Sexual Relationships 
Sexual Health Love and sex are 2 completely different things to me. Is that normal?
Anonymous
I will start by admitting that I probably love sex more than the average girl. That or all the others are lying. I have been really in love 3 times, but I didn't feel sexually attracted to those guys, which is why the relationships ended pretty quickly. I do however feel sexually attracted to a lot of guys around me, everyday of the week, but never felt love for them. It's like love and sex are two things that have nothing to do with eachother to me. I have sex quite often and really enjoy it, but it's always with guys I have no feelings for. Sometimes I even think their assholes, but still the sex is great. I thought for a while that I'd best stay single and fuck around casually to get by. Maybe get a fuckbuddy I can trust. But of course, this got out of hand since guys really love to brag to their friends when they fucked me. Especially when you find out someone secretly to snaps while fucking you and shared it with the world, I knew this wasn't a good route either. So what should I do. I lost my hope for a relationship, I can't trust guys I want to have sex with, even guys I know, and I reaaaaly need sex from time to time. Just being honest about this. Any tips?
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9 31Yes they are different things which is why we have two names for them. Obviously. However usually they are closely related. I think possibly you are afraid of commitment. You can't get sexually aroused from guys you "love" because if you do that leads you down the path to a real, intimate relationship. You can't get get emotionally invested in the throwaway fuck buddies for the same reason. Thanks and please put a nickel in the can before you go.
how many guys you've banged so far?
You r just like me i also wannaa do sex but not having time for long relationships.. sex and sex
I hope the next dude you fuck gets tested shortly after
Yes, it is. But sometimes, for some people, having sex with someone you love is way more fun and pleasurable.
Let's sexting
let's not
Just kidding
Why aren't there more women like you?
maybe nsa sex?
thats normal for all people dont listen to the crap about the two being directly equal for women its neurological nonsense
Unfortunately, yes. That means you're willing to go out and be slutty
Nah, you're weird!!!
I agree. But sometimes they do overlap. Just keep looking for the overlap.
I think a guy would be told he's prioritizing sex too much. I don't know what you can do except keep hooking up but be on the lookout for a guy you feel sexually attracted to and you also love, there's probably someone who'll meet the criteria for both.
Honestly, I'm that way too. I just can't associate them no matter how hard I try