Sexual Relationships 
Sexual Health Me and my boyfriend disagree on abortion?
Ashheart Xper 5
I thought I was pregnant and we took a test and It was negative.. he asked me would I have gotten rid of the baby if It was positive and I said yeah because it was literally just two weeks after conception if conception had occurred. He told me he would have left me if I'd done that... I'm extremely upset about this because I thought he loved me and to turn around and say he would have left me broke my heart I don't think I can look at him the same anymore... I've helped him so much and been there for him and loved him and for him to say that.. what if I had been pregnant and got rid of it without telling him and he found out.. hed have left me.. that's what keeps going through my mind right now and I'm really upset :/ I'm only 17 what did he expect me to say.. and he meant it when he said he'd leave me
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What Girls & Guys Said
14 18Well done on his part you selfish so and so. Abortion is the lowest of the low.
it's not and never will be your body the baby grows in you deserve no say
@oldoldold Fuck off you cunt. The only thing worst then a feminist is a man who appeases them, fuck of my comment you asshole. I am allowed a say as is all men. It is the babies body and mens spunk, so that gives the woman no say whatsoever. get stuffed you tosser if i ever saw you in the street id smack your head in. And i ever met a woman who had an abortion id kill her.
You knew what you were doing. You know the consequences of having intercourse. So you are killing a baby for your mistake. Think about it? He was going to take responsibility for his mistake, meanwhile, you were looking for an easy way out; and if that meant killing a growing human being, you would do it.
I don't get the "its your body your choice " statement tbh. I think it's more along the lines of you wanting to be a parent or not. That's the real decision. I think you need to have a serious discussion with your boyfriend about this and if you are not ready to have kids. Try to find the safest form of contraception that works for you or just don't have sex.
I can't really faulty your boyfriend for the way he reacted because if I got pregnant and my boyfriend asked me to have an abortion, I'll definitely leave him and raise the kid on my own.
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Why doesn't her have a right to be upset with you if you said you would have killed his child? You have a legal right to abort if you want but you need to recognize that you are not the only one affected. It's his CHILD too. I personally could not be with a woman who would just kill a baby for the purpose of convenience either. I just couldn't tolerate that. Taking a human life is just too important an issue to be complacent about it.
*he, not her
It sounds like a pretty big thing you disagree on. To me it says a lot if a man values a packets of cells above your needs. That's just me though.
Women need to get over there sense of entitlement. Your just a pack of cells at the end of the day.
You need to get over thinking having an abortion is like something we're excited to do.
I think you should have a long discussion from an objective standpoint, not from your emotions. You guys could just have completely differing opinions, and if so, you should feel okay having a proper discussion about it, and tell him why you feel the way you feel and whatnot. I believe this will help with some of the troubling feelings you have.
Its your decision to get rid of the baby if ypu dont want it but its his decision of how he deals with that. Personally i would do the same as him.