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Sexual Health Men - Would you wear a chastity device?
Anonymous
I'm seriously considering making my husband wear one. I'm not talking about a chastity belt, but a discrete chastity device - a small metal cage which covers the head of the penis to prevent masturbation. It's locked on tight, and the key is held by the wife.. I'm not concerned about infidelity - I know my husband would never cheat on me, but he does masturbate without my permission sometimes, and I want to put a stop to that, because masturbation takes away his focus on me.. I want to be the sole source of his sexual pleasure. I have heard women online say that putting their husbands in chastity is the best thing they ever did, and that their husbands are so much more loving, romantic, and attentive.. Men are on their best behavior when they want sex, so I'm just extending that, by denying him release, I can keep him eager to please me all the time.. Apparently, chastity is a great way to "train" a man to be more submissive and obedient which doesn't sound bad, considering I practically wear the pants in our marriage anyways since I make more money than him. The way I see it is if I'm the one making the money and calling the shots, then his penis belongs to me. Mostly, I just find the idea of male chastity extremely sexy and arousing. I've been reading about it for months, and I'm ready to talk to my husband. This is something that I really, really, really want.
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What Girls & Guys Said
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I love when my fiancée locks me in a chastity belt
She is the boss hehe
i would
I was in chastity for 6 mos. It was amazing the way it changed our sex life.
Was this straight or did the cage come off for washings and relief? If no relief did you ejaculate in anyway during these 6 months? What model cage did you use?
It was straight. The first 125 days it came off only for supervised washing. Only prostate milking or pegging was permitted. After that we changed it up and played games for chances at a ruined orgasm. It was fun
My wife & I do this. We started a couple of years ago. We do not use a cage. I am self doing it. BUT if I couldn't do it I would ask her to lock me up.
We have been married for 50 years. In the beginning, she did not understand this. My wife is an old-school church lady. She was taught the man is the head of the home. She wanted to make me cum every time we had sex. I begged her not to allow me to cum. So I asked for 2 weeks without a cum. After a week she loved the new me after. She enjoys being in charge of the sex & it increased our sex together. She enjoys being the boss. After the first few times of being allowed to cum I asked if I could go one month between cums. I had to explain I did not like the feeling I get after I cum. I enjoyed the feeling of being under her control. Then I asked for 3 months. Now it is when she decides. I love having to earn the right to watch my sports or play my games. It keeps me on my best behavior. We are still learning, Now we snuggle every night where before we just laid beside each other. Now we talk & I feel her body up & we kiss. We are very close now.
50 years. So you started 8 years before you were born?
Yes, I would. However, I would doubt I need to masturbate if we are married.
No I wouldn't
I will not do.
About your idea , you should take advice and discuss with your husband. It can be scary for him. And you are worng for telling just you earn more money that doesn't make you the boss nor his any part belong to yours. No one belong no one. If it's not with consent it's not only illegal but it can break the relationship as well.
No. I'm dominant. It is for submissive men.
Absolutely not. I am INTJ.
If she really wanted it I would I'm a bit submissive so that helps
Please need help. My girlfriend has locked me in chasity.
You would be making him wear a chastity cage for all the wrong reasons.
First of all, saying that because you make more money then someone means that you own them or part of them is disturbing. Second of all your lover/partner is not a dog or a pet.
Forcing your husband to be in chastity just so he will become submissive and obedient for your gain, against his will--can be considered a form torture and
physical abuse. Not to mention the psychological effects that could come from feelings of being tortured or abused (anger, depression, etc...).
You need to talk to your husband about your fantasy first--and only pursue this if he is into the idea of being in chastity as well.
I disagree. Chastity if needed usually needs to be forced. I didn't want it and still dont but it did and still does work to keep me in line.
The thing about chastity is that for all the torture that comes with it sex becomes extremly interesting as well.
Wearing a chastity makes pretty much all forms of alternative sex a very viable possibility.
I absolutely love being locked in chastity!! My wife had me locked for 3 months before and I loved it!! Just got a new device the other day and can't wait till she locks it up again!! This one is waaay smaller and will fit better!!
You should peg him in chastity too. He will be very obedient and do anything to satisfy you. He will however after a short time crave the pegging though. So be sure you want him to be submissive
Yes. I would. It keeps a man focused on you
You wouldn't Catch me dead in a Chasity device. i Feel bad for your husband
Don't request it unless you're willing to wear one as well
Apparently you don't understand the point of the sub/dom dynamics.
Actually, I'm a Daddy Dom, but I do have tendencies of a switch.
If you were a true femdomme you wouldn't even bother asking opinions and do as you felt like
Bullshit. Consent is as crucial in sub/dom play as it is in any other sexual activity.
It is, but it's something you should already know the answer to. I know my subs/babygirls limits and she knows I'll respect the hard limits but I will push her on things I believe she'll enjoy even if she's too shy or timid to pursue or admit. It's a matter of being able to read your partner and knowing him/her better than they know themselves at times.
I agree. It would absolutely be there best thing that happened to either of you. You will not regret it