Married and long-term couples: what do you do to prevent sex from becoming just a routine?

In a new relationship, you spend time getting to know your partner, feeling more confident, expressing more of your desires, finding out what turns them on, and responding to their desires. But eventually, sex can settle into a routine. Boob play, hand in panties, pull down panties, oral sex, PIV in missionary or doggy, then cuddle and go to sleep.
Is this how it feels?
Is this how it feels?
It always feels good. . . but it's predictable and not so exciting. What do you do to keep it interesting and satisfying for you and your partner?
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  • Pay her for it.

    • A hall pass works too

    • Not my idea of a good marriage.

  • Try to mix it up. Different positions. Different locations. Buy sex toys. Watch porn for inspiration.

    • agree but want to be a lot wilder but feel odd

    • @gabe2372732 Start slow and go from there. Be sure to communicate with your partner so you're on the same page.

    • do ut cn only say so much and I'm too wild lol oh welll overall its amazing but yea I feel weird letting any More loose

  • Always have a couple of side-bitches.

    • Let's check back in a few years and see how that strategy held your marriage together.

    • So far so good

    • She knows about the other women?