I have a boyfriend and I keep pictures of Ryan Gosling, James McAvoy, Tom Hardy, and Fassbinder's dick outline in my phone. Same thing? Lol I don't know. I just love looking at pretty men. Doesn't mean I don't love my guy.
Let's say, he does have a physical type and you're not really it. But he's with you, isn't he? So there's smthg about you that makes him wanna be with you.
We girls are kinda vain, we want the guy to think that we're the prettiest creature he has ever seen and no other girls prettier (not true because Amanda seyfried, Eva green, Ashley fucking Graham).
What I'm getting is that, maybe it's your personality that he's most attracted to and that makes you win over all the sexy chicks he could've slept with. So the more you are fixated on your looks and become really insecure about it, that's gonna hurt the relationship more than any temptation he's ever had on sexy girls, because then he'll start thinking, "hey she's just a lot of drama and not the cool girl I thought I loved, is it worth it?". So, just chill and don't give him more reasons to doubt that you are the amazing girl that he fell in love with. Better, be such an amazing girlfriend that if he ever leaves you to bang some bimbo naked chick, he's gonna cry in his bed months later because he's lost you.0 0 0 0That's kinda a form of unloyalty... especially that first one. Why would he be checking out another womans ass openly (not in public, but on social media) and complementing her on it?
One of my best friends was in a relationship like this. Oh boy, did I hate him. Long story short, he ended up cheating on her (funny, since she's a 10 and he was, at best, a 3). He was a terrible boyfriend, and after she broke up with him, he tried to come crawling back to her pathetically. Just saying, it looks like you guys are going down the wrong road. Especially if you don't trust him enough to the point where you went through his phone (I'm assuming thats how you found out about all this.) Not cool on your end by doing that. Seems like neither of you trust one another. And, be honest, can you see yourself married to someone who does this? Because the point of dating is marriage, and if you don't see yourself marrying him, then2 1 0 0then I highly recommend getting out of this toxic relationship.
We have access to each other's phone. We have nothing to hide i just think this was a thing i didn't like. I know guys like naked chicks, just that adding them on your social media is a bit far. Especially since i know he jerks of to them (it'd be different if it was porn). He told me about her (idk what was the topic.. We were in our car). Yes I can and so can he. This isn't something to break up over. Just something I need an insight or advice one
It’s the actions of a little boy, not a man. And in my opinion you should be dating a man.
Well if it hurts you like this, and you've spoken with him, and things still haven't changed. They never will. On to the next!
2 0 0 0Mostly likely I won't tell him. If I do, I hope he takes consideration of how im feeling
If you don't, the problem is your's alone. How can he know it bothers you, if you say nothing?
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He is probability using the pics only for material. But the commenting he might be doing to help someone out like i am hopefully doing right for you. Maybe confront him and explain your concerns. Maybe he doesn't realize that his spank bank is getting in the way of your relationship. Assure him that your ok with him having a spank bank (if you are) and let him know that you are concerned that they are taking more of his focus than you.
1 0 0 0Thanks for the helpful reply. Truly :) that's really what im more concerned about :/ a spank bank lul well i don't care if he watches porn but adding naked chicks on every social media that he has, jerking off to them makes it look like he's obsessed with sex and naked chicks. Knowing that and how he doesn't care much that i don't send him nudes anymore or hype me up when i do kinda sucks. End up comparing myself to them T. T which I know I shouldn't
I am glad i could help.
Part of your reply to me got cut off on my app. I got all the way to you comparing yourself to them. I hope you talk to him and if he isn't willing to change for you then dump him. There is many other guys that would change for you.
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1 1You're why guys don't like dating.
1 1 4 0Stop being so dramatic. Thanks
I mean he has every right to follow who he wants to on his stuff. You don't get say on what he does on his social media. I mean if you're this insecure break up with him because if you don't then you'll make the relationship toxic
0 0 2 0That was terrible but thanks
How? He's your boyfriend not property. He's allowed to do as he pleases. If you don't like it you have the right to breakup with him. Simple as that
Bc you're stating the obvious and suggesting to break up. Im not the petty to break up over something like this... I know its his shit and he can do whatever... Just needed and advice/insight.
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