List things you want your partner to be good at?

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For me, its important that he be good at
—Communicating (As the song says, “what i need from you is understanding”. We must both be good at expressing ourselves collectibly/calmly without easily getting frustrated. This should is the start to building something strong and longlasting)

List things you want your partner to be good at?

—Being Hopeful. (We should trust in the Lord, keep faith, respect eachother and eachothers boundaries by having some kind of morals/manners)

—Staying faithful. (Just dont cheat. You should want the least amount of heartbreak possible and its best to mutually agree to end things. If you dont want “us” anymore, just say so so that you can take the easy path out and i can stop wasting my mf time)

—Keeping up their appearance. (I’m working on this again myself, but i just want us both in good health)

—Being romantic. (Set a romantic date night at least once a week or twice a month. And dont worry, we’ll split the bill if we go out)

—Physical Affection (And i dont mean cuddling lmao. I just hope he’s a great kisser who’s great at fingering me and sucking these tits. I say this after having had a guy try to eat my face, another try to murder my cooch with his constant stabbing attempt at fingering, and another bite my nips as if they were chocolate hershey kisses. Also, dont be afraid to disrespect the public with our wildass PDA)

—Showing Determination. (I want someone who fights for what they want to get and keep. Have an ambitious mindset. Im very determined in life and financially stable so i prefer he be too. If he’s in debt then nah)

—Binging. (Cause i love to watch lots of movies/shows and will occasionally force him to watch with me while we ride our exercise bikes lmao)

—Being humorous. (Don’t force it and avoid being sarcastic. Lets just be our naturally goofy cornball selves with an occasional dirty sense of humor. And if you’re a total ditz or klutz thats even better cause I know you’re already falling for me lmao) #FeelFreeToList #TheDangNearPerfectPartner

FinalFantasyBro · Accepted Answer

I want my future girl to be somebody I wouldn't mind growing old with. The qualities I want her to possess are.

Determination- I want to find a girl who doesn't back down from getting what she craves and want in life.

Sexy- I am still a guy I want a girl who loves being extremely sexy and showing off her body for me.

Non Judgemental- I want to find a woman that doesn't judge me or others based on choices. If I want to find someone who blame others I just find a hoe on the street.

Independent- I love women who doesn't relie on me for everything they need, I don't mind helping each other out but she still should be able to accomplish stuff on her own.

Intelligent- She doesn't need to be a super genius but I still want to have a girl who I can have conversations with.

Feminine- I am a manly man who loves girly girls of course she doesn't need to be 100 percent girly but she should still dress and act feminine sometimes.

Kind- I want a girl who can argument with her kindness not having attitude or constantly getting into fights, I don't want to constantly throw hands with my idea woman.

Equal- We will be in this together, I don't want to control a girl, and I don't want her to control me.

Individuality- We might be partners but I still want to date someone who has her own goals, ideas, fashion since and basically her own life from me. I don't want to date a dizzy girl who constantly needs me babying her all the time. I want to become a movie producer and actor with my own company, but at home I want to dress really sexy what does she want in life.

t-8900 · Accepted Answer

Loyalty
Trust
Patience
Honesty
Good In Bedroom
Having High Libido
Talking about Interests, even the ones which are different
Wants to improve their body along with me
Wants to find harmony and peace inside the home
Being a Good mother
Defending my honor the way I defend hers (not with violence)
Good at Cuddling
Good at being an ASSISTANT chef because I love making meals as a team

TheorionMage · Answer

The Male Fantasy Conundrum

Pasiton5 · Answer

Don't need a laundry list, like you hear men and women ask what you want in your partner, then you get this long bull shit day dreaming fantasy list of crap that not even Jesus himself could live up to, on my list just have to have a good heart caring soul respect her self honest knows commitment, trusting the basics of a good person good at, hell sex cooking a good sense of humor and likes to goof off now and then just content with her life that's my ideal lady will I find her time will tell, right know he ain't saying anything keep looking, through, all you need is a good honest person rest can work through together as you grow together

spartan55 · Answer

Don't forget he must leave his boxers on for 69.

NathanDavis · Answer

be good at life

Bluemax · Answer

Compassion Physical affection  Good looking

humpbackjack · Answer

All of the above plus keep a young spirit and let me be me and not get too mad when I come home with stitches or broken bones because I did something fun or maybe kinda stupid or freak out for shooting bottle rockets out of my ears or making a slip and slide at 2 in the morning and coming to the back door covered in mud also she needs to at least have close to the same sex drive as me

JosyJosy · Answer

Communicating, if it's planning, love language, or arguments. Communication is very important.
I want him to take good care of himself and to 'keep trying'. It's not cause you're in a relationship that we should be slacking now. Stay healthy, be presentable. He is a reflection of me and I'm a reflection of him.
And... Sex xD
I'll keep it at that

Phoenix98 · Answer

Communicating/communication  Humor Affection physical/verbal  Being faithful/loyal  Those would be my main 4 must haves.

Pink2000 · Answer

Communication  Trusting Determined

Titanic1912 · Answer

I want her faith in God to be the best, her personality, her looks, her interests and her communication.

MysticDevice · Answer

Nerd trivia Music trivia Driving. I hate bad drivers Computers. She doesn't have to be a programmer, just literate enough to do some basic troubleshooting.

Jamie05rhs · Answer

I like everything you said! (Minus the binging. lol) I'm not even going to write my own thing, since you did such a great job on yours. :)

Wiredone · Answer

I already got the full package. She's caring, affectionate, funny, respectful, trustworthy, loyal, and she has common sense.

by the way I'm reporting you to the mods for your explicit video. Lol. I'm only kidding

kellytheman · Answer

Those are all good qualities that I believe I have and I want but my #1 thing I like is self degrading or putting themself thinking they are not good enough. For me it bugs me when a woman thinks that and honestly turns me off from a girl. I also have a problem lately finding a loyal or faithful woman.

Dennisjf12 · Answer

My wife has not allowed me to have sex with her in over at least 6 years or even kiss her more, and we have been married 35 years. I have never cheated on her. Only once has she ever given me a blow job, let alone a good one. Every time I was going somewhere, she always knew where I was going.
One time she came home from work, and I had taken every candle in the whole house into the living room and all the other lights off, hoping that we could have sex and nothing and she even told her friend about it at work, and her friend asked if I at least got a blowjob and her answer was no, . And I can't remember the last time I had sex on my birthday.
It used to be when we had sex. I gave her oral sex; first, I had to do that, so she was not so tense it usually took getting her off twice till she was ready, but I did not know that she did not like the taste of her self till she made me stop giving her oral sex after that sex started going downhill, she was giving me dry hand jobs then kept asking if he was hard enough yet, then when I could not perform she got mad at me.

noohair · Answer

You listed what you think the perfect partner might be. Since no one is perfect you will be very lonely and frustrated. Try finding someone where you can accept their faults and will love you. The only way I gained wisdom was from making mistakes. But I did go out of my way to find things that satisfied women besides a stiff ride.

pizzalovershouse · Answer

Wow I just try to never treat a girl friend bad I treat them with respect an ask how they feel when I sense something is wrong even though I'm single currently an my last ex went back to her husband she was g divorcing

legalboxers · Answer

Trust Honesty Communication Respect Can manage money know basic first aid (CPR and AED) to do online banking

alance99 · Answer

I dont want much, being down to earth, loyal, is physically fit, a passionate lover and i would be thankful to god and would my best to keep her happy till my last breath

Nigjt · Answer

Spending quality time as in cuddling watching TV making love or just hang around each other having patience sharing being very caring holding hands sitting next to each other all the things that lovers do anything that does not have to do with money.
God Bless

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