Ladies, is sex still good if you don’t reach the big O? Guys, do you make sure your lady gets it every time?

[Pinay_ako]

[BoopBoopBeep]

I'm a guy and I don't reach the big O every time. If we're doing a marathon session I may have to tap out early in one of the later rounds. It is what it is. Law of large numbers it evens out in the end.

[Pinay_ako]

Does your lady partner get the O every time?

[BoopBoopBeep]

Depends on what you mean by every time. Every night, probably 99%. If she's exhausted or something, maybe not. Every time? Well if I finish three times in a row and she gets off only twice do you count that as one time since we didn't stop? What if she gets off 7 times and me only once in the same stretch? How many "times" is that? There comes a point where keeping score isn't relevant anymore. We both have multiple orgasms a day. Just by virtue of being a multiorgasmic woman she's likely to have more orgasms in 24 hours than I am as a multiorgasmic man, but it just seems like complaining about the $20 licensing fee on your Bentley. After a certain point it doesn't matter.

[Legendarylegacy13]

You must cum quick. Because 7 cums... for a man I don't see how that's done. And what I want I want a female to cream on me I have never done that... lol

[BoopBoopBeep]

@Legendarylegacy13 Reread... i didn't say I get off 7 times.

[byrdman89]

I do my best 😛

[RespectfulGuy]

Can speak for girls but I think O is always better tha no O.

For us guys, definitely must have O because it's associated with an ejaculation that empties our prostate, which is extremely pleasurable.

Yes, I always attempt to make sure she gets an O. It's important in my opinion.

[Leapfrog00]

I usually start out with foreplay, instead of rushing into it. When I do that, the girl I'm with always orgasms, usually more than once. Foreplay makes it last longer, and plus, I like to explore anyway. Girl's bodies are so hot!

[OlderAndWiser]

My partner always gets at least one orgasm from foreplay before I start the couples' dance with her. Makes sex together more enjoyable for both of us, and keeps her wanting more!

[Anemone978]

No not good if I don't O, its kind of like "get the fuck off me" at that point lol but usually if I want to come I tell him get his ass back in gear because I ain't done..

[ObscuredBeyond]

I usually strive to ensure both parties get there. Though, I may start getting tired before the results are achieved. Need to get some more irons out of the fire, wrap those projects up, and use the free time to get in shape again, before I try my luck with a lady.

[spartan55]

I feel a sense of duty to make sure she gets off. The first few times you have sex with someone it's usually not the greatest. I call these 'recon reps' where I figure out what buttons to push.

[Apple1996]

Yes sex is still amazing even without orgasms. I don't need them to feel satisfied. Watching my partner take in pleasure/have a orgasm is way more satisfying then my own pleasure/orgasms

[mandyfire98]

I mean the feeling still is there. It still feels good but I still want that orgasm though lol.

[SnowedIn]

Absolutely make sure she has at least one orgasm before penetration and usually a second one after I've cum in her by going down on her.

[Mystery1900]

I usually give her orgasm orally either during foreplay or after I cum.

[EmmaMary]

Although it naturally wouldn't be fully satisfying, it is still the sheer utter intimacy of being with my husband that counts.

[NathanDavis]

twice... or it didn't even happen

[PizzaPieMamaBear]

Yea I can still enjoy it. I really enjoy giving head sometimes I prefer just doing that so I don’t need to big o everytime

[MementoMori777]

I'd use my mouth if I gotta keep the lady happy but finding the lady worth my time is the bigger challenge, but who knows maybe that's the easy part.

[Agape93]

Is eating a good meal satisfying if you're not allowed to swallow the food?

[Dargil]

Guys, do you make sure your lady gets it every time?I am a short round with a hair trigger. I had long since learned to follow the axiom:

I developed a menu of oral and fingering over time and will give her a give her a BIG-O every time before I even mount up. When I met her, she had zero experience with either, although not a virgin and she found these additions to be much to her liking. And sometimes (not every time), I can quickly mount up and ride out her orgasm to the finish line. Good work when you get it right.

[RavVid]

Yes nearly all the time. There have been times when a girlfriend has said she doesn't want to and asked me to 'be quick' but nonetheless got interested regardless. I don't think think sex has to be equally good for both partners every time in a long term relationship. It can reasonably be focused on multiple orgasms for the girl. Or brisk and quick with ejaculation at the peak of sexual excitement for the guy.

My impression to date is that women can enjoy adult mothering so to speak and take pleasure from giving pleasure. It wouldn't be the first time a girl has fucked it better for their man. And it wouldn't be the first time a girl has got a kick out of her man being suddenly over the top sexually excited by her and not giving her much chance to orgasm before he ejaculates.










you orgasm then I'll ejaculate is generally good but a bit ho hum if it is a 100% that way.

[oldguystillhasit]

I always at least try to finish her off. Sometimes though she doesn't want me to finish her because she wants that feeling of arousal for a while after we have been intimate, but most of the tine she wants me to make her pop.

[berisky23]

I always make sure my current partner cums before we even get to sex to be honest. Just to make sure they've cum incase I do a typical man thing and cum first 😂

[Fireguy17]

yes, at lest one or more.
My wife's record before we were married is 6, but she was tied to the bed and could not do much about it at the time.
I would have continued but she looked pretty much done.
She couldn't talk in a full sentence, her body was kind of quivering, and she seemed pretty much out of breath.
I figured it was time to quit.