Loveless sex or sexless love?

[marish01]

[Berethor]

False dichotomy, why should I believe that she love me if she don't put out? also I kinda want children, love is overrated, animals do fine without it, and usually men give love for sex, while women give sex for love, sex tend to be more important to men, so I would vote as a man.

[marish01]

Sexless love can be for family members, friends, etc. Plus one can date without sex if they are abstinent. It's sexless love

[Berethor]

The question is in sexual behavior category and people who wait until marriage tend to marry sooner, for obvious reasons, and why call it dating, why not call it friendship?

[marish01]

Because you don't kiss your friends on the lips

[Berethor]

Okay, but if she want to wait then I rather avoid temptation in form of sexual kissing.

[marish01]

Do you consider lip kissing sexual?

[Berethor]

Asexuals say that it romantic, I consider aromantic asexuals as only true asexuals.

https://lgbtqia.fandom.com/wiki/Aromantic_asexual

[marish01]

Yes. Romantic asexual doesn't make sense.

[Berethor]

Yea it pretty silly, so you agree that many romantic acts are also sexual acts?

[marish01]

I would view it like that. If I am romantically attracted to him then how could I separate it from sexual attraction?

[Berethor]

Yea if you attracted to him then what it matter what kind of attraction you have.

[motownplayer2000]

If I had to choose. Loveless sex. If I truly love a woman, I would want to be with her physically as well as in every other way.. so I don’t think I could be in a sexless love relationship.

[weysally]

how many enjoy a one-night stand, you can do without love, but how many can do without sex, I must have sex somehow, and I don't mean masturbation

[marish01]

You would be happy without love?

[weysally]

no, but if I had to choose between the two options then this would be the one, for me

[marish01]

Do you have friends?

[weysally]

lots of friends, yes

[marish01]

Isn't it sexless love?

[weysally]

no, loveless sex, in my viEw

[Guy13]

sexless love.

[exitseven]

Good question I say B.

[magiusX26]

out of those choices, option 3, solo

[AdithyaR]

Sexless love. I can exist without the physical sex but I need the emotional intimacy.

[loveslongnails]

Some people don't need to love someone to enjoy sex with them - a concept you can not fathom.

[marish01]

I acknowledge such people exist.

[marish01]

And I stay away from them. I would never allow anyone to come near me unless that is my husband. The man whom I love and who loves me.

[loveslongnails]

Tell us something we don't already know, hmm?

[marish01]

What made you think I didn't know some people enjoy sex without love?

[loveslongnails]

I wasn't referring to that. I was referring to the point that we gaggers all know that YOU wouldn't have sex with anyone BUT your eventual husband. We also know you're aware that other people enjoy sex without love, and that you find them repugnant.

[marish01]

Honey, then why did you even mention that I don't understand that some people have sex without love and enjoy it if you know I know it?

[loveslongnails]

It was in response to a question, regardless of your known opinion... honey.

[marish01]

You referred to my opinion on sex without love. My question was Sexless love or loveless sex. Your answer "Some people don't need to love someone to enjoy sex with them - a concept you can not fathom." My question was not "No one can enjoy sexless love. Agree? Then you could answer "Some people don't need to love someone to enjoy sex with them - a concept you can not fathom". Read once again. Do you understand that you brought up my views on sex but in a wrong way when I didn't mention my views on sexless love nor dud I imply that it us impossible for some people to enjoy loveless sex.

[marish01]

Did* Is*

[loveslongnails]

You stated many times before that you abhor the idea of sex without love, and YES, you've also said that you do NOT understand how people can do that. At one point, though I'm not 100% certain of this, you even said you have little or no respect for people who do. If you now suddenly "understand" that other people can enjoy sex without love, it's a recent revelation for you, so bravo. Next topic.

[marish01]

Knowing that some people have and enjoy sex without love does NOT mean approving of it. Abhoring it doesn't contradict knowing such people exist. Of course I know they exist. How could I abhor a non existing thing?

[loveslongnails]

"Knowing that some people have and enjoy sex without love does NOT mean approving of it."---- We know -- nobody cares if you approve or not. I'm merely stating "your position on the subject is widely known". Abhoring it doesn't contradict knowing such people exist. Of course I know they exist. How could I abhor a non existing thing? - Whaaaaaaaat? *smh* Yes, you know these people exist, and yes, you know their behavior takes place, and yes, you abhor the whole concept AND actions of what they do. This is not difficult to understand as a statement, yet you don't accept its accuracy. Why? It's YOUR position!!

[marish01]

You obviously care about my opinion. You always mention how I abhor such people. Moreover you brought it up even when my question didn't mention my own views. Yet you still didn't miss the chance of mentioning my views.

[loveslongnails]

LOL I don't "care about your opinion" per se, and certainly not as it concerns me personally, but rather only as it relates to your questions. I brought it up because most of your questions, although seemingly innocuous and open ended, are actually bait. They end up with you expressing your morality to those who answer in a manner that goes against yours. I was merely saving time.

[marish01]

Saving time? Do you realize I brought up my views because you brought them up first? And look how many replies we shared because of that. You shouldn't have mentioned my negative views on it and eventually so many replies wouldn't be shared. And only at that time it would be saving time.

[loveslongnails]

I wasn't trying to save YOUR responses - it was everyone else responding.

[marish01]

Yet you wasted at least my time when you could force your bitterness to stay inside you and we wouldn't have this conversation.

[loveslongnails]

You responded. I didn't force you to respond. I'm not bitter towards you OR your viewpoints. I don't have to live with them or agree with them. LOL This is a format for thoughts and discussion. What I DO object to is when you demean others who disagree with you in areas that, for the sake of argument, are not "universally worthy of being demeaned".

[marish01]

I responded because YOU mentioned about my views when I said nothing about them

[loveslongnails]

Irrelevant. You still chose to respond. I accurately stated your views for the reason I laid out as I believed it related to the bait, and would save others time.

[marish01]

Do you realize talking about my views only made me reply not ignore although that is what you deserved? How would this prevent me talking about it in this forum IF that was my intention? How? It would intimidate me or what?

[AmeerX]

Love is more important than sex.

[LiamJHayden]

I can't do loveless sex, so sexless love.

[PointTaken]

Tough one. I'm going to think this one before I answer.

[marish01]

Come back tomorrow lol

[PointTaken]

I know a married couple (15 years married) where she didn't want to get pregnant so no penetration. They do oral and hand. In a sellers love masturbation or oral will happen. This point, I'll go with sex without love. It'll probably change soon.

[Juxtapose]

Sexless love is just what I already have now but sex without any friends would be pretty boring.

[Guanfei]

I already don't have sex. So I'd rather have love.

[Minahh]

Sexless love ✌️

[Jerre]

I love to fuck, no love needed.

[marish01]

Do you not have beloved peoppe?

[Jerre]

Lots of friends with benefits who I fuck, but no girlfriends per se.

[marish01]

Do you not have beloved people?

[Alex8736]

sometimes when you have a busy work schedule loveless sex (friends with benefits) can help relieve stress especially if you start feeling yourself dealing with burnout

[nudeNhorny]

Loveless sex off course

[Shy_Steve]

I chose Sexless love, But I'm not getting either at the moment.

[marish01]

😀😀 do you not have beloved people? It's sexless love

[Shy_Steve]

Well i have a family, But I am single.

[marish01]

I mean you still get love. Not getting sex is not that bad. To me it's awesome. Lol

[Shy_Steve]

So you would choose Sexless love aswell?

[marish01]

I won't have loveless sex. It's physically gross. I am as sure I won't have it as I am sure I won't eat crap.

[EaterPeter]

That's a difficult one. I have been in first arrangement it was fun.

[Rohaan2020]

Loveless sex over sexless love

[krin_m]

Neither!

[Yellovv]

I have to say that if you love somebody sex is amazing but if you don't like somebody even you can't able to feel something sexual about that person...

[marish01]

The very idea of sex with someone I have no feelings grosses me out.

[Yellovv]

That's what I am saying exackly, maybe sound is rude to you but if you don't like one girl even your dick didn't get hard for her, this is real thing, but if you like one girl dick is allways rock hard, sorry but this is true...

[marish01]

Attraction does matter. Some guys told me they had to do doggy with some girls because their ugliness would turn them off lol

[Yellovv]

No, that's not works for me, I don't know about other guys but if I don't like one girl I don't feel anything to her doesn't matter doggy position or not, also doggy is very hot position to fuck girls to me, also if she is ugly even my cock doesn't feel anything to her to getting hard (I don't fuck her), but if I like one girl even just looking to her face enough to make me hard, I hope you understand what I mean...

[marish01]

That makes sense. Your feelings for the girl dictate whether you get arousal or not.

[Yellovv]

Yes you are right, otherwise we would act like animal isn't it? Because they can fuck each other with no matter, what do you think about it would you let guy fuck you if you don't like him?

[marish01]

If I ever have sex that will be my husband whom I married with love.

[Yellovv]

That's nice, maybe this is little private question but if you get married one day would you accept oral sex from your future husband (giving and receiving), just wondering?

[Zlantur2]

We can't live without sex. Love we can have in various forms from others too.

[marish01]

I live without sex 30+ years. I'm alive.

[Zlantur2]

Really? Are you asexual? Then, that's fine but most people can't go without it.

[marish01]

I'm not. I just have many interests and joy in life.

[Zlantur2]

Ok then, good for you.

[marish01]

But if I didn't have so many hobbies of course I would look for excitement. And the easiest to get would be sexual pleasure. Anyone can have it.