Sexual Relationships 
Sexual Health Guys, my boyfriend beats the shit out of me during sex. Is this okay?
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My boyfriend forces me to have sex with him, and when we do, he has this cold look in his eyes. While he's fucking me, he gets a belt and beats me with it relentlessly. He also punches me in the face over and over until I'm bleeding and have a black eye, and he also slaps me so hard that my ears start ringing. He punches me in the ribs, arms, and legs, and he whips me so hard until I'm a sobbing mess and I have bruises everywhere, but he doesn't care. When I cry and scream for him to stop, he just grins/smirks and looks satisfied with himself. I'm powerless to stop him because I'm a petite, thin, 5'2 female, and he's 6'4 and really strong. He also gets a hard-on when I cry, and sometimes he jerks off to me crying. He also verbally degrades me and calls me things like "worthless fucking cunt." Outside of the bedroom, he's mostly really charming and funny and sweet, but he still insists on "putting me in my place" and even outside the bedroom, he calls me a stupid cunt. Should I break up with him?
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What Guys Said
(26)Don't date him. You have your own house right?
Sexual assault, battery.
Call the police
this is a joke, if its not, give him some of his own medicine.
Start shitting before sex so he can't beat the shit out of you
Marry that guy right away before some other lucky gal snaps him up!
This is a joke, and you still with him? The moment he start hitting you, that's a deal breaker. but some women love it when guys treat them that way in bed
Run! That's clearly violant abuse.
There also phone hotlines for cases like this (number depends on country). Often they provide safe houses in case you need to fear him following you and violating you.
You should stay away from him and move somewhere he won't know. If he gets off from seeing you cry when hitting you, it probably isn't a BDSM thing. It is probably that he has a tendency towards becoming a serial killer.
Seriously, you need to leave. Read about psychological profiles of them and you will likely agree.
hmm, i dont know. do you really need to ask if getting beat up is OK?
Boys will be boys.