

  • If your are into females as well I can see this ok, but you need to make sure everything is ok with her as well and what is going to happen. All sides need to know this before it happens. Also are you ok with this? Have you asked yourself that? Do not do it just too fulfill a fantasy of His, if you are not ok with all of this. No relationship is worth that.

    • We all are ok with it, the only thing is that maybe she will feel it because husband won't fck her

    • He does not need to. The hard part is Jealousy if it turns into a threesome. Did he pick her?

    • He just wants to touch her.

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  • I would say that's pretty weird , that who wants to have sex in front of someone awkward

    • I heard that I feel awkward or mat be I'll like it (I'm still confuse)

    • Ok , go for what u want

  • As long as everyone is consenting then there shouldn’t be an issue

    • We are all ready, just want to confirm this. It doesn't feel bad after doing this

    • Doesn’t mean you won’t feel bad after, it’s just important that everyone involved ulved is able to consent

  • No that’s disgusting, ur husband doesn’t sound faithful

    • I know right.. I couldn’t do it as I’m traditional to each their own

    • @kc_4308 LOL yeah I will probably get extremely jealous and feel awkward that my boyfriend will think of my friend sexually afterwards. I'm sorry for calling it disgusting and being judgmental, it's up to you as long as you're happy, feel free to do whatever you want asker.

    • It’s a no in my book 📖

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  • Nope

  • My neighbor comes to my house to breastfeed my daughter. We are very close to each other so we have no shame or veil between three of us. We've seen each other naked because my neighbor used to feed my daughter in front of Husband in topless condition.

    • I think it is ok. go for it

    • Thanks

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