My boyfriend is asking me to shave down there but I prefer trim what should I do?

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  • Well tell him let's have a compromise. Meaning if he will shave down thier all the way. Then u will do the same. If he says no then tell him u will keep trimming down thier. Cause if he wants u 2 be clean shaven. Then he should be as well. It takes 2 2 get it on. Well then the 2 of u can come up with a solution. It's better now 2 find out. If he's willing 2 compromise. Then by him saying no. That's more proof it's all about what he wants. Not about what u like. Just him being a self centered asshole. Cause remember one thing if he's not willing 2 change now. Then later on down the road. He still want change. Which will lead 2 u having resentment issues. Next thing u know it's time 2 leave him. That's why I say do it now. Meaning test his love and dedication 2 u.

    • The thing is his clean shaven also

  • What is more important to you; making him happy or how you groom your nether regions? Shaving my face is a low priority for me; but not having a dog is very important (irrational fear of them). So I would defer to my girlfriend's preference for how I groom my face. However, I would rather leave her than have a pet dog.

Most Helpful Girls

  • Tell him that you prefer it trim.


    Like girl it's YOUR body. If the dude insists then just dump his ass
    If he doesn't insist then... I don't know make him a pie to thank him for understanding I guess 😂

    • Are you telling her to make him a creampie? 🤣

    • @ATG12 Yes, because I have a feeling she loves that banana cream.

    • @Daniela1982 Do you also like banana cream? 😂

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  • Lol, my choice!! I've tried each way, shaven, trimmed, and natural, and I prefer my neatly trimmed landing strip. Any guy that has seen it thinks it looks hot, but the main thing is that I like the way it looks.

    • Ok I give it a shot

    • Just my thoughts, but when I tried completely shaven, I felt (and looked?) like a 12 year old girl. Natural was just a bit messy, but the landing strip neatly trimmed just looks really sexy.

    • Hmmm thanks

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  • Stick to your guns, it's your body... the only person who should be in control of how to portray you is you

  • Is he trolling with you? But if he was that would make you gay because your question sounds like one a guy would post

    My boyfriend is asking me to shave down there but I prefer trim what should I do?
  • Do whatever you are comfortable with. We, Hubby and myself, let the other choose how we groom down there and really everywhere. We are comfortable with that.

  • It’s your pussy do what you like, I don’t like shaved because the stubble feels bad when I rub against it. You could warn him about that

    • Thanks

  • Compromise! Make a landing strip or a heart something kool. He'll like that

  • If it's a deal breaker for him dump him, he doesn't deserve you if he won't let you do what makes you happy with your body

  • tbf a brazilian is probably the better compromise... you still have hair then but most part is smoother

  • Save shaving as a special treat for him on a special occasion.

  • Go with what you prefer because after all its your body.

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  • I think you should protect the health of your sensitive skin down there and let your boyfriend know that if he can't accept your normal body he can go pound sand.

  • Do what ypu like and feel comfortable in

    • No I don't

    • Nice

  • Ask him if not shaving is a deal breaker. If he says, it is only a preference, then No. If it is a deal breaker, break the deal. You should not have to modify yourself for the love of a man.

  • Insist he let's you shave him there as well. And I mean he let's you use the razor of your choice to shave his balls.

    There are a few places you can learn to use an old fashioned straight razor...

  • Trim. It is not his place to tell you how to groom yourself

  • I'd rather a bush to trim only, I would not shave to please a man
    I don't like girls who shave down there

    • Same I prefer Bush or trim my pussy

    • Yes i agree @divya2009

  • Do what your comfortable with

  • Do what you like most.

  • So, you're turning over control of your own body to someone else? I thought that was what feminism was all about.

  • Shave for him you don't have to keep it that way but do it for a little bit compromised that's how relationships work

  • can't make my opinion until I see what it look like down there

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