I like to be on top and i can be rough. For example with my girlfriend she was shy. so to make things interesting and keep the fun going I had to be rough with her I'd grab her by the hips rub her down hold her down and say your mine and take her pounding away and kissing her asking you like that and smackin her ass. When we where doggy I'd slap her as and pull her curly hair back and keep going. I loved it when she was on top because she would put on a show. I'd rub her hips and sides While enjoying her ride me and moaning my name. Then what got me over the top was sometimes when we where just hanging out she would put her head on my lap use me like a pillow we usually just talk about goofy stuff and I mess with her curly hair which I loved she was on her back. Then out of no where she turn over on her stomach and get proper up on one of her elbows and with her free hand. Unzip my pants and pull it out then if she was really going to get into it she pulled my pants down with my help and she went to town on my cock playing with it suckling it licking it and around the head and then get on her knees in front of me and look up while she blew me off so we made eye contact when she did this I let her do what ever she wanted but sometimes I'd grab her hair with one hand and push my cock more in or in and out and when I did really good she would say I love you master
I'm versatile as hell.. I can adapt to any type I guess. I wouldn't say I'm more dominant or submissive.
Oh shit this was for ladies... my bad dude.
I think I'm a switch. Mostly because I'm bisexual, and I prefer to be with men and women differently (submissive with men, mostly dominant with women but sometimes also submissive) but also because I'm not giving complete control to anyone. If I want to switch a position, sit on your face, or do whatever else I want to do, I'm gonna do it. :) I like to be in control sometimes. For example, I tied my bf up in a chair and teased him, lapdance, blindfolded, and gave him a bj. He couldnt be in control - he couldnt move hehe
I think submissive for me is about the actions happening and a sense of control. Like I can be on top and still feel like he's the boss and I'm putting on a show for him. I like to feel dominated and kind of...degraded...I guess. That sounds bad. Sorry mom. lol But not like crazy bondage and things like that. But I probably want more of that "You're my bitch, understand?" vibe from the guy than a lot of women would admit to anyway. And a little choking never hurt anyone... :)
But its also cool when no one is dominant or submissive. Sometimes its just two people crazy about ripping each others clothes off and going with the flow. I like that too.
And with women, I can go either way but there's something about women that makes me want to dominate them. Suddenly, my role switches.
That's interesting. Most subbies, even when they switch, get off on their dom getting off. Sounds like you are reluctant to trust your guy completely and let him "own" you for a session.
By nature, I'm submissive. I love letting a dominant man have his way with me. There's something so erotic about having him on top "taking" me ... but, I've learned to appreciate being in the driver's seat and giving a partner a break and some variety... being able to drive him crazy and make him cum for me because of what I'm doing... that's hot too.
switch, as a bisexual girl, i am sub with men (when in a sexual active relationship) and dom with my girlfriends, but sometime switch with. In three and foursomes always sub
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!I love being with a dominate man. I'm a really independent person in my every day life, but in the bedroom I like to totally submit to his control. It's hot to be with someone who knows that they want.
GAG Grammarian Notice: Dominate is the verb, dominant is the adjective. "with a dominant man..."
I'm glad that's all you took away from that.
Oh! And dominance is the noun. LOL Just messing with your.
I'm a Switch
I have my best climaxes when on top
This isn't about position. It's about control of the encounter for lack of a better word. Who do you prefer to be in charge? If you prefer the guy to dominate, then by definition you're submissive. If it's the other way around, you're dominant.
I know, sorry I should of been more explanatory... I prefer to be in charge, I feel that sex is better when I'm dominate compared to when being submissive.
Understood. There are plenty of subbie guys out there, as I'm sure you've found.
Switch.. It really depends..
On:
the guy..
my mood..
the position of Halley's comet..
Switch. It's fun to be dominated by him but it's also fun to be in complete control.
Sub bottom with a small % of switch
Very interesting. Quantify small. by the way, GAG got my age wrong. I'm older than you show to be.
Haha.. Ok A small percentage of the intimate session I'm dominant. I have only a few things I enjoy controlling.. The rest I want to be dominated..
I hypothesize that I would be 95% submissive, 5% dominant
I suspect you're right. Where do you fall in the spectrum?
Why would you suspect that? I'm not sure how to answer your spectrum question lol.
I suspect that your hypothesis is probably close to the way the poll will turn out. Did you answer the poll?
I'm the T/D-est woman you'll meet on here.
Wow so umm riding?
@cavmanier: You sure like my answers today, huh? :P
Stop taking about sex
I'm mostly submissive but I can be dominant too depends on how I'm feeling
I'm a total switcher
I'd say switch but leaning more towards me being dominant.
I'm both Dominant and Submissive.
I am 100% submissive. I do what the dick makes me do...
i am definitely bottom submissive.
I'd imagine I'd switch it up, boring being in the same place all the time.
B. I'd say I'd be more submissive.
*starts dancing*
I submit (if that's even the right phrase) because I prefer him to be on top, but is that really submission?
This isn't about position. It's about control of the encounter for lack of a better word. Who do you prefer to be in charge? If you prefer the guy to dominate, then by definition you're submissive. If it's the other way around, you're dominant.
Well, no matter what position we choose, it always ends up with his penis inside of me. So by that definition, I am submitting.
You over simplify. Dominance is about who's making the decisions during sex. If you're calling the shots, then you're dominating, even if you're topping from the bottom.
I dominate everytime.
The majority said submissive, Thats interesting.
It's sort of the way we raise our girls in the US and the West in general. I expected submissives to be the most numerous. The comments are what are fun and educational.
It is interesting and fun to read this, I think is how women are wired to be, submissive that is, I heard a psychologist say that on TV, I don't know but yeah
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