Just found out my son is gay should I talk with him about it? I dont think he knows I know his gay?

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  • I would slowly bring up the subject of relationships and ask what he thinks of gays and lesbians. If he tells you then let him know that you love him no matter what. If he does not just make a comment that you think all people just need to be happy no matter what their sexual orientation is. How old is he?

    • His 14 but i guess he consider himself a girl.

    • So... if he identifies as a woman and likes men, is he gay? Not that I would care either way, I'd just not want to say I knew he was gay if he didn't identify that way.

Most Helpful Guy

  • It’s best not to be too direct over this, it’s a hard time for him.

    let him have room to make his own decision but don’t weird him out by suddenly becoming all gay friendly mum and dropping comments about homosexuality.

    just be there for him when he decides to tell you.

    • Okay ;\

    • You can make the situation more open for him to come out to you. Are you okay with it? What are your feelings on how he will take it?

Most Helpful Girl

  • Best to keep quiet. Wait until he "comes out". If you bring it up, it could cause him embarrassment and could even cause a rift between you. Just accept how he is and love him like a son should be loved.

    • Okay ill do that

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  • I think whatever you do you always remind him that you love him until the wheels fall off.

  • Probably best to wait for him to come to you.

    • Okay.

  • Sure, let him know. Most importantly, let him know you love him and support him no matter who he is.
    Coming out to their parents can be one of the hardest things for a gay person to do. Support is critical.

    • Okay thanks

  • How do you know he's gay? You should be able to talk to your son about anything. I've heard rumors that you're gay, doesn't matter to me. I love you for who you are

    • I recently installed cameras around the house didn't tell my kids and watch him dress in my clothes and have a guy fuk him

    • Did you enjoy?

    • Watching my son be fuck no but i did like the other guys body and cock.

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  • Let it go for now, and wait for him to bring it up.

  • Why not just wait til he comes out?

    • I don't know?

  • Are you okay with him being gay? If he hasn't told you it's because he doesn't feel comfortable with you knowing. That probably means he thinks you won't approve. If you don't then you need to wait until he's willing to tell you. If you do approve, the definitely talk to him asap.

  • Talk about what? He must be afraid to tell you because of many things. Actually and honestly, it is none of your business until he want to tell you.

  • Just bring things up in casual conversation...
    If you love him and support him that's all that should matter

    • U think he be mad?

    • Maybe at first but talk with him and make sure he practices safe sex habits , above all make sure he is happy

    • Okay.

  • Dont, let him come to you whne he feels its time. For now treat him extra special make him feel comfortable and see what he does

  • Speak to explore, not steer.

  • Gays like to make a big production out of "coming out" but they have to do it in their own time. (Don't ask me how I know this stuff).

    So let him take his time and when he makes his big announcement just say "Yeah, I knew that. In other news, the Pope is a Catholic."

    • How u know? AMD thanks

    • OK, maybe. The people who I knew that came out said that was one of the hardest things they ever did. Some of them stressed about it for years or even decades and had to hide who they were for way too long. Maybe you could just drop a hint that you know, or drop a hint that you're OK with it. Casually mention your friend's kid who came out to your friend. She said she was surprised and didn't know what to say. You told your friend that she should have told her son that she loved him no matter what, like you would support your son if he came out.

  • How do YOU feel about it though, especially if he's an only child. Do you think he'll adopt, and try and give the kid his last name instead of the original last name, or do you think he'll do IVF, etc?

    • I have 4 kids. And idc as long as his happy.

    • Ah, ok

    • Yah. I wanna tell him i know but im scarsd.

  • Where's his father

    • Prison y?

    • That's what happen when single mom rise a son. Every kid needs father figure how long he's into these things? And do you think he has hormonal problems? Or he's just so weak? Keep n mind if have been living in a feminine place for too long that will affect him badly . Point the root of the problem and what did cause it them from there fix it

  • what do you think if it in general? are you okay with him being gay?

    • Yes im bi.

    • oh okay, it's good then, let him have all the gay sex he wants

    • I just think this gyy dick is too big for him

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