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Sexual Health My boss is trying to have sex with me I'm afraid to lose my job?
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Ok so I finished my degree in law school and just found a job, trainer. I get paid 670€ monthly I've been working there for three months as an assistant and now my boss is turning things sexual. He tries to touch me. Tells me that I can't wear pants at the office, makes me stay after my shift alone with him, I have to have lunch with him, once he drove me to his place saying he had to pick some papers. I live alone and don't have anyone to pay my bills I need the money, he keeps telling me that he will know if I try to find a new job. I'm scared, what can I do? I can't lose the job but I'm afraid that he might rape me or something.
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If possible, try to stealthily record him saying something that could prove he's sexually blackmailing you. Then once you obtain sufficient recorded evidence, try to blackmail him back with it or something to turn the situation to your advantage or something. I don't know.
start collecting evidence.. build your case.. take your coworkers into confident... you must have strong docomentry evidence.
secondly you have to options.. take a stand.. and say to your boss that i know that you found me very attractive.. but i can't do any favors to you.. so lets have a working relationship..
or after the evidence part.. leave the job.. and write an application to your boss supervisor and tell him why are you resigning..
Don't ever give it up report the guy ASAP
leave that job you deserve better
Tell you boyfriend to kick the living shit out of the bastard.
She said she doesn't have one.
@likitb4istickit Sign up for Krav Magda lessons, then when he tries to rape you you knee him in the nuts and gouge his eyeballs clean out of his head.
I meant Krav Magda, I keep hitting the wrong letters.
I meant Krav Magra, I didn't hit the wrong letter, it was my spell checker, I thought the guy in the phone shop had switched it off, he said he had.
Collect evidence just in case
Yeah it's super illegal to do that.
Agreed
I meant not collecting evidence but she needs to know what's legal and not. I meant the sexual discrimination.
do you have some process to follow for sexual harassment? investigate and start documenting things. the god thing is you are already a lawyer
if things turn ugly you probably have to quit.
Assholes like that can be a real downer when you start your career.
you should raise your voice
Just lose the job. It isn't worth it.
i dont like the powerplay he is doing.
women should be in the position to call their own shots - but sometimes that can't work.
if you are going to fuck your way to the top - dont fuck every dog along the way.
that being said... the labor laws and sexual harrassment system that we have in the us doesn't apply in other countries the same as the us.
have you considered placating him by making up a boyfriend.. while you look elsewhere?
report it to the police or secretly record his video with your mobile
record him video or audio and report him
make a video of him trying to touch you and then show it to police
1) How the hell do you manage to survive independently on so little?
More importantly I wish I could come witb you in yourluggage, see what the slimey twat's about myself but I can't
Do you genuinely feel he's capable of something like rape? I know you need the job, you cannot lose it. I trust you, and I know you wouldn't willingly go with him regardless of whatever he puts you under. Does he offer to take you out, get you alone as often as possible? My mate's got pepper spray, police issie, but would you get it through customs? I'm not 100% on it's legality tbh, I just know it fucks you up, agony
I know you worry and get scared easily. Who else knows about his behavior? is he a married man?
Record some of this stuff and document by it. Sue him for sexual harassment.
You're a terrible lawyer. 😵
You should apply for jobs in different companies without showing any job experience（it will of course help you in the interview）so that your boss will not know
have sex with him, whats the big deal?
big deal is that I don't want to?
Why not give him blow job?
I didn't go to school to end up sucking someone's dick.
Then why are you complaining? Leave it start looking for job.. I am sure you are there for giving a handjob, blowjob
You must be stupid or something.
I am not stupid. I know what most girls wanted. i am a guy who works in IT industry i usually also this kind of favours. It's really simple If you wanted to grow super fast in your career do so favours it will pay off back.. Stop complaining..
Ok, now for sure you are stupid.
I changed my mind, stupid is not quite enough.
Ok, so?
Is he married? Get a friend to film him touching you inapropriatly the threaten to post it online where his wife will see it, he'll have to give you a raise if he didn't want to loose his house and kids and one of his cars in the divorce courts.
report his ass I'd wouldn't put upwith his bullshit
you can sex with him. you will get promotion in a quick time.