My boyfriend don’t clean his ass right and that gets me disgusted?

I can’t ever have white sheets in bed because I know they most likely going to get dirty. There was one time and several times actually that he has got my white bed sheets dirty with 💩 stains. He tends to sweat a lot so I guess that has to do part of it. Last time we both took turns taking a shower and we had sex and when we finished he saw stains in on my bed and he said “is that you , I said no “ If there’s something I know how to do best is clean my ass and pussy right 😂

i was the one that introduced him to use wipes when going to the bathroom but he definitely not washing right 😅

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  • Y’all would be surprised how many men are out there like that.
    I’m sorry you’re going through this babe it’s so awkward 😭 but if he’s your boyfriend and you’re comfy enough to fuck him you GOT to tell him ! You don’t have to be mean or anything but next time y’all are in the shower together just tell him “hey love did you wash your body w the loofah? Make sure to wash your ass “ or something 😂 this happened to me w a guy I had a hookup w and I straight up told this man “I’m sorry but you need to wash your ass I saw a skid mark on your boxers and I don’t want no other person seeing it Im saving you from future embarrassment ❤️“ and he was embarrassed yeahhhhh BUT he thanked me lol

    • Lmao I was waiting for female to comment on this because this need to be brought up more 😂 . I don’t know if your Hispanic but there’s a saying that goes like “ ya tiene novio y no se sabe limpiar el culo “ within those lines 😂😂. I been with my guys for years and we are comfortable enough but I’m sure he will be so embarrassed if I told him that “ I think he doesn’t clean his ass right “ 😅 . I also notice he would use the loofah on his face and that shit rough , you’re not suppose to use it on your face 😂 . I don’t wanna play the mommy role

    • Yes I am OMG YES my dad would say that to me all the time I was like bro yes I do 😐😂 Anywaysssss yes I feel you I know you ain’t his momma but as his girl and best friend you NEED to be honest w him. Like Fr just tell him hey love do you wash your ass? Bc if you don’t you need to. And I’m a blunt ass person and I just be saying it how it is but if it makes you feel weird maybe watch a tik tok of a girl that is talking ab how men need to wash they ass or tell him your friend told you her boyfriend doesn’t wash his ass “how gross right babe?”😭😂it will subconsciously make him he need to wash his ass

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  • Just put one of these diaper sprayers on your toilet to use as a bidet and there should be no more dirty bums or any other part. They are around $25 on Amazon and are easy to hook up to your toilet. They also have versions that hook up to your sink faucet. On a side note, they also help get the big ones down so the toilet doesn't plug.

    My boyfriend don’t clean his ass right and that gets me disgusted?My boyfriend don’t clean his ass right and that gets me disgusted?
    • there you go

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  • I'm not skinny, i'm not Fit... I'm a Chubby/Fat mf, but that doesn't mean i don't do a deep clean of myself, only if i feel that i'm sweating i just look for a place to wipe/clean/dry out... i can't have people looking at me when i'm sweaty or any nasty odor coming from me, mainly that i travel everyday with the public transport...🤨

    • Sounds like you need a diaper sprayer too.

    • Lol, i don't need one, i just make sure, i leave home clean, and come back the same way... My answer was eing sarcastic about me, but obviously took it Serious! But guess judging a book by its covet, all it matters these days, and you haven't check my picture either, to see if Its For Real what i said... or not! But hey, that is you'r opinion!

    • @Daniela1982 maybe he can't reach his butt

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  • Let him know he isn’t wiping properly I guess…
    I mean I don’t know how it’s hard.


    Here’s my 3 likely guesses as to what’s going on
    #1 he isn’t wiping hard or deep enough
    #2 he isn’t doing enough wipes or maybe he needs to wipe the sides or bottom of his cheeks
    #3 his ass is secretly running and he doesn’t notice

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  • What a shitty situation. No one should have to deal with that crap. Dump him. And if it's not the first thing you do tomorrow, make sure it's Number 2.

  • I hope to God you're trolling. Otherwise, a grown man who can't wipe his ass or do basic hygiene right, has a girlfriend and I don't...

    • lol gross

  • It's totally disgusting, I'm sorry, but I don't know how you bear this. Now I'm wondering what he used before wiping paper 🤔

    • Only toilet paper but not wipies

    • The minimum in my opinion is this or taking a shower right after

  • So now having read this I hope people will be a lot nicer to people who thoroughly avoid getting into relationships.

  • This is fairly disgusting. He should take a shower before bed, and be sure to clean his ass. After elimination he should clean with a wet wipe. Or he can wear underwear to bed.

  • Buy him a " bidet sprayer". Looks like a sink sprayer. I solved that exact problem. Now you could eat dinner off my. AH. The cold water gets your attention, though.

  • Wear underwear to bed

  • Yeah that’s pretty gnarly, and embarassing. You should keep hinting at a wet wipe or something.

  • Its time for you to step in and wash his ass 😜😜

  • I... I don't understand how this is a conversation you need to be having with a fully grown man. Have him take a look at his diet and have him watch videos on how to wipe.

  • Are you like two walruses rolling around in your own sweat and shit?

  • Tell that motherfucker to wash his filthy ass before he gets in your bed, and to wear some underwear when he sleeps because he needs a diaper like a giant baby who can't grow up and wipe his own ass. Tell him he's not going to get any sex until he learns how to wipe his ass like an adult and the problem should resolve itself quickly.

    • Oh come one. Anyone can have a few problems with semi-incontinence. It may also depend on what you eat. If you don't get enough fiber your doo doo might be a bit more loose.

    • @Daniela1982 "depends"

    • @Daniela1982 read it again. this doesn't sound like somebody shitting themselves now and then. It sounds like somebody who refuses to wash or wipe their ass

  • HAHAHAHHAHAHAHA

  • Basic hygiene.
    Put up with it if you want, but it's not common - or correct.

  • Sweat wouldn't cause shit stains. My girlfriend sweats a lot. Her asshole is clean

  • I guess you won’t be licking his ass

    • 😂 I use to play around saying I want lick his ass. I stoped 😳

    • No doubt unless you personally washed it

  • I just three threw up in my mouth. Disgusting. Buy a Biobidet toilet seat and teach him how to use it.

  • Consider a bidet?

  • Then why is you still your boyfriend

    • My thoughts. Ew.

  • Wtf is that happening in our cwntury or you come from few hundred years ago when people did not had a shower?

    • They used a lot of perfume.

    • @Daniela1982 hehe thanks for the info. 😛

    • @Daniela1982 needs self cleaning toilet with the sprayer

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