Wow... That's pushing a sexual kink onto an unwilling party. Anal is great, giving or recieving, but some people just aren't into it. They never will be. If it were ME I would send them back and when asked about it I would say, "I have told you over and over I am not into that and you keep trying to convince me otherwise. You do not respect me, you do not respect my body, and even if I do feel like trying it I don't know if it would be with you. You have made me uncomfortable and put me in a position that upsets me and possibly upsets you, but I'm not going to let you dictate what I do with my body. So I sent them back.
If you want to tell him before you send them back just say, "Hey, babe, I know you are really interested in anal sex, but it's just not for me. I really need you to understand that it's just not for me. I am going to send them back because the money would be more useful than these toys. It's nothing against you, I am just stating, once and for all, it's not going to happen. Please stop buying these things. It feels like you are trying to pressure me into something I am not comfortable with and it's causing me to get stressed out. I love you and care for you, but this is hurting me. I hope you can understand."
That's just what I would do. You can handle it however you wish lol. These are just opinions, but even a little bit of stress in the sex department can sit for a long time. Sex is a matter of respect, trust, intimacy, and if someone applies pressure, makes someone uncomfortable, it can effect the entire sexual experience. I wish you good luck and I hope you find a mutual beneficial solution to this conundrum. Take care!!
Is there a specific reason you can't tell him? That would be my first question, given you're implying that telling him is not on the table. It's a huge red flag if you're scared that he might react bad just because you have a preference he wasn't caring about.
So, take a second to yourself and consider what's the real issue here. What is really blocking you from telling him. If it's a serious reason, like you feel like the relationship would be threatened if you express a preference, then your relationship has deeper problems, and you should reconsider your attachment to this partner.
I'll consider another possibility. Are you asking on this forum because, after all, you're not into anal stuff but you wish to be convinced to try? If that's the case, I can ensure you that a lot of people totally love anal after they try it with comfort and no pressure. I'll leave this interpretation open.
You simply sit down and talk to him that you are not interested in those types of toys. It is simple consent, of which you are not willing to give for that sort of act. Because you do not wish to consent to it, it is his loss.
He should have discussed anything like this with you prior to purchasing these items, knowing full well there was the distinct chance you would say no. I'd tell him this and that you are not going to be forced or persuaded into something that doesn't interest you.
Someone who does this does not have your best interest in mind. He just wants to satisfy his own kinks and doesn't seem to care of your opinion on the matter. I would make it clear that he needs to be respectful and ask before making such purchases in the future.
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Explain consent to him and that he needs to be an adult, and actually talk this through with you.
If he can’t get into his head that he cannot simply assume stuff and must ask for your consent, then dump his ass,
Alternatively, get a good 12 inch strap on dildo with sandpaper attachment, then tell him he’s first and to bend over.
After that first session, he really will drop the idea of Anal sex.
No big deal, just say you’re not ready for that. Maybe you never will be ready and that’s ok.
my girlfriend and I hated the idea of anal, then we slowly tried it out together... took us months to build up to penetration and then discovered we liked it
Seems a number of others thought the same way but yes shove them up his arse... Or a more sensible answer get him in a position where you can rest one against his butthole when he squirms say "oh I assumed you got them for yourself because you know I don't fo butt stuff'
Tell him to use that stuff on himself, maybe then he would understand you. :)
Why don't you ask him who they are for? If he says you.. say no. I'm not into anal.. I thought they were for you!
Tell him to bend over and smack the sh*t out of him after your done for thinking you were one to be f*cked with
Stick them in his 😌
He is just using you for sex
use them on him ;) seriosly though you should be able to send them back and have a good talk to him about discussing and respecting what you like and dont like before making any future purchases
Tell him "Sorry, I'm not doing that. You should return them. Or use them yourself."
That's very simple, tell your boyfriend that you're not into anal but you'd be willing to use it on him.
Tell him! Send 'em back! Not your responsibility.
Yeah just give him a chat!! If he loves you as much as it sounds like he does he will be understanding.
Tie him down and use them on him. Gag and blindfold him first so it's a surprise...
just let him know that you aren't into that.
It shouldn't be an issue.
Tell him to sit in a mud puddle and beat off.
Push them up his arse, I'd say :D
You simply have to communicate with him and put your foot down. And if it’s a deal breaker to him then he’s not for you.
Be honest & tell him. Be prepared to lose him.
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