Sexual Relationships 
Sexual Health Guys, my boyfriend always has an excuse to not have sex with me, is that even natural?
sweetT23 Xper 3
Okay, so he works full-time for the city doing outside parks maintenance stuff and he comes home exhausted. I understand that he's tired but is that a good enough excuse every time to never be in the mood? It's driving me nuts because I have a VERY high sex drive and I feel like I'm begging him to get some, which is completely pathetic. Also, even if I do end up getting it, I am usually the one pleasuring him. Never the other way around. So, tell me, is this behavior natural or am I wasting my time? I would very much appreciate your input on this, thanks! :)
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What Guys Said
(20)I love all these white knighting answers.
you are wasting your time. go get other guy who will pleasure you!
thats kinda crazy to me. i really can't think of any reason i would make an excuse not to have sex.
He either has a low sex drive or is not really attracted to you. Make it known to him that you're not sexually satisfied, maybe even try a little seduction to see if that entices him. If not, you may need to rethink the relationship.
Ask him frankly that u want to do that. If he deny then...
Probably a nazi
Natural? Yes. A guy's sexuality isn't like a damn water faucet that you can turn on at anytime. That's rather sexist of you.
But anyway, have a talk with him. Being on the same page sexually is important for the health of a relationship.
How the hell is that sexist. I show him affection however I can. I make him breakfast every other day, I give him a back rub, I take interest in what he loves to do. All I want is for my sexual needs to get fulfilled. I can't even remember the last time we had sex... for a young couple, that's just not healthy. I just don't understand why his every excuse is that he's tired... sure, I understood the first few times and respected that but every time it's the same excuse? What's so difficult taking that little bit of time out of your life to make love to your girlfriend?
he might be really tired... .