Sexual Relationships 
Sexual Health Me and my boyfriend starting our relationship in late June 2019. I was 22, about to turn 23 and he was 27 and about to turn 28. We met on Tinder. I gave him my phone number after 2 hours of chatting, since i wasdone with Tinder after using it for 6 weeks. Me and him texted back and forth and while flirty never sexual. We started phone calls after 2 days, we talked legit for 8 hours about everything and anything. We met up for coffee a week after meeting on Tinder. We had dinner and after that we walked for a bit. I kissed him in the park and we found a quiet cornor where we made out for a few hours.
Fastforward 6 weeks later (early/mid August) and I kinda moved in with him. I officialy gave up my own apartment in November.
His apartment was the bigger one, but with 37m2 foe 2 people and 2 cats with no separate rooms it became crowded. We searched for a bigger aparment, but never got lucky.
Meanwhile we still had sex, but because I have a hormonal dissease I can not take hormonal birth control since I suffer severe and dangerous side effects from it. Add a latex allergy and sex can became less fun for him.
He never pushed me do anything I did not want or was uncomfortable with. He never liked wearing condoms (and who would tbh), also due his size. His penis would look like your skin dows when you wear too tigh jeans.
We had less and less sex because of that. I would ask him to mastrubate me, which he did for a while aswell. He would not let me touch him, if I did he would get super angry and push me of. I would research alternative bc methods, such as the female condom and lambskin condom and even offered him anal.
The last time we had actual sex was January 7th 2020.
I had made plans with my Gyno regarding a copper IUD. I had it before, but had it removed because it was placed wrong and hurt like hell. Due the pandemic, my appointment was postponed.
Me and my boyfriend got into fights about nothing in that tiny aparment due the lockdowns, but made up always after.
Me and my boyfriend have not had sex in 2 years. How can I change this?
LovelyBones13 Xper 6
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He came to a breaking point in September 2020 and dumped me. I left the aparment, moved in back with my parents and gave him space. I was a wreck. After 2 weeks, we were going to have dinner and I wrote him a letger about all the good moments we had and all the things I loved and admired about him. That made him cry and we made up and I inheired a lot of money in October of 2020 due a family member passing. I used that money to find nice house. He first said he did not want to move with me strai
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Straight away because he felt like it would be better for us to live apart for a while. I was upsett by this and postponed me moving out of his apartment for 2 months till he caved and said one day "f it, let's move the cats today to the new house and live there". I hoped that the extra space would help, but still no change. I got a copper a copper iud again, which he seemed really excited about at the time. He never took use of it and after 6 months during a check up it turned out it was plac
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What Girls & Guys Said
3 34Hi Would you be open to chat have fun maybe friends
yikes
come and see me
Time to find a new boyfriend
"Life" is hard honey... and it puts a strain on the Best relationships
I think that the sex is not the main problem. You have a bad practice to solve problems. But if you want to have sexual consult:
Try natural way on birth control, referinf to your menstruation cycle choose a day you can't get pregnant, e. g. Two days after end of menstruation.
And do you know if he masturbates? Tell him to let masturbation go for you. Make him use a chastity belt for two weeks. If he turns horny, let him give you cunnilingus. And the next evening he will be ready to have sex with you. Choose of course a infertile day for this occasion.
I have PCOS, so my menstrual cycle can be anywhere between 150 days and 28 days. It has never in my 14 years of having periods been predictable or regular. So this is far from an option I will ever be comfortable with, risk of pregnancy is way too high. And yes, he does mastrubate. Not while I am around, but I point blank asked him and he told me
Maybe have sex with him
Just grab it
He pushed me of and gets angry at me. I stopped trying this
I don’t really have advice for this guys are supposed to be easy
Learn more about him and see what he likes a friend of mine would just grab mine or sit on my face when I was lying down she knew I liked that
That is normally not possible...
I updated it with a bit extra context
İf that guy is dump you and you want to stay with him again something wrong with you..
I was not going to let my relationship be over because of the circumstances of a small living space
That is making you more weak beside him, that's your choice but you are making big mistake..
In 2 years sounds unrealistic
Sadly it is true
He sound like he isn’t into. You sound like a fucking keeper though.
What do you mean "his skin looks like it does when you wear too tight of jeans"?
Are you suggesting he looks funny? Did you make some sort of remark? Just wondering if he doesn't feel attractive to you some how.
You know when you have those red marks on your skin when you wear too tight clothes? That is what happends to his penis when he wears a condom and we have tried multiple differend brands and sizes
Add a sense of permanency to your relationship by getting married