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So my little sister is eleven. My mom found various porn websites on her phone's history. I don't know what to say. I'm very disappointed. As I am at college right now, I used to monitor her every move when I was at home. I would make sure to not show her explicit music videos, and I would also make her cover her eyes during kissing scenes. But PORN? I don't know if I should be more upset at her or my parents for failing to check her phone daily. Now the plan is to deactivate her smart phone and let her use an old-school flip phone.
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And why it's kind of upsetting is because we're Nigerian. African PARENTS DON'T PLAY
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16 20its totally normal to look at porn at her age she's just curious its not the end of the world
Seriously? Talk about over protective.
just talk to her
Just use incognito mode
Explain her that porn has NOTHING to do with real life sex.
Kids under 16 shouldn't have smart phones in the first place. You can't monitor them 24/7, so as long as they have one, there is all kinds of stuff they can have access to that they shouldn't.
I feel you. I wish she really started out with a basic phone.
Sit down beside her and join in so she doesn't feel embarrassed or uncomfortable
I wish I could, but I'm not at home at the moment.
i don't see any problem. Girls are fucked up these days anyway
That ass got whooped, I'm sure. And I'm sure it will not happen again.
It's possible to set things so its hard for teens (she's getting close to being one) from accidentally stumbling on porn.
It's brutally hard to actually prevent them from getting it.
It would be awkward as hell, but probably really useful if you had some more serious talks with her about porn, about what's real and what isn't, about fantasies vs. real life, how consent works for real, basically how to enjoy porn without getting messed up by porn. Now? Maybe. Soon though. I don't know.
How much to say may depend a bit on if your sense is she was -curious- or using it for arousal. Though there can be a definite grey area with young people. Where they're really really curious. Over and over.