Men: are you more attracted to a woman who knows what men like and want? Or a woman who's unsure and wants to learn from you?

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I think it kinda depends for me, though I lean more to being into a woman who knows what men like and want. Like it's really hot if I tell a woman with huge boobs how I'm into tittysex and she says "Oh I'm sure. What man doesn't love that?" or that you're into deepthroat and she says something like, "I don't know any man who isn't." Shit like that makes me instantly horny.

I guess a woman who's not very learned is okay, there probably can be something special in that. But I think for me I like the assertiveness of a woman who knows what can make a man tick, but not to a point of arrogance.

Men: are you more attracted to a woman who knows what men like and want? Or a woman whos unsure and wants to learn from you?

TonyBologna25 · Accepted Answer

Already knows what men like. It’s challenging to communicate these things and have her actually do them the way you like. Women tend to assume we operate the same way they do, which is a natural thought. After a long day of feeling like shit, a good homemade dinner and some head will do the trick. We don’t want to talk about our problems for hours. We know what they are, and what we have to do already. Can take years to get it down with a woman. Rather save me the headache and be completely fulfilled from day 1. Ya know?

coachTanthony · Accepted Answer

-------------I like women who know "exactly" what they want. It's super attractive to me. Wishy washy wants and needs I guess is just not my cup of tea.

I think in the end the cliche goes something like this:

Most women don't know what they want and men never tend to know what they have!

WarningWarning · Accepted Answer

If a woman knows how to please a man, she must know what it takes to be pleased. And i am sure a guy wants his girl to be in tune with her own body. Many women font know they can orgasm from the inside. Many women dont know they can orgasm from kissing or her boobs being sucked. There is a lot to sex most women dont know about

Brainsbeforebeauty · Accepted Answer

Sex is one area where being older pays off. Lol
More confidence/experience in sex. Less afraid to experiment, let inhibitions go and use the skills you've learned over the years to pleasure a man the way he wants to be/deserves to be as long as he's doing the same to me/for me 😉

DizzyDesii · Answer

Every mans different. So i’ll use what i know... he’ll tell me if he likes it... and i’ll learn what he doesn't

Lliam · Answer

I prefer a woman who knows what men like and want. She built skill through experience (not necessarily with a lot of guys). She isn't shy, insecure or inhibited. She also instinctively knows what to do because she knows what feels good when it's done to her.

TechnoGarsby · Answer

For me it's a lot sexier when a women knows exactly how to act , I dont really want to be the guy who needs to show her. But there's nothing wrong with wanting to teach her either its sweet in a way it just depends on you past dating history and what you are looking for at the time.

markscott · Answer

I'm more attracted to a girl who wants to learn.

nella965 · Answer

i think that if you're with someone who doesn't know what they want, you're bound to have your time wasted. Personally I don't like wasting my time on guys who don't know what they want, its a waste of effort on my part to date them.

Dongtai · Answer

I’m more attracted to women who know what I like/want. If you you assume what I like based on my gender you might be wrong.

BeMuse · Answer

All men don't like the same shit.

Avicenna · Answer

You can easily learn how to please each other if you don't know already, which is why I say experience can be overrated. Passion, enthusiasm and the emotional bond are not overrated, though.

JacobRoto · Answer

I've always had a fantasy about a highly intuitive and intelligent girl that I get to teach and train. Not in a slave/bdsm way, she just doesn't know what to do. I don't want a scared, hesitant girl, but one that I can tell things and she remembers and learns how to pleasure me.

Shiver · Answer

I love both, can't really pick.

Dainolf · Answer

Well I do prefer women with little to non experience but she should have some common knowledge. She can learn from friends or her seniors, she doesn't need experience herself.

Statistics · Answer

What's to learn what I want but knows what she wants and likes

Ayer93 · Answer

I love a woman who knows what they want. Don't have the patience to deal with someone who's figuring it out.

Titanic1912 · Answer

Well, I hope it’s half and half.

maggiejack · Answer

I think men are attracted to any woman that's going to do things that make them happy. Basically play dumb but rock his world.

Jamie05rhs · Answer

I don't mind if she doesn't know what men want (and specifically, what I want) as long as she's willing to listen and learn. But PLEASE, for the love of God, know what YOU want!!

oncpl · Answer

Both types of women have qualities. The one who is more experienced (I have had sex with three such girls) performs more openly and knows how to please guys. The less experienced is also great one provided she wants to learn and doesn't shy to participate fully. One of my gfs was of this type.