My boyfriend asks me to send my nudes?

I am 18 and my boyfriend is 19. We met on discord. Were friends for 4-5 months and now we are in relationship. He's pretty serious about us and he's probably planning to tell his parents about our relationship. He's very understanding and supports me in every decision I take. He's concious about my career, studies and stuff. Which makes me believe he is not like other guys. But at times he asks me for my nudes, I send him snaps of mu nudes without my face in it. I told him that I won't send my face ever along with the picture, he convince me sometimes to send along with my face but he's fine if I don't feel safe sending face. He talks about our intemate relationship and asking for nudes very frequently... But is it okay doing so?
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  • I do not feel it is ok because first thing that he asked it frequently and second thing that he insists on face with them which you should never do not to even husband because you never know when the tables turn in the future are when can somebody find those pictures through any tech method... once you put something on Internet it Never Goes back it is somewhere there maybe you deleted from everywhere but still it is there... so stop sending any id suggest n also same id say for videochat... it is risky tho u trust on the person

    • Thanks for your advice 🙌💕

    • You're welcome @Manisha18

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  • I agree with you on not showing your face cause you never know where they will end up on the internet if you break up with him. Do you two get naked with each other? Are you having sex or fooling around with him?
    I'm sure he uses the nudes to masturbate to... as you know all guys his age jerk off frequently... but most will never admit it!

    • We haven't met in person yet. We are in a long distance relationship. He is going to meet me in the month of March or June

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  • Obviously it's entirely your choice, but know that at any point they could get out on to the internet and they will be there forever.

    I'm going to hazard a guess that this is a long distance relationship? If so have you actually met this guy in person?

    • Yes it is a long distance relationship. But he is going to meet me in the month of March.

    • Maybe after you have met him in person you will know how you feel about it more and you can go from there.

    • Yes, exactly.

  • Don't send him anything you wouldn't like to see published to the world.

  • You never know what could happen or who you might be dealing with. He could be nice today but in a month, he could use them against you. I wouldn't. Be smart. Only do that stuff in person or at least nothing with your face in it.

    • Agreed 🙌

  • It's okay as long as your are comfortable with it, but I would ask him why he wants so many nudes. Keep your face out of them as you never know what can happen.

    • Yes, I'll surely take care of it.

    • Also, i haven't allowed him to save my nudes with him. Because I send him those pics on snapchat so that he can view it only once.

    • Be sure he's not secretly taking screenshots. This link explains how he could do that:
      www.hapblog.com/.../

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  • it's okay if it feels okay for you. if it doesn't just say so.

  • It's fine, but 4-5 months =/= know well enough to call your boyfriend.
    That said, yeah don't show your face in them, and don't mistake desire for being shallow. If a guy truly loves you, he will crave every amount of nudity and affection he can get from you, it will seem obsessive, but then so is love.

    • Agreed, he's very loving and he's fine even if I do not wish to send him nude.

  • Never..

  • What country are you in?

    • India

  • If you’re uncomfortable sending nude photos then don’t. If you do send nude photos don’t show your face.

  • Its ok, if you're ok with it.

    • But its risky sending pics with your face in them.

  • Never trust any guy to send him nudes with your face be careful

  • We like to to see naked girls and it's even better if we're dating them.

  • once in a 3 days is normal...

  • Never send anyone nudes. Need to protect yourself.

  • Red flags already also don't send nudes if you are uncomfortable...

  • I assume he was the one who asked you out

    • Yes, but I didn't said him yes at first. I took 3-4 months to know him better... But previously I told him that it may take 3-4 years to make my mind committing a relationship coz of my past experiences and he was fine with that he said he'll wait. And finally i said him yes on his birthday:)

  • Dont send nude:)

  • You could just send a clothed one where you're posed in a sexy enough manner for him to masturbate to it.