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Sexual Health Married man wants to get me pregnant?
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So I am having a romantic “friendship” with my patient. At the beginning I didn’t know he was married but then his wife came over the doctor’s office and we became really close. She showed me a picture of him and their daughters and that’s when I found out they were married! He explained to me that he doesn’t love his wife and has been trying to leave her for a long time. Apparently she trapped him and got pregnant. So he married her cause she’s illegal and he didn’t want his daughters to struggle. He became a cop to support them. Now he’s a sergeant and works A LOT! They’ve been living together for like 5 years but apparently he “sleeps on the couch”. She doesn’t work and doesn’t drive. Even though she could! She also asked him for $100,000 so she could disappear out of his life. But he doesn’t have all that $! He said he’s willing to pay her little by little just to be with me. I don’t believe him at all!!! But we’ve became so close. I’ve never had such a crazy connection with anyone. He’s like literary my best friend. We’ve kissed but never had sex and it’s been 4 months since we met. And 2 months since we started talking. There’s one thing that scares me tho... I told him I got off birth control and he’s been telling me how bad he wants to cum in me and get me pregnant. He wants to do that while he lives at home with her? NO!!! I told him I really care about him a lot and want to be with him but he’s not giving me the attention I need. I secretly love him but he will never know that. Should I keep being his “friend”? I don't know what to do!
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Let me also add that she uses him and buys herself expensive things. He does everything for his family. SHE doesn't EVEN COOK OR CLEAN!!! I want to be with him and treat him like a king! I want to show him what a real woman is 😔
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What Guys Said
(13)He maybe saying you the truth but would better suggest to be physically involved with him only when he is divorced. After all you don't want to be labelled as a reason who is trying to break a family. If you really love him then it's the best option.
Can understand your pain very well. I have been in this situation everyday, where you can't be with the person who you love and make him/her feel special for the rest of the life. But sometimes we are really helpless and don't have much of an option but to play the waiting game.
So you’re dealing with a similar situation? Tell me about it. Is she/he married as well?
I would better prefer not to talk about it here. It's a long story, she is married and hence I don't meet her. She loves me too but we cannot be together now.
Sighs... It’s so sad. Why doesn’t it have to be this way? 😔 How did u fall in love with her?
It was she who actually fell for me and then she would daily come to meet me up from her place just to see me. I know She was already engaged but love just blossomed between us and we couldn't stop ourselves even though we tried very hard to avoid each other. She would always make me feel special. Seeing her love I fell for her because never in my life I felt so happy and special. It was just magical between us and we realized how special it is to be in love. No use of speaking all these now, everything is just gone.
Can u send private messages here?
Yeah we can send messages, my username is amnatural.
Got it, thanks!