Men, do u prefer to initiate, or do u want ur s. o to initiate sex?

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I would rather the guy initiate (slight fear of rejection) and, I just prefer it, its a major turn on, especially when its just out of no where

ecfresh · Accepted Answer

I prefer to start seducing her long before we actually make love. I desire her and want her to know that I want her soon. So will communicate and let her know how much I want to be with her. I like to seduce her in that way and if I can get her mind racing and anticipating naughty thoughts that works well for both of us. If we start kissing and she is already wet and wanting intercourse, that’s the most passionate.

MrOracle · Accepted Answer

I prefer her to initiate at least 1/3 of the time - though it should be understood that she REALLY doesn't need to do much. Just a look or an outfit or a sway of her hips is enough to let me know what she's looking for.

Poppymarie · Accepted Answer

I used to always be the one to initiate with my ex boyfriend because I had a higher sex drive. It was kind of disappointing that he never tried to initiate. I like a guy to be dominant.

Katie1964 · Accepted Answer

Hubby loves it when I initiate sex. Usually, he does the initiation but sometimes its nice to switch things around.

AustinMan · Answer

I really prefer to initiate though I also like it when she sort of seduces me with the micro G-string, stiletto pumps and a smile. P. S. Would love a follow. back

jalas4612 · Answer

I have no preference just as long as it happens and more than not!!!

Awkwardman36 · Answer

I prefer if it a mix. I start 99% of the time but it's nice when she starts too. It's like she wants u bad enough to make a move. Guys like to feel wanted too

anmolsaxena20699 · Answer

I like it when the girl wants it and she initiates it and then I take control

Sonorous · Answer

I haven't experienced this yet, but I feel like I'd want her to initiate. Because it is rare that I wouldn't be down for it. But if she found it attractive, and there were set times where she'd usually be down, then I'd start initiating more.

virtue2332 · Answer

It depends it is always good to mix it up so we both feel wanted

bluehen46 · Answer

Little bit of both, but I always get extra turned on being seduced expecially in my single younger days by older women

Reaperbot666 · Answer

I would say roughly 50/50 works. over even 70/30.

kind of nice to have your partner randomly whisper to you "wanna foul around".
randomly start rubbing your junk.
even walk into the room wearing something you think the look sexy in or nothing as all.
or they lay in bed like that and you walk in.

Dargil · Answer

I always do. I wish she would once in a while.

Apope16 · Answer

I get tired of having to initiate all the time. at some point I want a woman who is horny and wants to fuck me and just started kissing me and taking off my clothes or sucking my dick when I wake up in the morning or when i fall asleep.

ShadowofRegret · Answer

I like assertive women, so I would prefer she initiate.

humanearth · Answer

Its gets old. If I'm the one that always has to start it. What if the man wants to be suduce once and a while. I'm just saying.

Alexandrubaschet08 · Answer

both of them, if i don't think about sex i will like my s. o. to initiate sex, if i'm horny i will initiate.

MannMitAntworten · Answer

Both... I enjoy aggressive women just as much as I enjoy being aggressive myself so it is just as much of a turn on when she ‘takes’ what she wants as it is for her when I do.

Pejtu · Answer

Its 50/50 between my girlfriend and me  Sometimes i just grab her thighs and 👅🍑 Sometimes she just bends over and pulls down her panties  Depends on the Day 😊

fromOhio75 · Answer

Equal balance because it show the other person that they are still interested.

moonpie89 · Answer

I prefer to initiate sex. I have no problem initiating sex early on as long as I'm interested.

BloJo · Answer

I like for us both to. If one partner never initiated the sex it could indicate a lack of desire.

Cellestial · Answer

I prefer initiation but she have to initiate it sometimes so I know she's also craves sex with me as much as I do, not just having it because I want it, if that makes sense