Kissing after oral?

Question

Okay so I need some honest opinions. My boyfriend and I are having sex for the first time , and this has forever been on my mind ; Do I kiss him a thousand times before oral and never kiss him afterwards? Would it gross him out if I went In for the kiss right after? Or should I just say f*** it and kiss him when it feels right. Haha it's a lot I know, and It's hard because everyone has different opinions but I had to get it off my chest. Hopefully someone can help me out. He's an amazing guy and we've been together for the longest time and I know he wouldn't judge me! I'm just knew to this because , well I'm a 20 year old virgin and I want everything to be perfect. So thanks in advance!

NortheastLover · Accepted Answer

This is a little OT but you may want to reconsider sucking his dick before you guy's fuck if this is his first time banging you. reason being, he's going to be so stoked to fuck you that he probably isn't going to last long to begin with. If you suck him off too good before you guy's bang, he's going to cum the second he puts his dick in you and that won't be any fun. I'd say since this is your first time together, maybe just make out and stroke him a little bit first and get straight to the banging. After you finish, if you want to do it again THEN suck his cock to get him up again and you will be good to go. As far as the kissing him right after blowing him, That's no big deal at all. just don't make it awkward and it won't be! For instance, don't pull his dick out of your mouth and go straight to making out. when you are done doing it, Kiss his neck for a second first and go with the moment, working your way back to kissing. =)=)=)

runningislife · Accepted Answer

If he's lovely like you say he is I don't think he will mind. And if he's a freak he would actually enjoy it. When ever my girlfriend gives me oral i just love to tongue her down after for two reasons. 1) she loves it and it turns her on much more. 2) It's my body my dick, and I just love how hot it is like she even tongues me down after I go down on her. Such a turn on.

LightsOff · Accepted Answer

Nothing is or should be gross about kissing after oral. It's perfectly fine, it's not unhealthy or anything. I mean if you're ok with going down on each other, shouldn't you also be ok with kissing each other afterwards? If it's good enough for you, it should be good enough for him, and vice versa. It would be hypocritical of him if he was ok with you going down on him, but wasn't ok with you kissing him afterwards. I think it would be rude to not be ok with kissing your partner after oral, it shows that you think it's a disgusting thing and that it effectively makes your partner disgusting as well for doing it... totally disrespectful.

So all in all I think it's completely fine. Anyone who thinks it's gross is just a pansy and shouldn't be having sex in the first place if it's so "gross".

crazyblue · Accepted Answer

from my experience most people dont stop kissing after oral. Unless ur in a miranda Hobbs situation and someones got cum all over their mouth im pretty sure most people dont mind. and if they do they'll tell you and you go from there :) You might not even get to oral ur first time also dont put pressure on urself for great sex the first time. no ones perfect lets be real, and good sex usually takes time unless u hit a goldmine on a one night stand lol

schulzy · Accepted Answer

If he has a problem kissing you after you give him oral, that's kinda pathetic. You just did him something you definitely didn't have to do, so a kiss of appreciation at least should be expected. And you two are going to have sex. It's one of the closest things you can do, so he should be just fine with it. Run it by him first, however

Cmasterson · Answer

Well if he's not willing to kiss you after oral, he shouldn't deserve oral in all honesty. You should kiss him when you feel like it, which is probably gonna be 99% you're going to want to haha. You'll most likely come up and go straight to kissing him, unless you're in a different position, either way during sex kissing is 80% of it. Your jaw will be sore ;) haha.

selfishstars · Answer

My partner and I kiss after oral. I don't see anything wrong with it, and to be honest, I would be offended if a guy refused to kiss me after I went down on him.

That-Guy · Answer

Yea, who cares.. you gave him oral if you want to kiss him then kiss him. The only thing i wouldn't do is kiss him if you still have his cum in your mouth.

I love kissing the girl after i go down on her and making her taste herself...

AustinMan · Answer

Kiss him when it feels right. If he's reluctant kiss you after you've gone down on him, get a little indignant and say if it's okay in my mouth, it's okay in yours.

midnight_shadow · Answer

Just ask him if he finds all alright :)

hellionthesage · Answer

I say go for it, when ever it feels right. Just don't surprise him with a snowball that could get ugly quickly.

Katieleannpace · Answer

Sometimes it grosses men out, but i honestly feel that normal men wouldn't be bothered by it. Just make sure that you swollow or spit it out before, if not he may vomit.. If you have been with him so long I'm sure hw wouldn't mind if you talked to him first.

diarrhea · Answer

Do whatever you want, sex is boring and bad if you overthink it and wonder what's right or wrong to do. If you want to kiss him, and I can't see why you wouldn't, do it. And make sure he goes down on you too, damnit.

nate18 · Answer

i dont care if a girl kisses me after.

Rachael1014 · Answer

My boyfriend loves kissing after oral. Especially if it's after him eating me out. He absolutely loves it

rained_on · Answer

In my personal experience, most of the kissing is done in foreplay, and post BJ kisses would only happen when things got REALLY passionate. I enjoy hardcore sex so this isn't really an issue, but if she has a load in her mouth, it's a definite NO. And unless your boyfriend has a cum fetish, i'd assume that's a no for him too lol