Sexual Relationships 
Sexual Health So say you met someone and they were great. Damn near everything you wanted. But then you discovered that they possess that one damn dealbreaker that you refuse to stick around and put up with. Say it just keeps happening with the last few guys or girls you initially vibed with, but you still refuse to lower your standards. What dealbreaker (s) would that be?
This is inspired by a question I answered earlier about dating people who drink. Its not a dealbreaker but its damn sure a turnoff. Its so common that if i made it a dealbreaker, I’d hardly have options lol.
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#DealBreakers
MY ANSWER—
As for the common dealbreakers I’ve come across with potentials...
—Those who smoke/sniff/snort/eat (weed, tobacco, edibles, and any sort of drug included)
—Those who drink TOO OFTEN (daily/weekly/monthly is too much for me to tolerate)
—Those who do not want kids until they are mid 30s/40s
—Those expecting sex early on like within the first few months (I do not consider a 1-3 month relationship longterm at all)
—Those out of my age range (5+ years older or younger).
—Those into anal sex or rimming.
Those are all just absolute no no hell no’s for me and we shouldn’t waste our time on eachother. I dont think these things make the person a bad person but I do think it makes them a bad fit for someone like myself.
List a common dealbreaker that many of your potential girlfriend/boyfriends had?
DizzyDesii Editor
Updates:
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Dang i forgot my ABSOLUTE MAIN—If he doesn’t believe in God. PLUS —if he constantly says he's depressed no matter how hard I try to make him happy that day/week. —if he constantly downs himself and thinks im gonna keep feeding him compliments... Nah if you think you’re ugly then spend these next 24 hours being ugly cause you only get 1 compliment a day —If he's anything other than straight —if he’s still friends with his ex. Like good friends and hangin out alone together. I trust him but not her
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What Girls & Guys Said
11 38i stay away from focusin on the negative for different reasons more so than women for men appearance is everything and that's really a deal breaker within itself not the reality of who we are as men just your perception of us as men strongly determines whether we get to fuck ya or not and whether ya wanna be with us or not so i know better than to get into the negativity of deal breakers because in the datin game most women actually got wiggle room to complain and be emotional that's not there for men and the minute we start that any potential of fuckin ya or fuckin wit ya ain't necessarily gone but it's automatically killed as a result of that shit
#1. Any type of mental illness,
anxiety, depression ect………
its never lead to anything but problems. And i DO NOT NEED THAT.
#2. Is not believe in god,
#3. Poor decisions/ in general. Not smart.
(spend all your money,
Not think things through, Drugs, ect…….
those 3 things i want no part of in. Any way shape or form
Sounds good
That she has low of lack of sex drive
Understandable
Fat builtUnhealthy lifestyleUgly face
Face is extremely important. A body can go to the gym but ima need them to go fix all of that before trying to date
Yeah body can change but it's not so easy to change too especially if someone is naturally fat built and has tendency to put on weight
You have to meet someone you are compatible with. That's why some dating sites might be better, put down all your deal breakers to find the guy you want. I have deal breakers, but they are just different from yours.
I dont so dating sites. But i do wait til i have a serious “getting to know you” conversation with the guy and i lay it all out on the table, mainly when asked. I dont have time to waste
Ok good luck then