Each of us have unique kinks, fetishes, curiosities, and sexual interests whether or not we choose to do anything about them. We may feel restricted from sharing such interests, let alone persuing them, due to fear, guilt, timidness, embarrassment, or other reasons. Suppressing these thoughts and desires, to remain confined to our minds, doesn't make them go away and may lead to frustration, resentment, and unhappiness.
Whether tame or taboo, use this as an open-minded and sex-positive forum to post your interests, curiosities, fantasies, questions, and experiences no matter what might be involved.
Have ideas, tips, or other suggestions? Know that it isn't always easy to open up, so lend an ear (and possibly a helpful hand) to share your adventures, perspectives, and recommendations upon the responses below.
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Kinks, Fetishes, Curiosities... Oh My! Ask, Answer, Anything Goes?
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26 8Kinks: I'm basically a top, a domina, a sadist
Fetishes: hand, neck, blood.
Sexual interests: foursomes
Care to elaborate further?
About what exactly?
I know about that lol
Respect, it’s a hard role at times
@Jude_Wills Oh you do?
Yes You live in France?
@Jude_Wills Indeed 👸🏼
I can easily recognize you 😂 😂
@Jude_Wills I notice...
Yeah by your smell 😂 😂
@JUDE_WILLS LMAO
I have a thing for finger sucking
Many may find this an exciting and stress-relieving practice especially if one has an oral fixation.
I meant that in a purely sexual sense but it can definitely be a good way to stim
A threesome with a guy and a girl. And obviously that girl has also to like girls so everyone enjoys it.
A wonderful idea. Yes, threesomes may be enjoyed much more if all partners are involved with all partners.
Anonymous is safest option here.
Mine is... virgin guys, those shy virgin guys. To be their first, to take their innocence, seeing them so nervous, the twitching, the shaking in the voice, not being able to maintain eye contact, ... To just push them on the bed and make them mine... And that's the problem. I would like to be in a serious relationship, but I would probably have to say goodbye to this, this guilty pleasure.
I like what you're holding back. It would be difficult to rid yourself of your guilty pleasure. This is clearly an age play desire. Many ways to keep your guilty pleasures alive even in a relationship. Through roleplay, even role reversal. Its your secret alternate life. Lets share similarities. I'm fantasizing your fantasy. You're welcome to follow and pm me.
@AndriaAlex Agreed. Roleplay would probably be the best. The real thing would be perfect, but I think finding a man who'd let me satisfy these urges is going to be close to impossible
It is so not impossible. Very possible. Pm me and I'll help to explain how/why. you'll understand then. I know you'll find it interesting
@AndriaAlex gave great ideas. It sounds like their's a domination aspect that you might also be able to squeeze into the relationship you seek.
There is for sure, I always liked to hold the ropes. The roleplay is one thing, but just being able to dominate in general is fine. If he's okay with me being in control, I would already be very happy
Open up non anonymously so I may pm you or you pm me. I feel in your words what you fantasize and it probably pains you not to truly voice your inner desires. Im transgender. Which means I am biologically male. So technically I'm one of those guys you think are impossible to find to accept your secret urges. More than just accept. But rather be arroused by them. Its an age play taboo of all ages. Innocense. You wouldn't be the first nor the last to want something very taboo. Thats the internal struggle of a fantasy. Wanting it to be real. But there are ways to come very close. You could have had what you wanted with me in my innocence and would have never told. Talking from experience.
@AndriaAlex noo it would defeat the purpose of being anonymous
so you fantasize young boys. Lol. Like who hasn't. Man girl, woman boy. Its a fleeting fantasy at some point both consciously or subconsciously. People rarely admit it. Its not unlike the history of adults roleplaying daddy's girl stemming from the Electra complex. Although Im transgender and crossdress, I'm still a biologically functioning male down there. I'd so talk it out and roleplay it for you. Maybe right in a public place while you're visualizing certain things when you see the object of your fantasy. Who doesn't love a woman with a dirty mind
@AndriaAlex No, just virgins in general, not the minors and not the people who could be my father 😊
you imagining me fishing alone, in a private wooded area , maybe you catch me masturbating, when I become thoroughly but shyly embarrassed. And you play on my innocence
@AndriaAlex I would honestly let you be
I have to save myself now
For me it’s having a girl threaten to cut my penis off while playing with it. Kinda really want to have it actually happen too
You might be surprised, but that's a much more common interest (nullification) than many might think. This might be combined with such interests as SPH (small penis humiliation), CFNM (clothed female nude male), CBT (cock and ball torure), D/s (Domination/submission) aspects, role play, castration fantasies, and others.
Wow! Really? That’s cool 😊! I like cbt and cfnm too
Maybe castration too... I don't know
Seems to be quite rare, or maybe guys and probably especially girls Are too scared to admit it if they do.
It's a fantasy for more than you might imagine, and if you take a look at BME (Body Modification Ezine), you'll likely come across several people who have gone through with it. With the testicles, some may enjoy elastrator play in which very strong elastic bands are attached upon the scrotum above (proximal to) the testicles to cut off the blood supply. They're typically used to castrate animals, but this form of edge play has made its way into people's bedrooms. As with all forms of edge play, such things can be high risk and require the utmost caution and safety if being considered.
I actually have a lot of taboo fantasies but I am not comfortable with sharing them on the net because a few are illegal... not that I would ever do it but it does turn me on sometimes.
One I will share is lately nun on nun action turns me on.
Luckily, we still live in a society where it's hard to prosecute someone for his or her thoughts. Wouldn't it be safe to surmise that posting anonymously about your interests may be an appropriate feasible manner of sharing and getting other people's input? It's understandable to have worries especially with matters that are taboo, but rest assured that plenty of people have interests that do not fit the legalities of a certain area, and I encourage you to share as you'd like. I know that there is nun on nun role-playing porn, so there are likely many with similar fantasies.
Well the problem is that not everyone feels that way. Like for instance if I were to say I have a kink for hs teacher/student relationships, someone could report it and it could be traced back to my email or ip. Then I will be on alert for the rest of my career for possible pedophile. Maybe I'm being paranoid but Snowden definitely opened up my mind to what is actually possible when it comes to the govt.
I hear what you mean, and you bring up a good point. Sure, you can make use of VPNs and more anonymous means of posting, but nothing is ever guaranteed to be anonymous. Nonetheless, using that HS teacher/student analogy, I imagine that it's a rather common desire. You're human, and it's understandable that those who are developing rapidly with high libidos and a sort of innocence about them might provoke many naughty thoughts within the minds of both the aspiring young students and their teachers. An awareness of the line between thoughts and actions is a healthy safeguard for your career. I applaud you for opening up with us, and I encourage you to share as you'd like.
Because you're anonymous you can follow and pm me. There are ways to chat your taboos in less specific ways that will mimic some of your particulars. Age play fantasy etc. , is quite common. Fantasizing sex with people you shouldn't is absolutely unavoidable. Its rather inevitable. Chatting them, expressing them is such an erotic arrousing release. My taboos are limitless.
I think humans in general have a number of fantasises that are on the border or well across the border on taboo etc. Fantasise are one thing, reality another. Rape fantasies being one, women and men have them but never act out in reality (unless fall in to the unhinged and plain criminal, nasty abusive etc type). Improper relationships are fairly common. Even fancy dress, you have vicars and tarts or sexy nuns, great for fancy dress, however as it is actually common, it shows the nun on nun thing is actually a common improper relationship role play. For me a lot of it is simply release for both parties.
Same here me to have so many fetishes but people think i am not normal.. So i have to hide them
You can share them all with me. I won't be judging you!
@AndriaAlex would love to talk to you.
@libraboy We welcome you to share yours as well.
@insatiable_curiosity I can share in private
I wouldn’t mind being tied up Mel choking and me choking him too. I like to ride his face till I cum multiple times. I like when he does back shots and he put his thumb in my butt at the same time. I would love to dress up sexy or costume or cosplay. I wouldn’t mind trying to be throat fucked. With a little warning. I like a little in the public too. I miss when my ex we use my vibrator and his dick in both my ass and my vagina like he has to Dick’s
Good ideas. Given that the anus is highly innervated by branches from the Pudendal nerve, both men and women can really enjoy anal play whether it be to spice up masturbation or sexual activities with others.
anything to do with her ass
I'd venture a guess that many share your same delight in anal play of many kinds.
I’ve never had any sexual experiences with anyone, but for some reason I’ve always been into licking and elf looking men. If someone looks like this guy here and I’m being licked and seduced... oof
Sounds like role play and maybe some wearable items might make this fantasy come true?
I like to do reverse Cuckold because I have a black boyfriend with a small dick and I make him watch my ex boyfriend fuck me.
My ex is a white man with a big cock and it's exciting to humiliate my black boyfriend.
He likes to do raceplay and pretend.
I'm not racist, I just do it because it gets him off to jerk his little black dick while watching me fuck a real man.
The mind is the most important erogenous zone of the body. I applaud you for speaking up and sharing with us.
Thanks, great question.