My boyfriend talked me into anal then dumped me the next day. Why would he do that?

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He's my first real boyfriend, I lost my virginity to him and I love him. We were dating for 13 weeks so I must have meant something to him mustn't I? Last week he told me I was the most average sex he's ever had and wanted to make things better... so we should try anal. We did it, then the next day he sent me a text saying we should see other people. Is there any chance for us and how do I go about winning him back?

Warmapplecrumble · Accepted Answer

Did you use protection?

Go to the sexual health clinic and get a STD and pregnancy check up.

The answer to your question is: he did not find sex wild enough or pleasurable.

You seem very young. How old was your boyfriend?

Honey. You need to find the right guy for you. Guys at your age are only interested in what looks cool to their friends or how much vagina they can get.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

You don't win him back. You dump him and you don't look back. Please get yourself tested for STDs. While you're there also get yourself onto birth control. If you have a Planned Parenthood office in your area, that's the place to go. Please do these things right now. It's urgent.

BrittBratt2416 · Accepted Answer

He used you, he waited patiently until he got what he wanted. Once he got it he bounced our.. it was simply a challenge/waiting game to him. Why want someone back who used you? Ignore that a hole and move on..

WarlandWriter · Accepted Answer

"he told me I was the most average sex he's ever had"
This is not a red flag for you? He wanted to try anal and used you for that. I don't think he'll want to get back, and I don't think you should want that either. Even if he'd want to get back together, he'll probably just use you again

TheOtakuMaid · Accepted Answer

he realized it's not as good as a tight male ass and left you? I am putting money on that.

C-J-K-94 · Answer

yea sorry but he totally used you. sounds like he was with you just enough to get you comfortable with him and then used you for sex and then bounced. and in my opinion 13 weeks isn't a serious relationship. also, news flash. no guy likes sex with a condom. but I'd rather wear one and have a good time rather than have an amazing time and die or be very very sick later on. or worse, have a kid that I am no way emotionally or financially ready for.

TheCunningLinguist · Answer

I am so sorry, the fact that he insulted your sex in order to get anal should tell you all you need to know about him. He is no good. I know it hurts but he was a fake little boy who had no respect for you. He was a lesson. Learn from it. You will find a better guy who cares and respects you (as long as you demand respect and except nothing less). Remember that lesson. We teach others how to treat us by what we except.

Stvniqua · Answer

He used you for sex. in this case anal. You're too good for that prick. It may sound harsh but, forget about him. This generation of boys makes me sick. "fuckboys" are everywhere and there is a small percentage of boys that really want to love.

razeoes · Answer

wow thats cold. Screw winning him back, fuck one of his friends to get back at him

kmarty07 · Answer

you have been very fast about sexual​ relationship.

Browneye57 · Answer

Don't waste any more time with this asshole.

Kiels01 · Answer

you dont want him back he's just blatantly used you and said you are shit in bed! why would you want a boy like that? have some self respect girl

genericname85 · Answer

fucking hell don´t you realize what that guy did to you? he dumped you, cause he thought you´re not a good enough fuck toy! why in hell would you want that guy back?

i feel bad for you that you had to go through this but please draw the right conclusions and face the only logical consequence. this guy is an asshole and you never want a guy like him in your life again.

rajpotchh · Answer

must check uryself ur body and vo up to him taking a rod eat him nicely for using u..
u r too much immature

after loosing Ur precious. virginity to him also u want to go back to him and say that u want to win him back
he never loved u cheated u used u
that's why we should not have sex b4 marriage and check fr STDs be4 having it to anyone..
that was the most foolish decisions of Ur life..

Sluthater · Answer

He isn't worth your time. Save your time and energy for someone who will be with you even if you don't give it up. Young guys are pigs. I was a pig once myself. I know. The entire world revolved around their dicks. Find someone new who would rather hang out with you on a Friday and Saturday night then his friends. Then, don't give it up for 3 months. Thats enough time to determine if he is worth giving it up to. Loyalty is everything.

christian_witch · Answer

He never liked you. And honestly he sounds like a real fucking douchebag, so you are better off without him in the end.

iamsupriyo · Answer

You should have stopped at average! get over him, not worth your time!

Bezbozhnikustanka · Answer

He got what he wanted from you, now he's going to do the same thing to some other poor girl.

dudeinohio · Answer

my thoughts on exes:

Fk7676 · Answer

He left. There is no "winning back" thing. You are only inviting yourself trouble again.

Kataclyst · Answer

Why would you want an asshat like that back? find someone better who actually apprefiates you, sex isn't everything.

vspzz · Answer

pretty sure that's all he wanted from u sorry to say. U shud find better. cheer up kay

Midget_Hug · Answer

13... Weeks? ... Heh.

Karl99 · Answer

What an asshole. Wait 😅

royal_rathores · Answer

watch porn and learn the girl's act... call him again to have sex and prove that you are good in bed

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