My boyfriend doesn't want me to wear panties under my mini skirts?
tiffsterXper 3
Sometimes I don't wear panties, sometimes I do. He just asked if I wouldn't wear them regardless if I think someone might catch a peek doing things I know I will be seen. I think it turns him on knowing others see even though nothing is said I'm not sure if it's a good idea to knowingly not wear panties when I'm certain that guys, his friends or brothers, will most likely catch an innocent peek. Any thoughts?
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Don't get me wrong, I get turned on when guys catch peeks, but I'm wondering if this might be a little toooo much because it would way increase how many people catch a peek every day, especially since I wear mini skirts daily
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And yes I way think it turns him on when he knows guys are looking at my legs when he thinks I don't realize if they are catching a peek or not
Yeah that's sad that he wants to sexually show you off to everyone like a trophy, he sounds insecure in my opinion, it sounds disrespectful and objectifying for him to ask that of you, are you sure he doesn't love you just sexually? Like "hey look at this hot chick who does whatever I tell her to do even if it's risky and dishonors her, I'm so alpha and it inflates my ego" He might even talk sexually about you with his friends and he has no problem with it at all, but I think YOU should have a problem with all of this.
Relationships are amazing if they're sexual, but not out in the open like this, sex is for satisfying each others' sexual needs, not to satisfy someone's ego in his social circle, and that's what I think he's doing here. Be careful, you might be seen as just a sexual object by his friends and brothers, maybe even by him.
And oh, it's not manly at all for a guy to share his wife, even on this level you're talking about.
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tiffster
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I think your right
Anonymous
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I would feel extremely uncomfortable if I left the house without underwear, especially if I only wear a skirt. But if you like it... If you're only doing it because of your boyfriend, you should think about it again. I think this behavior is very, very dangerous. Take care of yourself, please. It could be seen as an invitation for rape.
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Anonymous
+1 y
Potentially dangerous in certain situations. I can't really wrap my head around the idea of a man wanting other men to see their woman's body parts in that way. Most guys want that just for themselves. What is the turn on?
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Opinion Owner
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If he asked you to do it just for him it would be different.
Opinion Owner
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Yes that would be different where no other men was going to see.
Opinion Owner
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for me I meant.
Anonymous
+1 y
In your case please wear them for everyone else's sake and benefit
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Yeah that's sad that he wants to sexually show you off to everyone like a trophy, he sounds insecure in my opinion, it sounds disrespectful and objectifying for him to ask that of you, are you sure he doesn't love you just sexually?
Like "hey look at this hot chick who does whatever I tell her to do even if it's risky and dishonors her, I'm so alpha and it inflates my ego"
He might even talk sexually about you with his friends and he has no problem with it at all, but I think YOU should have a problem with all of this.
Relationships are amazing if they're sexual, but not out in the open like this, sex is for satisfying each others' sexual needs, not to satisfy someone's ego in his social circle, and that's what I think he's doing here.
Be careful, you might be seen as just a sexual object by his friends and brothers, maybe even by him.
And oh, it's not manly at all for a guy to share his wife, even on this level you're talking about.
I think your right
I would feel extremely uncomfortable if I left the house without underwear, especially if I only wear a skirt. But if you like it... If you're only doing it because of your boyfriend, you should think about it again. I think this behavior is very, very dangerous. Take care of yourself, please. It could be seen as an invitation for rape.
Potentially dangerous in certain situations. I can't really wrap my head around the idea of a man wanting other men to see their woman's body parts in that way. Most guys want that just for themselves. What is the turn on?
If he asked you to do it just for him it would be different.
Yes that would be different where no other men was going to see.
for me I meant.
In your case please wear them for everyone else's sake and benefit
You aren't that hot so dont worry about it.
He's controlling you. That's wrong
It’s a turn on for him just knowing